Thanatos2k said:
I wouldn't have cared if JC (JessiCa?) Denton was a woman, and I'd hope women don't care that he was a man.
Okay, so, you're a girl, a little girl. You are, as all children (and most adults) are, trying to figure out what the world is and where you fit into it. You're constantly on the lookout for people to help you figure things out, because the world is confusing. Identity is confusing. You don't know it at the time because you're a kid and you've only barely even learned to think, but you're trying to find someone who can help you be the person you will one day be.
The only thing you know is that you are girl. You know it because everyone tells you all the time. Your clothes tell you that, the way your mother styles your hair tells you that. Your toys tell you that. Okay, fine, you're girl! That's okay. That's a good place to start figuring things out. So what is girl? Girl is not boy, you know that already--even a child who hasn't learned how to think picked up on that real early--but that's not a useful answer to you because you don't need to know what you're not; you need to know what you are.
So you look at the world, observing it like the larval form of a scientist, observing it and categorizing the results and trying to turn the data into useful information. You look at TV and you find that girl is pretty, girl is never fat and only rarely ever messy in her appearance, so you file away that appearance is important to be girl. You go to McDonald's and you find out girl likes ponies and princesses, so you file that away too. You go to movies and you find out that there is usually only one girl in the world, and she only ever talks to men and always ends up being their girlfriend, so you file that away too.
You go to video games and you find there's really no one like you in video games. The girls there are weird, they're off, and eventually you realize it's because they never do anything. They just have things done to them, usually by men, and they only exist when a man is doing things to them. Then they go away and stop existing until the man thinks about them again. You still aren't totally sure what girl is, but you know for a fact that's not right: You exist all the time, and you do things instead of having things done to you. For a long time, you decide that video games are full of crap and their teachings should be ignored because they don't know anything. One day, though, one inevitable day you're not really even thinking about it when a question occurs to you, the first question a child ever asks about anything:
Why?
Why are video games telling you that girl is a thing that never acts on its own and that only exists in relationship to a man? Is it because video games think that's what girl is, or (and you don't want to think this, you're kind of horrified and hurt to think this, but it's too late and you can't stop the thought from occurring to you) is it because that's what video games
want girl to be? And if that's it, why? Are they afraid of girl? Do they hate girl? Do they fear and hate
you?
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Let's drop the roleplaying (though you could fit almost anything in the place of the word "girl" into my example as long as it's not "straight, white man;" try "gay," "transgender," or "black"). The point I'm getting at is that you, Thanatos2k, are in a position where you don't have to care that JC Denton is male, because you have so many males to choose from. Women don't have that many choices. JC Denton may only be one character in one game...but so is every character in every game, and when you look at how all those one characters and one games add up, certain conclusions are inescapable. The video games industry doesn't want women to be part of it, which is really weird (their money is worth exactly as much as a man's money) but tolerable. What's more, it doesn't
like women. That last one is the one that stings.