I get bothered when I see other people kissing regardless of their sexual orientation. I've always been like this. Not amazingly bothered to the point that I have to look away but just bothered.
Kissing.
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It really wouldn't bother me, with regular constraints about not attempting to eat the other person's face.
Thsi thread reminds me of a great sketch from the comedian Russel Howard though, with two gay men kissing on an airplane. Somebody gets freaked out and yells at them to stop since it's 'unnatural', so one of the gay men turns around, says "you're flying," and goes back to the kissing.
Thsi thread reminds me of a great sketch from the comedian Russel Howard though, with two gay men kissing on an airplane. Somebody gets freaked out and yells at them to stop since it's 'unnatural', so one of the gay men turns around, says "you're flying," and goes back to the kissing.
If it's just random people in some random place where it's more 'appropriate' and easy to ignore, I don't care.
But if it's two people in a lecture hall, sitting in the row in front of me, yes I have a fucking problem. Luckily that has happened during one course. Those little horny turds just couldn't control their tongues, they were constantly in eachothers mouths. So the reason I'm so upset about it is that it was really no place to be doing that. I'm quite sure the only thing they learned during those lectures was what the other persons teeth taste like and that's something they could've learned at home.
But if it's two people in a lecture hall, sitting in the row in front of me, yes I have a fucking problem. Luckily that has happened during one course. Those little horny turds just couldn't control their tongues, they were constantly in eachothers mouths. So the reason I'm so upset about it is that it was really no place to be doing that. I'm quite sure the only thing they learned during those lectures was what the other persons teeth taste like and that's something they could've learned at home.
I'm lesbian, but before I realised I was (just before I turned 20), I found myself absolutely disgusted by any homosexual signs of affection (internalized homophobia, yo). After I figured it out, I'm pretty much ok with whatever. My least favourite is two men kissing, just because I don't like men, but it doesn't bother me. Even two girls kissing in front of me makes me feel uncomfortable if they're really going for it.
TL;DR - Nah, PDA's are fine, as long as they're not OTT.
TL;DR - Nah, PDA's are fine, as long as they're not OTT.
I don't really give a shit, to be honest. Whoever wants to kiss whoever else is fucking welcome to, be they gay, straight, whatever. As long as they're not too loud or getting in my fucking face, they can do what they like.
As soon as someone starts being obnoxious about it, though, you can bet I will tell them. There is a difference between planting a kiss on someone you love and mauling each other in lust. That second thing is annoying, regardless of who's doing it. Nobody wants to see it. You're just making everyone who is not me uncomfortable and everyone who is me irritated.
Seriously, shit is just inconsiderate.
As soon as someone starts being obnoxious about it, though, you can bet I will tell them. There is a difference between planting a kiss on someone you love and mauling each other in lust. That second thing is annoying, regardless of who's doing it. Nobody wants to see it. You're just making everyone who is not me uncomfortable and everyone who is me irritated.
Seriously, shit is just inconsiderate.
Forget the suggestions and just dump a bucket of cold water on them.Irridium said:
I have no problem with people showing their affection in public, regardless of gender, I just tend to turn away and give them some privacy. Seriously getting it on in public is not so good, unless its a party and I'm shitfaced enough not to care. (Well, I never get completely shitfaced, just various degrees of merry). If they're ever basically fucking in public, then thats something I really don't need to see.
Even on the reason why I didn't answer the second question?ArchAngelKira said:LegendaryGamer0 said:Not at all. I'm perfectly fine with it.
Um... I'm avoiding this question to avoid offending people and an inferno. :/
No, love is love and if two people wish to express their love for each other in an affectionate(non-sexual intercourse in public) way, that is their choice and no one is forced to look at them.
My basic point is, Love. That is all.
[sub]Though, I really wouldn't mind if they started fucking in public :/, see if I care. :/[/sub]
Ditto
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Grab her ass! Grab her ass! Give it a smack.... what? I didn't say to look at me.Irridium said:
Typical straight man here. It does make me a little uncomfortable to witness two men kissing one another passionately... in much the same way that it bothers me to see people I consider very ugly kissing passionately. I don't make any excuses for it, I know it's a little bigoted, but hey... that's just how I am.
We don't know that.bahumat42 said:
Then you would certainly hate most of the uptown in my city. :/Alon Shechter said:
They practically engage in sexual intercourse at the drop of a hat. :/
In front of city hall. :/
When there was a field trip. (O_O)
I don't have a problem that other people express affection towards eachother... I generally try to avoid places where it's common, and try to ignore it as best as possible, but that's just because when I see other people showing affection towards eachother, it shows me what I don't have, can't seem to get, and possibly don't karmically deserve(which might be why at every turn life seems to slap me and say in a stern tone "you don't deserve to be happy, now go scrub a toilet!") seriously though it makes me boil with an inexpliccable fury towards myself for being such a loser... but y'know my shit, my problems are meaningless, as am I... It has been proven time and time again that I am unwanted... not meant for this world... maybe I should just end it...the world that is... suicide is no fun unless everyone else dies too...
I only ever saw anyone making out this one time in elementary school. Standing up in the middle of a sidewalk, in plain view of everybody going into the school. About twice my size. And sounding sloppier than the dead the sludge from Dead Space's necromorphs.
So yeah, it bothered me.
So yeah, it bothered me.
I can tolerate low key public affection, but when you've got two people in our student common room locking lips and quite vocally going for it, it makes me feel remarkably uncomfortable.
Why? Because there's no need for it to be that gratuitous in a place where people come to relax, unwind and feel comfortable, when you're there going for a public display that catches absolutely fucking everybody's attention and they damn well KNOW they're making everyone uncomfortable then it's just rude and god damn selfish, hell, I've even asked people to tone it down a bit for everyone's benefit and you just get the standard "Oh fuck off" routine.
Makes me glad I never have qualms about kicking chairs from out under people who piss me off.
Why? Because there's no need for it to be that gratuitous in a place where people come to relax, unwind and feel comfortable, when you're there going for a public display that catches absolutely fucking everybody's attention and they damn well KNOW they're making everyone uncomfortable then it's just rude and god damn selfish, hell, I've even asked people to tone it down a bit for everyone's benefit and you just get the standard "Oh fuck off" routine.
Makes me glad I never have qualms about kicking chairs from out under people who piss me off.
So long as they don't get to second base, I'm fine, although I would feel slightly uncomfortable.
I tend to not put on public displays of affection very often. I consider more the feelings of all the single people and having been single for a very long time myself I don't like to rub it in peoples faces because I know how much it stings. Other people can make their own judgement calls on the situation. Gay, straight, tomayto, tomahto. As long as people are happy who cares.