Marriage without sex?

[DSK-]

I have hands, don't I? I see no problem here...

In all seriousness, I don't think it would be a massive issue if we are going by the situation laid out by the OP.

Having said that, as I don't know what it's like to be in that situation I can't be certain of my actions.

 

[katsumoto03]

It really doesn't seem to be marriage then, does it?

As somebody already said:

Technically speaking you must consummate the marriage before it is "official".

Either way, I'd be fine with it if she's fine with me sleeping with other people.

 

[PatSilverFox]

Does oral or masturbation count?

@OP Seriously, be more specific here.
I would definitely say yes if either or both of these ^^^ two ^^ were possible, but I have to consider it more if it weren't.

 

[Oneirius]

Does oral or masturbation count?

@OP Seriously, be more specific here.
I would definitely say yes if either or both of these ^^^ two ^^ were possible, but I have to consider it more if it weren't.

You are free to masturbate (I guess she can't, in the case that inspired this discussion, but for the sake of it, I guess you can say she can too), and you can have oral sex if you are fine with the fact that she is only ever going to give it to you, which to me sounds like an unpleasant thought (although, as we have already seen on this thread, some think otherwise and if you do, have fun)

 

[PatSilverFox]

Does oral or masturbation count?

@OP Seriously, be more specific here.
I would definitely say yes if either or both of these ^^^ two ^^ were possible, but I have to consider it more if it weren't.

You are free to masturbate (I guess she can't, in the case that inspired this discussion, but for the sake of it, I guess you can say she can too), and you can have oral sex if you are fine with the fact that she is only ever going to give it to you, which to me sounds like an unpleasant thought (although, as we have already seen on this thread, some think otherwise and if you do, have fun)

In my case it would be a he.
Yes I would like that, but would my partner be able to masturbate as well?

 

[sagacious]

sure! I came up with an awesome solution! it's called masturbation.

Seriously though, if the girl is THAT awesome as you described it would be worth it.

 

[AgentDarkmoon]

You are free to masturbate (I guess she can't, in the case that inspired this discussion, but for the sake of it, I guess you can say she can too), and you can have oral sex if you are fine with the fact that she is only ever going to give it to you, which to me sounds like an unpleasant thought (although, as we have already seen on this thread, some think otherwise and if you do, have fun)

My case would also be a he.

In the particular scenario you've laid out I think I would be alright, it would suck in the fact that I wouldn't be able to pleasure him though. And I can always get myself artificially inseminated if we want children.

 

[i64ever]

Marriage without sex, or as its known in my house...marriage.

 

[Raticate5]

After years of a wonderful, fantastic relationship, your lover wants to marry you so that you can both live happily ever after.

Because apparently it's impossible to be happy without marriage...

winnnnn xD

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Huh, I guess the guy kind of is at the mercy of the blower. Now I'm going to be scared next time that happens.

Heh. Actually, much of the work involved in a blow job is keeping one's teeth away from sensitive tissue while still applying pressure. It's harder than it sounds. *

You generally don't need to worry about a woman intentionally trying to bite down. As long as you return the favor (or do something equally pleasurable for your partner) you will find that we do our best to make blow jobs as pleasant as possible. I for one take pride in the quality of my blow jobs. ^^

* [sub]That's what she said. And the puns keep coming.[/sub]

 

[darkknight9]

Been there, done that. Even got the permission slip to go have sex with someone else. Didn't want to. I wanted my wife. I'm divorced now. If it happened again?

Na na na na, na na na na, hey hey hey, goodbye!

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much tension to bear. Not to mention if either of us wanted kids.

 

[PatSilverFox]

Huh, I guess the guy kind of is at the mercy of the blower. Now I'm going to be scared next time that happens.

Heh. Actually, much of the work involved in a blow job is keeping one's teeth away from sensitive tissue while still applying pressure. It's harder than it sounds. *

You generally don't need to worry about a woman intentionally trying to bite down. As long as you return the favor (or do something equally pleasurable for your partner) you will find that we do our best to make blow jobs as pleasant as possible. I for one take pride in the quality of my blow jobs. ^^

* [sub]That's what she said. And the puns keep coming.[/sub]

Rowr that's all so true.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

You are free to masturbate (I guess she can't, in the case that inspired this discussion,

What case? I feel like there's some really weird undercurrent going on in this thread, and I would really like to know what "case" inspired this thread.

PM me if it's something you don't want to talk about in the thread. I've known some people with physical issues, so I might have further insights.

 

[bdcjacko]

Been there, done that. Even got the permission slip to go have sex with someone else. Didn't want to. I wanted my wife. I'm divorced now. If it happened again?

Na na na na, na na na na, hey hey hey, goodbye!

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much tension to bear. Not to mention if either of us wanted kids.

Really, I didn't get permission...and she never asked for any. But end result, marriage without sex don't work.

 

[neonsword13-ops]

I really have no problem with it. as long as I have someone to game with, i'll be fine.

 

[Bloodstain]

I can still use my hands, right? Then I'm all in for marriage. Now gimme that dream person!

 

[VegetaPrinceofSaiyans]

This would honestly be perfect for me. 1st off, this doesn't preclude any sexual foreplay, kissing, cuddling, etc...and to me that type of thing is much more romantic than sex. I don't really see how penetration is necessary in the entire intimate scheme of things. I would give anything for a companion that I know would be loyal to me no matter what. One who would honestly be fine just being held in my arms and expressing our love on a deeper emotional level that transcends anything physical.

But hell what do I know, I'm 19. I'm supposed to be wanting to fuck anything that moves on 2 legs currently and yet I feel little to no sexual desire at all. (Honestly beginning to think that I may be asexual, but w/e)

 

[Socks and Shoes]

Live happily ever after.

Never have sex

Pick One. Sex is an integral part of most relationships. I probably wouldn't marry a woman if we could never have sex.

 

[bl4ckh4wk64]

So, after you get "married" to this person, you can't have sex ever again.

How is this different from a normal marriage?

 

[Haydyn]

Huh, I guess the guy kind of is at the mercy of the blower. Now I'm going to be scared next time that happens.

Heh. Actually, much of the work involved in a blow job is keeping one's teeth away from sensitive tissue while still applying pressure. It's harder than it sounds. *

You generally don't need to worry about a woman intentionally trying to bite down. As long as you return the favor (or do something equally pleasurable for your partner) you will find that we do our best to make blow jobs as pleasant as possible. I for one take pride in the quality of my blow jobs. ^^

* [sub]That's what she said. And the puns keep coming.[/sub]

I've always jumped at the opportunity to return the favor. I just haven't had the opportunity in a while. That's awesome, I have a hard time finding good head. O well, I'll get there eventually.*