Triple post actually... but you're forgiven.
I think that life just is, you are dealt what you're dealt, and you've got to make the most of it. Somebody could say that that makes God malevolent, he deals some people fantastic lives and possibilities, and others a total shit storm. But I don't think that's the case. I like the watchmaker analogy, where God just took the watch, made it and fine tuned it, started it up, and walked away.
So maybe God is guiding us behind the scenes, maybe he isn't. But the fact stands that MOST people born in Africa, have it tougher than people who live in the US. Does that mean their lives are worse? Hardly.
The sum of your experiences dictates how you feel about certain things. Here in North America, we have almost unlimited fresh water that we can drink without end. But we don't really value that water, because it's just normal for us. But if you take a young, orphaned African boy who is dying of thirst, that one taste of water before he dies could be an experience far greater than any somebody from North America could understand.
I know it's easy for somebody with an easy life like me to just say: "Play with the hand you're dealt," but if you don't just accept your life and live through the hardships, you'll never get the chance to experience that one moment of success. It can come in many forms this success, but when it hits you, make sure you drink it up. It's as good as it may ever get.