cainx10a said:
Again, where did I say I believe "kids should be free to be as obnoxious and disrespectful as they like". You actually support violence on a KID by an ADULT who is 3x older than him, an Adult with three kids under his charge who cannot control himself, and barge into the house of another family to hurt their kid. This is not about a little brat who deserves a spanking (hell, that would have been funny), but an adult man strangling a child because he couldn't handle comments made in a video game, comments he could have easily ignored with the MUTE feature.
First off, the "kid" was 13. Not 6. By the age of 13, I was bigger than a reasonable percentage of grown men, I'd held down several different jobs, traveled to a different continent, and read more books than many people will read in their lifetimes. This is not an instance of "Well, kids will be kids, and you should just put up with their pesky shenanigans". At the age of 13, he qualifies as a young adult.
Attempting to literally murder the kid would be out of line. Choking someone is a relatively inefficient way of going about that; I admit, I'd have been considerably more approving if he'd just walked in, punched the kid in the mouth, and walked out, but sometimes, I'll take what I can get. If the kid had been 6, sure, a spanking would have been in order.
13 is entirely too old to spank.
Control was missing on all sides of this equation. The man could have controlled his urge to choke the punk out, and the punk could have controlled his urge to talk shit on the internet, and the parents could have controlled their urge to think that putting the fear of pain into their child at an early age qualifies as child abuse.
In a way, I approve of his actions not because they were the "right thing to do", but rather because it was an instance of someone acting out against a set of societal rules that increasingly coddle people who actively abuse the protections that society affords them.
Given my druthers, I'd be ecstatic to see the practice of dueling revived.