And I don't consider somebody really being a relative through the technicalities of the bullshit institution of marriage. It's not like you gre up with this girl you only just met her. Situation A: If you're dad was seeing this girls mother and they weren't married you would not even be the step sister of this girl. You would not be by your definition related to her. Situation B: Exactly the same except your dad stood in a church for a day and that somehow makes her family. Bullshit.MrHilter said:snip