Terminalchaos said:
Wrex Brogan said:
...and of course there's the pissing match of 'which hobby is worst'. C'mon guys, can we not do the 'sports is worse' 'no gaming is worse' shit that detracts from the whole 'Problems in Gaming' discussion anyway? Honestly, if you're playing the 'X hobby is worse than Y hobby' thing it comes off as more of a deflection than a solid argument.
Anyway, dick move on behalf of those doing the threatening but it's... honestly unsurprising at this point. There's such a volatile underbelly to gaming where any decision by a developer is going to be met with death-threats or over aggressive claims of 'worst game ever', and the scale of the change is just going to increase the volume of the shitheads. It's the shitty standard of behaviour devs have to prepare themselves for from gamers, which... well, sucks, but that's the internet for you. 'Hey we tweaked this guns damage by 2, warn the guy running twitter that he's about to have a fun time.' is a conversation I imagine has happened far more often than it should've.
Oh well.
Can dick move be considered a gendered insult?
...really?
And now you just deflected it back to gaming. "There is such a volatile underbelly to gaming... "
...That's not a deflection. That's called 'bringing it back to the topic', since the thread is about... you know,
gamers doing shitty things.
thats the issue and biased language we have to deal with.
No it isn't.
The other issue is that other hobbies are just as bad yet don't get nearly the same degree of hatred and vilification. Gamers have to pay for their bad apples but other groups seem to get a free pass. The issue is the "problems in gaming" discussion being held portrays gaming as a unique hotbed of iniquity when there are other hobbies with equal or more egregious problems.
...when the thread is about 'game delayed so devs get death threats', the issue isn't about other hobbies, it's about gamers. Other hobbies can be worse or better, I don't give a fuck, we're talking about
Gamers here.
Also the fuck 'portrays gaming as a unique hotbed of iniquity'? We're on a gaming forum, in the
Gaming Subsection, talking about Gamers doing shitty things. How the fuck does discussing gamers doing shitty things in the place
to talk about gamers make it a 'unique hotbed of iniquity'? It's an internal discussion about gamers acting like fuckheads on some rando gaming forum, not a fucking post to the New Yorker from people not involved with the community. C'mon.
I'm not asking to deflect the problems some gamers cause. I'm asking for all groups to be treated the same due to their malcontents or perhaps cut gamers a bit more slack like other groups seem to enjoy. Arguments about "the problems of gaming" seem to portray these malcontents as being unique to the gaming community. A lot of these discussions falsely portray gamers in all sorts of horrible ways then accuse those who defend gamers of deflecting or ignoring the issue. We should be no more responsible for our assholes than any other group.
...Again, we're talking about
Gamers in the
Gaming Forum in a thread about
Gamers reacting negatively to a developers decision. We can bang on about treating all groups equally, but when we're
specifically talking about Gamers in a thread regarding shitty behaviour gamers have done,
Trying to go 'well other groups are just as bad' is a deflection. It's drawing it away from the main issue.
The issue being 'Gamers acted like fuckheads'. Talk about the problems that these 'malcontents' do cause, don't just go 'What about Sports guys?'. That's not being responsible for our assholes, that's pawning them off as someone elses problem because 'well, X is worse'.
People making threats are jerks. Doesn't need to apply to gamers any more than any other group. Sports fans who make threats are jerks, feminists who make threats are jerks, activists who make threats are jerks, gamers who make threats are jerks. no group making threats is any better or worse for making those threats. Their communities shouldn't be held accountable for a group of malcontents any more than any other group should. Enough of us have dismissed or condemned those making threats that to ascribe the blame to the gaming community is utter bs.
...Except I'm not saying we need to apply it more to gamers than any other group, I'm saying 'bringing up other groups doing similar shitty behaviours when people are trying to talk about the problems in one group doesn't solve anything and makes it into a pissing match of Who Has It Worst'. There's a time and a place for these things - if people want to talk about how bad the sports fans can get, they can make a thread about it elsewhere. Bringing it up here, when the topic is on '
Gamers sending death threats' just deflects from the issue rather than furthering the discussion.
Shit, if this was that thread about 'Sports fans being assholes', I'd be ripping a new asshole into whomever goes 'Well Gamers are far worse', because again,
It's not fucking relevant to the topic at hand. If a community is trying to discuss internal problems related to shitty behaviour, bringing up another community does
nothing but detract from the actual discussion at hand.