Jake Martinez said:
Animyr, I answered pretty much every question that you put forward in my previous post.
I must beg to differ. I see that while I was away from the forums, you decided that the matter was decisively resolved. That's fine, but you said some things that I feel compelled to respond to anyway.
your premise that Soleil is gay or even bisexual is a completely wrong. She's not. Really, really, really she's not.
Firstly, the game text says pretty clearly that she consistently finds women more attractive then men (including when directly comparing the two genders), and people defending the game have pointed out that she continues to do so even after she falls in love with the MC. That fact might hurt the allegation that there was gay conversion shenanigans, but it also indicates that you're overreaching when you try to remove the character from an LGBT context entirely.
She even states quite clearly that the MC, is the only person that's ever made her excited "that way"
But right afterwards, the character says this "unusual excitement" derives from her seeing the MC as an attractive woman, and that he's the only *man* to make her feel that way. This seems to be the only context in which the character falls in love with men--when they look like women. Key word being *look.* I'm not sure how you can construe this as something other than based in physical attraction. So when you say that---
you are...conflating romantic attraction and feelings with sexual feelings (actual sexual orientation).
--I don't really think that's relevant. Firstly, Soleil's attraction to women does not seem to derive from close emotional bonds, as you imply, but from appearance. If not strictly sexual or mature, it certainly sounds physical in nature. Secondly, emotional/romantic attraction towards the same sex still qualifies as homosexuality (homoromanticism is a more precise term I've seen). Your assertion that lesbians must strictly be sexually attracted to the same sex to qualify as such isn't quite true. Attraction can take many forms, but it's still attraction.
in Japan Soliel's behavior isn't considered gay.
Alas, just because Japanese culture doesn't think someone is gay doesn't prove they actually aren't. Every culture has blind spots.
You point out that Japanese culture encourages homosexual behavior among straight people, but that ambiguity cuts both ways--how would you know that someone isn't really gay? It sounds like genuine lesbians would historically have been lumped right in with everyone else in being told that they had to stop dating women, "grow up," and start dating men (homosexuals still generally remain closeted in Japan). Indeed, the tv tropes page you link to explaining the cultural context says as much.
You point out that Soleil hasn't shown any intent in pursuing sexual relationships with women, but that doesn't prove much by itself. After all, straight people can be asexual or otherwise not have any interest in an actual relationship (possibly due to maturity reasons), so why can't gay people? Indeed, before the romance subplot Soleil has shown even less interest in relationships with men then with women. If the character is having troubled relationships with women and needs to learn how to conduct an "adult relationship," as you put it, the logical conclusion is that the character learns how to conduct an adult relationship with
other women. But the real endgoal of her growth is to conduct an "adult" relationship with...men. Even people I've seen defending the character in its cultural context, like you, admit that that's it's not exactly a sensible direction in which to take her.
Now the character is (reportedly) only romancible by men. So Soleil is indeed straight as you say. But that also makes little sense. You say we need to understand the cultural context, and I agree--I don't think the character's straightness makes sense except in a cultural context that presupposes (wrongly) that young people with chaste lesbian preferences are really straight people stuck in girlhood crush mode, as opposed to gay people stuck in girlhood crush mode. After all, if a man expressed a chaste infatuation with women, would it be fair to assume he's really gay?
Of course, since Soleil is fictional, she conforms to the sexual expectations of her writers. But only by authorial fiat. The whole argument of "but she's not gay, she's really straight, that's why she needs to stop swooning over women" seems to me to be one step below "she's not gay, she's really straight, that's why she needs to stop having sex with women." While such a scenario is technically possible, do you see how forced it is, and the level of assumption required to validate it? Combine this with the physical nature of Soleil's homosexual feelings and her general lack of interest in men--and the transvestite-esque conditions in which such an interest does develop--and Soleil comes across as a gay character whose homosexuality was forced into the backseat even when it didn't make sense to do so--and whose writers didn't fully understand how that looked.
So while the issues with gay conversion therapy seem blunted, I think the gay erasure thing still has substance. In a game that promised homosexual representation, they added a character that actually acted explicitly gay, but even she was straight after all, thanks to forced plot devices and esoteric social mores. The added cultural subtext of lesbianism being a phase doesn't make it any more endearing, as does it's playing with the patronizing old fantasy of a man "persuading" a "lesbian" to come around. Since there are few gay characters as is, Soleil's treatment is somewhat irksome from an LGBT perspective.
Redryhno said:
Dude, your entire set of arguments is based on WESTERN standards.
I understood that the first time. And I get it. The devs did not intend to offend or come across as anti-gay. I never thought otherwise, and for the record, none of the initial internet outrage I personally saw (which introduced me to the issue) thought otherwise either.
But the implications stand regardless.