I want you to understand something very important.crimson5pheonix said:That's not how it looked to me. Silentpony was bringing up what they saw as a destructive mentality, where they take a reasonable stance (not taunting a vet with BBQ) and make it unreasonable (banning BBQ because it might trigger or offend someone). And you responded with saying that nobody is ever unreasonable and thus Silentpony can't be right.
Offending someone and "triggering" them are not the same thing.
When a person has PTSD, the memory associated with a traumatic event is not fully integrated into normal memory, but is instead dissociated. Usually a person can recall what happened, but cannot fully remember how they felt. This allows them, most of the time, to continue functioning normally. However, sometimes environmental cues or "triggers" will cause that person to access the memory, which activates the brain's evolved threat response.
I don't generally care that much if people are offended, which is why I don't care if other people being offended offends you. It's far more weird to me that you care so much about the life of some random Australian woman than that she does, considering it's her life and all. However, when it comes to people being "triggered", when it comes to people who have suffered trauma and who require, to quote Silentpony, "aggressive, intensive daily therapy" (which noone gets, by the way, even if they need it) then I start caring, because mocking mentally ill people for symptoms they literally cannot control, symptoms which are caused by having survived horrifying experiences no healthy person can comprehend, is just a dick move.
But it's also revealing, because it's exactly the kind of dick move we've come to expect.