A post of yours from another thread:
AkaDad said:
As a gamer of close to 40 years, I've seen the way female gamers have been treated like 2nd class gamers. Whether it was in the arcades and now online. Some of harassment I've witnessed was disturbing.
The gaming industry, like other aspects of life have tipping points, and now that women and like-minded men are fighting back against those males, who think they can treat others badly, there's been so much whining, anger, and lashing out when they refuse to put up with the bullshit.
Don't blame feminists, blame the people who brought us to where we are, those people who thought it was OK to sexually harass and use racist and homophobic slurs.
For people who claim there's an agenda, there is and it's called progress.
If you don't think that there's enough balance, start your own gaming website and discuss the plight of the white, male gamer.
AkaDad said:
My deepest and sincerest apologies for not being calm after someone accuses me of lying. What was I thinking? I also shouldn't have to put up a disclaimer that says I'm not talking about all gamers, I mean come on.
First off they didn't accuse you of lying, they accused you of being lazy and not listening to their side of the argument before using blanket statements. Completely different things. Secondly, we know you aren't talking about all gamers just dicks - or "the white, male gamer", as that's how that seems to have translated in your head. Now, as a white male gamer, I find that statement to be insulting. I've never felt that my place in the gaming community was in danger, but thank you for lumping me in there too with that blanket statement. Also, why is it only [b/]white[/b] male gamers? Misogyny isn't limited to only one race - women's rights in the Middle East for example are horrible and women have been killed for trying to improve them - so why are you trying to make it out like that?
AkaDad said:
That's what baffles me. I've never seen anyone say ALL gamers are dicks, yet some gamers are getting offended when clearly the discussion has been about dickish behavior, harassment, and abuse.
Why is it so hard to distinguish between the two? It's almost like it's intentional.
Because people on [i/]at least[/i] one side don't want to distinguish between the two and would rather tar everyone against them with the same brush. Read the Jensen spoiler below and when you're done tell me you didn't get upset at that.
AkaDad said:
Why are people that don't harass, say sexist and racist things getting so defensive when they aren't the people we're talking about?
Why? From the first page of this thread: K. Thor Jensen - (Videogames Journalist)
and Helena Horten - (Videogames Journalist for Vice)
I'm a gamer, I enjoy video games. As such, I'm a subhuman who needs to be exterminated (for the good of the Reich!). I'm a man, so I need to be killed because other men I'll never know or meet have said some truly disgusting shit. That's why [i/]I'm[/i] getting so defensive.
AkaDad said:
Just because I didn't comment about Zoe Quinn or the guy that compared gamers to ISIS, it doesn't mean I'm on their side.
You're right, it doesn't and your overall moral stance is great. An end to harassment and racism and sexism would be a wonderful thing. Shame there's so much mud-slinging from both sides - hell, there's mud-slinging [i/]within[/i] both sides as people will yell at you even for disagreeing with them over small details.
Howsabout we take a deep breath and start over without the sweeping generalizations? Is that too much to ask? (I'm talking to everyone here not just you AkaDad)