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boag

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Lagao said:
boag said:
Lagao said:
I always create a persona close to my own.
Sorry pixels don't attract me nor am I constantly paying attention to my virtual ass.

Its a game, stop getting off on it and play the damn thing.
Curious, do you find any visual representation to be devoid of emotional attachment, hormonal or otherwise?
To sum a long rant up, yeah pretty much. Its a game, not real.
Interesting, permit me to pry a bit more.

What types of games do you enjoy?

Do you have any favorite characters?

If you do why?
 

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boag said:
Lagao said:
boag said:
Lagao said:
I always create a persona close to my own.
Sorry pixels don't attract me nor am I constantly paying attention to my virtual ass.

Its a game, stop getting off on it and play the damn thing.
Curious, do you find any visual representation to be devoid of emotional attachment, hormonal or otherwise?
To sum a long rant up, yeah pretty much. Its a game, not real.
Interesting, permit me to pry a bit more.

What types of games do you enjoy?

Do you have any favorite characters?

If you do why?
Lol, I see where this is going.
 

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Fappy said:
I think someone else also mention their inability to romance males while playing a females. I admittedly feel the same way. The only time I have ever romanced guys as a girl was when I banged Garrus and Thane... I guess the fact that their aliens somehow makes it better. I don't know lol.

As for ToR's character models, I feel the same way. Why the fuck are their so many super heroes running around? This is Star Wars! No one in Star Wars looked like that! Not even Vader! I based my Bounty Hunter of Samus (have the Aran surname), so I pretty much had to play a female :p
You misunderstand. I don't have a problem with pursuing romance options when playing a female character. I've done it before, and I see no reason to believe I won't do so again. It's just that I veer away from them when certain options available (or canonized) for a male PC appeal to me more. It's not so much an issue of 'difficulty' per-say, as would be simply my preferred pairing in what might as well be presented as a love-triangle.
 

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Asita said:
Fappy said:
I think someone else also mention their inability to romance males while playing a females. I admittedly feel the same way. The only time I have ever romanced guys as a girl was when I banged Garrus and Thane... I guess the fact that their aliens somehow makes it better. I don't know lol.

As for ToR's character models, I feel the same way. Why the fuck are their so many super heroes running around? This is Star Wars! No one in Star Wars looked like that! Not even Vader! I based my Bounty Hunter of Samus (have the Aran surname), so I pretty much had to play a female :p
You misunderstand. I don't have a problem with pursuing romance options when playing a female character. I've done it before, and I see no reason to believe I won't do so again. It's just that certain options available (or canonized) for a male PC appealed to me more.
My problem is that the standard male romances are usually so... boring? I don't know, maybe when I get into a female character's shoes I am looking for something in the romance options that they don't have because they aren't female (besides tits). Honestly though, that's just a role play limitation I have a problem getting over. I romanced Thane and Garrus because they were interesting and I wanted to see how they played out, though I am not entirely sure how much sense role play-wise the romances were for my Shepards.

In my sisters DnD campaign I am currently playing a female Monk who is the first female tabletop character I have played (I DM a lot so I am used to roleplaying females). I was able to altogether avoid the issue of romance by stating she was a lawful good monk that took a vow of chastity.

Maybe some day I'll be able to role play a proper man-boning female, but for now I'll stick with the solo-act/lesbian relationships :p
 

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I always alternate with my characters, first a guy, then a girl, etc. It really makes no difference to me since I more often than not don't actually role-play my character anyway. Most of the time gender is just cosmetic.
 

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I always play as a guy if it's a choice, but I have no problem playing a female.
 

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Somonah said:
Given the choice i always play a female character. It all started with mass effect. Femshep was just so much cooler, now i find female characters in general alot cooler.

Only exception would be the draenei shaman i played in WoW, played a female draenei. It's the exception because in stead of it being a coolness thing, it was a hotness thing :p
Dat ass.

I played a female Draeni alt for a while >.>
 

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Given a choice, I usually play as female characters myself. In stuff like Fallout, it doesn't make much difference though.

In Saints Row, it's kinda hilarious and awesome since the dialogue always seems to be written with a heavy dose of testosterone.
 

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It depends, really. I think it's an aestetic question for me. All Skyrim-characters I've played for a respectable amount of time has been male, and most of them Khajiits. I don't know, I just think they really nailed the look, there.

However, my favorite combo in WoW is female tauren, particularly plate-classes. Mainly because they're one of the few WoW-ladies with sensible proportions, but also because they just look good. No, great. No, fantastic. Even more so decked out in matching plate armour.

But I doubt it really "counts", as the non-barbie thing means there's very few horny teenagers playing them, and thus reducing the whole stigma about it. Also, I suppose the gender-thing sort of goes out the window when you're a Death Knight...
 

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BloatedGuppy said:
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You can thank millions of man hours of men pretending to be a semi lascivious little girls for that. As creepy as it sounds.
I've never really understood why this would matter. I don't go trolling online games to find dates, and I don't find "semi-lascivious little girls" erotic in any case, so it would all be moot to me.

Related question...if you were playing a game, and it had an attractive female NPC in it, would your affection for that NPC be altered if you found out her dialogue had been written by a man?
I dont really mind, as long as the character is well written and develops properly during the story arc, im happy.
 

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boag said:
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I used to always play male characters in online games, since I was creeped on a lot.

I just generally enjoy the escapism of it. Though I'm finding in MMO's these days, people don't assume you are the same gender as your screen character.
You can thank millions of man hours of men pretending to be a semi lascivious little girl for that. As creepy as it sounds.
Oh yeah, I know. A good friend of mine always plays female characters on F2P MMO's, because he's very good at flirting for cash shop items. So far he's racked up over $1000 in CS items and assorted steam games by doing that. Love him to bits, but...

Yeah, I think that makes him a virtual whore.
 

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I don't mind people doing it, but it doesn't feel quite as immersive to me if I'm not playing my own genre.
 

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Iwata said:
I don't mind people doing it, but it doesn't feel quite as immersive to me if I'm not playing my own genre.
Yeah pretending to be an action game when you're really an RPG can... wait what?

:p
 

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I base it all on character model, for example in Skyrim all the males look like hideous abominations while females are less hideous and easier to look at, I can't wait for a mod that lets me turn everybody into an anime girl
then there's Mass Effect I just can't picture Sheppard as anything BUT a male

but for MMO's where the story is up to me, I tend to make females just because I like the armors females get more, plus I'm tired of the big hulky guy trope.
So really its all up to what feeling the game gives me b4 I play it

still I don't have a problem with playing either or people who play them
 

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Fappy said:
Iwata said:
I don't mind people doing it, but it doesn't feel quite as immersive to me if I'm not playing my own genre.
Yeah pretending to be an action game when you're really an RPG can... wait what?

:p
Oh, you... :p
 

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Really don't understand why people complain about gender, insecurities of their own?

I quite fondly recall getting verbal abuse from other players I'd be smashing in a couple of competitive FPS from yesteryear; rude enquiries into why would I pick a female model? Was I a flaming homosexual? The truth is I quite enjoyed the slightly smaller models but the main reason was preferring to hear a female grunting and moaning in my ear whilst bunny hopping for hours on end and sustaining damage, instead of a male one. Who was the supposed gay one again, not that it really matters?
 

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GoaThief said:
Really don't understand why people complain about gender, insecurities of their own?

I quite fondly recall getting verbal abuse from other players I'd be smashing in a couple of competitive FPS from yesteryear; rude enquiries into why would I pick a female model? Was I a flaming homosexual? The truth is I quite enjoyed the slightly smaller models but the main reason was preferring to hear a female grunting and moaning in my ear whilst bunny hopping for hours on end and sustaining damage, instead of a male one. Who was the supposed gay one again, not that it really matters?
Never really understood why most recent FPS games only allow male models, and in many cases you don't choose any aspects of how it looks either.
 

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Well, as it was said to me by one guy:

"If I'm going to be staring at a characters ass for hours on end, might as well make it a nice ass"
 

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For some reason when gender is up in the air I pick a male character, I guess because it's supposed to be a roleplaying game. I tried a female character in New Vegas once, but something about how she walked bugged me, so I changed the gender when I got far enough away from goodsprings...it was kinda of awkward to load a file titled Elizabeth after that though.

It's working out better in Skyrim though.
 

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Wolfram01 said:
GoaThief said:
Really don't understand why people complain about gender, insecurities of their own?

I quite fondly recall getting verbal abuse from other players I'd be smashing in a couple of competitive FPS from yesteryear; rude enquiries into why would I pick a female model? Was I a flaming homosexual? The truth is I quite enjoyed the slightly smaller models but the main reason was preferring to hear a female grunting and moaning in my ear whilst bunny hopping for hours on end and sustaining damage, instead of a male one. Who was the supposed gay one again, not that it really matters?
Never really understood why most recent FPS games only allow male models, and in many cases you don't choose any aspects of how it looks either.
One theory is that most of them revolve around the US military and while females are allowed to serve they ARE NOT permitted to serve as frontline soldiers. Fun fact a lot of people don't know about. Sounds sexist at first glance but I have heard very compelling arguments from men and women why this is actually a good thing. Not sure how I feel about it honestly.