Poll: Are gamers good in bed?

[rbstewart7263]

Seriously do we have the rep of being good lays? last I checked we dont but its been awhile since I checked. The advent of the gamers looking to get laid dating site has got me wondering? Are we masters of cunninglingus or do most of us just lay there?

So I want to hear your stories. How do you rate yourself?

How do you rate other gamers youve slept with?


Ive never considered myself particularly great but everyone ive slept with has said Im pretty good. One of my problems is I have pornstar expectations of how sex should go.lol

Never really fucked a "gamer" lady myself so unfortunately I cant comment on the other half.

This should be good.

 

[Jarek Mace]

As a virgin, I can safely say that I am the mighty god of sex. I stride into battle wielding my divine eleven-inch meat sword; the Vaginites quiver with fear, envy, and desire as I approach them.

... I have nothing constructive to contribute to this topic.

 

[Spoonius]

I'm very handy in bed.

 

[SciMal]

Seriously do we have the rep of being good lays? last I checked we dont but its been awhile since I checked. The advent of the gamers looking to get laid dating site has got me wondering? Are we masters of cunninglingus or do most of us just lay there?

I don't think gamers have a particular stigma attached to them regarding sexual performance. Nerds do - and it's a positive one, but Gamers =/= Nerds.

So I want to hear your stories. How do you rate yourself?

Stories? Is this your masturbation material or what? That sounds unnecessarily creepy to me.

I'd say I'm average, maybe better than average. Enthusiastic depending on the circumstances.

How do you rate other gamers youve slept with?

Below average to average. Due to my geographic location (very conservative, lots of stigma on sex) and just the plain ol' tendency for women to not really know the subtleties that separate "this is good" and "holy shit". Granted, I'm sure the same is true of men, but I think the bias is against women for this one. Most of the women I've been with think "cowgirl" is the peak of physical activity during our bouts.

Ive never considered myself particularly great but everyone ive slept with has said Im pretty good. One of my problems is I have pornstar expectations of how sex should go.lol

Like I said above, there's a difference between "good" and "I'm using this as a benchmark." Only two gals I've been with were bad at sex (which takes some doing considering all it takes to get most men going is a bit of moaning and laying still). Very, very few have been great.

Also, you shouldn't have those expectations. They're doing you more harm than good.

Never really fucked a "gamer" lady myself so unfortunately I cant comment on the other half.

This should be good.

Why would they be any different? Because they like to game? Because they share a supposedly male-dominated passtime? Because gamer girls might tend towards liberal attitudes about sex?

In my experience, enthusiasm is what makes the difference between "average" and "hell yeah" sex. A cold-fish gamer girl is going to get blown out of the water by the sunny painter who's excited about being with you. Not even close.

Also, in my experience, I've had much more fun with girls who were Height-Weight Proportional, and the healthier their diet, in general the more energetic they were. Sorry BBW's out there, but that's my experience.

 

[Calibanbutcher]

I would not say that gamers have a great rep when it comes to coming.
Of course, many PC-gamers (glorious master race etc.) do have very fast fingers, but it is rare that someone would want a click-job, whilst consoleros (dirty, dirty peasants) are kown for having well trained thumbs and general experience with analog sticks, but without the necessary button layout, many are found stumped, usually asking where the buttons are, when being presented the "analog pads" attached to the female body.
WE are known though for being able to "stay up" all night and open to "raids" with parties larger than two, although many are also known for being fast shooters, but we also learn very fast upon gaining experience.


Concerning my personal experience.
I am told that I am very good in bed by the (exclusively female) partners I asked, who were especially praising my magnificent penis, which apparently is of such amazing proportions that no other penis is a match for it, whilst emphasizing that my technique must be a gift given to me by the gods of love.


In all honesty:
I was told that I am very good in bed, by girlfriends and One-Night-Stands both.

 

[Stasisesque]

They've ranged from the worst lays ever, seriously it was so bad I had to stop it. Jesus Christ I didn't think it was possible to be that bad at sex. I wasn't expecting the world, but when you actually argue with me about which hole is the right hole you have to go now. Bye-bye.

...to gods of sex. I really don't think one has any bearing on the other here.

 

[Goofguy]

Uh, I'd say gamers would be just as good at sex as anyone else? Why would we be any better or worse? It's not like the gaming past-time affects your skill in the sack. In fact, I highly doubt there is any correlation between the two.

Pretty weird topic here, OP.

 

[DugMachine]

Good as anyone else? I assume most gamers aren't social beasts that get layed with a different man or girl multiple times a week so average? Hell, I know i'm no crazy sex god in the sack that's for sure.

 

[Erja_Perttu]

I've dated plenty of gamers and I've had a mixed bag. Some were mind blowing, some were average and some were so awful it was pitiable.

Surprisingly, one of the worst was a pc gaming metal guitarist. Fast fingers on a fret/keyboard, sure, but it just didn't translate.

 

[Cabisco]

As a virgin, I can safely say that I am the mighty god of sex. I stride into battle wielding my divine eleven-inch meat sword; the Vaginites quiver with fear, envy, and desire as I approach them.

... I have nothing constructive to contribute to this topic.

And yet you said such a hilarious sentence that I think you should get a round of applause.

Erm, I assume unless they are some weird subspecies (which considering how they are treated with such fear/respect/admiration/lust/loathing i'm starting to suspect is true) it is the same as most sexual partners, unless of course they plan to fuck you whilst playing minecraft or something in which case she's likely a keeper as most people don't like being pretty much ignored whilst fucking.

 

[Colour Scientist]

I've only ever had sex with gamers and they were both good and bad, probably the same as any other group of people.

 

[OniaPL]

Uh, I don't understand what being a gamer has to do with being good in bed.

That being said, all of my partners have been quite pleased with me.
Never been in bed with a "gamer" though. Current girlfriend loves Dragon Age: Origins, Baldurs Gate 2, Jade Empire and KotOR 1+2, but that's pretty much the extent f it.

 

[Calibanbutcher]

I've dated plenty of gamers and I've had a mixed bag. Some were mind blowing, some were average and some were so awful it was pitiable.

Surprisingly, one of the worst was a pc gaming metal guitarist. Fast fingers on a fret/keyboard, sure, but it just didn't translate.

I would advice on consulting with aa classicaly trained guitarist for such matters.
Better fingerstyle...

 

[Phasmal]

You're asking a bunch of gamers if gamers are good in bed?
This is gonna be another one of those `rate your own intelligence` type threads, everyone reckons they're above average.

Gamers are people, people can be good or bad in bed.
If I had to guess as a collective I would probably say worse than average because we've got probably a higher than usual count of virgins and most people aren't great at something the first time.
With regards to a `rep`, I don't think non gaming people are seeking gaming people out for sexytimes. And I'm pretty sure the ones who do are pretty much hated by everyone who games.

 

[DoPo]

If the existence of topics like this is anything to go by then probably creepy and not often in bed .__.

Well said.

And what is this obsession for some people to not only label themselves in some way but to try and wrap everything from the label about themselves. I'm a gamer, that means I play video games. I don't see this having that huge an influence of my life to define me. I like to think that I dress, walk, talk and act as a normal human, not that I'm somehow special and act different solely because I like X or my hobby is Y.

CAPTCHA: watch out

 

[Rose and Thorn]

I was a sex god first and a gamer second.

Honestly speaking now, I am really good in bed and I happen to be "good" at videogames. I don't consider being good in bed a skill. I think most people "mostly men" think that they have to strive to be better at sex as a skill and they are to focused at whether or not they are doing things right or wrong during sex. Where as I don't look at it like that, I make love and give all my passion in that moment with whoever I am with. I know what feels right/good and so does the other person. It is about being assertive and giving. Aslo frankly it is about "feeling it", just that natural instinct.

I was always good at sex even when I first lost my virginity. I guess because I wasn't a pig that was obsessed with sex and being masculine. I was comfertable sharing my feelings in and outside the bedroom. I wanted to give pleasure as much as I wanted to recieve it.

Now there are peole that are bad at sex. Those are the ones that don't give, but only receive. Like in the movie "Ten Inch Hero" there tends to be "beautiful" women that don't need to be good in bed to be pleasured. Women that are less desirable or considered unattractive have to please their "lover" with more then a flat stomach and high cheekbones.

Usually in a relationship there is a giver and a taker, but when you have two givers, two people that unconditionally want each other sexually, then that is a heavenly experience.

I guess what I am trying to say is, while true gaming in the past was more of a geekdom culture type of scene that was considered uncool and recluse, that is not the case anymore. The fact on whether or not someone plays videogames is becoming seriously irrelevant when it comes to their ability at having sexual intercourse.

 

[purplecactus]

I am a god. There are women fighting for a chance to sleep with me.

...and in reality, I'm more than good enough for myself so far, so why on earth shouldn't I say I'm good in bed?

On a serious note, I wouldn't have thought the 'gamer' aspect would have much impact on something like that.

 

[Dags90]

I wasn't expecting the world, but when you actually argue with me about which hole is the right hole you have to go now. Bye-bye.

Maybe urethra sex was just his jam? There are weirder kinks.

I don't think I've had sex with anyone who would call themselves a gamer.

 

[rbstewart7263]

I was a sex god first and a gamer second.

Honestly speaking now, I am really good in bed and I happen to be "good" at videogames. I don't consider being good in bed a skill. I think most people "mostly men" think that they have to strive to be better at sex as a skill and they are to focused at whether or not they are doing things right or wrong during sex. Where as I don't look at it like that, I make love and give all my passion in that moment with whoever I am with. I know what feels right/good and so does the other person. It is about being assertive and giving. Aslo frankly it is about "feeling it", just that natural instinct.

I was always good at sex even when I first lost my virginity. I guess because I wasn't a pig that was obsessed with sex and being masculine. I was comfertable sharing my feelings in and outside the bedroom. I wanted to give pleasure as much as I wanted to recieve it.

Now there are peole that are bad at sex. Those are the ones that don't give, but only receive. Like in the movie "Ten Inch Hero" there tends to be "beautiful" women that don't need to be good in bed to be pleasured. Women that are less desirable or considered unattractive have to please their "lover" with more then a flat stomach and high cheekbones.

Usually in a relationship there is a giver and a taker, but when you have two givers, two people that unconditionally want each other sexually, then that is a heavenly experience.

I guess what I am trying to say is, while true gaming in the past was more of a geekdom culture type of scene that was considered uncool and recluse, that is not the case anymore. The fact on whether or not someone plays videogames is becoming seriously irrelevant when it comes to their ability at having sexual intercourse.

Well said well said.

And I know for alot of people this is a weird topic but for me an mine we tell sex stories all the time.

As to the correlation well ones lifestyle does affect performannce. A cold mercenary will obviously be different than say a broadway performer. So yeah when you sit and game for said amount of time focusing on one thing or another it will be subtle but it will be apart of you and since "you" is what your giving to someone then yes it does matter at least a little.