Not really, although I don't consider myself a gamer in the way the title is usually used.
¤ I play games on casual. I might go up to as high up as hard once in a blue moon.
¤ I will not run around looking for every single collectable in a game without a cheat sheet in the wings if doing so means losing 4-6 hours of my life searching like a blind idiot - heck I'll sometimes skip the collectables all together unless they give you stuff.
¤ I'm a button masher.
¤ I gamed very seldom until I was around 18 years old; in fact for years the only games I played with any regularity was Doom and the Encarta children's trivia game.
¤ Half the time I don't know what you guys are talking about - games, developers, inside jokes, etc.
¤ I'm a girl. (j/k)
There are probably more points I could bring up against my gamer status - ones that make more sense even - but I'm super-duper-über tired.
TL;DR: No.