Well, here's the thing about being narrowed down into a specific social category...
To define an individual as a group is to form intolerance or acceptance for who that person might actually be, in a sense, stereotyping. Possibly and eventually, just plain prejudice. Being specifically defined as a gamer hurts my feelings to a certain extent since it opens doors and windows to certain undesired social experiences and interactions in between most others. I enjoy novels, jogging, and other things that most others might too. So, say if you enjoyed playing football. Would you be offended if I narrowed your social status down to the level of being called a jock and making irrational comments such as man-hugger or potential closet alcoholic. Yes, I'm sure that you would be disheartened by such a remark, or even possibly enraged.
In today's media or public view, gaming is unnecessarily used as a scapegoat for most common scenarios involving illiteracy all the way to murder. When you're a gamer, people will generally look down on you as a lower being of sorts, intellectually undesirable and dependent, all that sort. This is hardly true at most. Yes, there are people are there portraying these similar qualities due to unhealthy mental and physical life styles, but that's them and only them. Not me, or even the guy that I know down the street.
I understand that most people need to have their standards to feel socially accepted, alike needing to have the ability to sort and manage certain items on your shelves as ugly to perfect. The point is that most folks need a person to look down on, and one to look up to in a manor that is worthy of praise and worship. I've really never accepted this, but I've understood it crystal clear.
So, people, before you go making irrational suggestions about that "gamer" down the block, remember that he is no different from you. You have your hobbies, he has his. Accept him/her as a fellow human being, rather than some undesirable. Educate yourself before you make these decisions too. That's all that I ask.