Of course we think you're weird!
You appear to have an eyepatch, but no parrot or anything to go with it!
You appear to have an eyepatch, but no parrot or anything to go with it!
Ah, c'mon. Most people aren't going to argue as fiercely with a pretty member of the opposite sex as they would normally. Or they'll make a semi-conscious attempt to compensate for their attraction in some way. The point is that it's not as natural as total anonymity.Mortai Gravesend said:Exploitative? Wtf? I would hope that we can have higher expectations of people so that we don't consider something so minor as exploiting people. As if they're so witless they'll be exploited by a pretty picture -__-James Joseph Emerald said:If you're ugly, it's awkward.
If you're attractive, it's vain.
It especially annoys me when it's an attractive person doing it on a forum dominated by members of the opposite sex. Then it seems exploitative.
Kind of a no-win situation really.
I don't mean to imply that's a naive attitude, but that's kind of a naive attitude =PMortai Gravesend said:I tend to expect others to be able to do the same, it wasn't hard at all to ignore their looks.
I make commercials for a living, so I'm not insecure about my looks, I just like my avatar.LordFish said:So I've noticed that I appear to be the only person in the internet to have a real picture of me as my avatar... Am I weird? uncool? confident? scary?
Common, What gives?
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The 'No' answer should read "No, It's nice to put a face to the words" For some reason it wont let me edit it
Doing what things? I was giving examples of how looks affect people's judgement of value. How a pretty face increases the seeming value of the object it's related to. How is that a non-sequitur? Replace video games with forum posts.Mortai Gravesend said:Bullshit. Doing those things does not indicate an inability to ignore looks in an argument. Try again without such a huge non sequitur.
I never opposed your claim that people can ignore it, I simply opposed the expectation you expressed that most others do.Mortai Gravesend said:Because you're opposing my claim that people can ignore it with instances of people not ignoring it. That's as much a non sequitur as if I said people can go naked and you gave said "But look, people aren't going naked!"
My point is that most others aren't as neutral as you about these things. So when people make a conscious effort to use their own face as an avatar it raises questions in my mind about their motives. That's all I'm saying.Mortai Gravesend said:If I dislike them or strongly disagree with them I'm going to argue with them just as fiercely. I've certainly done it before. I tend to expect others to be able to do the same, it wasn't hard at all to ignore their looks.