I've a friend who's into dubstep. Being a young 18-24 adult, you can imagine I go to nightclubs and other such places. This is the right place to play dubstep. When everyone's too pissed to care and and the only goal is either "dance like a fool" or "get progressively drunker" (I do both.)
My friend listens to Skrillex on his laptop at home when when I'm over and we're having a chat, or playing a game. This is not the right place to play dubstep.
I also can't differentiate between what's supposed to be good and what's bad within the genre, it all sounds like a robot whistling through a voicebox underwater.