Thanks, but that isn't very helpful since I'm not very good at doing that either. Just talking to normal everyday people makes me a nervous wreck as I'm always afraid I'm going to say something wrong or odd that'll give them a reason to shun me or worse, harass me. There's some history behind that, but nevermind that. Fact is there are extremely few people I can actually relax around and feel comfortable talking to without being nervous. I hate being sociable and talking to people. I can't understand how people can go out to clubs and bars and other such social events to unwind, because to me that's me stressful than my college classes. So if I were to try that, I'd then need to unwind from that.Darkauthor81 said:Talk to them like you would anyone else dude. They have bewbs but they're the same creatures as your mom, your teachers, etc etc. Just because they're cute doesn't make them some foreign visitor you need know a special language to speak to.canadamus_prime said:Damn it! I voted 'No' before I noticed that 'No, but I really want one option'.
Suffice it to say, YOU LUCKY BASTARD!!
I have no luck with women, I don't even know how to talk to 'em nevermind pursue relationships.
If you're getting nervous. Then you're simply caring too much. You get wrapped up in "What if she likes me. What if she doesn't like me. I really hope she likes me. Oh god I hope she likes me." It's like diving off a diving board. If you start thinking about what might happen if you slip, or fall, etc etc you'll never jump. Stop thinking. Defiantly stop caring. And just go. The chances this girl is "the one" is next to zilch so you're getting nervous over nothing.
It's takes practice. But you'll get it if you try. Trust me, I use to be paralyzingly shy when I was in high school.
wait isn't it: "a gentlemen never asks, and a lady never tells"Souplex said:A gentleman doesn't tell. *Smug smile*
I wonder if MMOs hold a key to a happy relationship. I see many couples playing MMOs in the various guilds I have been in.olfelix said:We've been married for 10 years, we don't share consoles (key to a happy gaming marriage), we've played MMOs together for just over 7 years and are eagerly awaiting Dragon Age 2.
This is outstanding. We've gained a lot of great experiences playing MMOs, and what's better than sharing all your greatest gaming experiences with someone you're going to spend the rest of your life with?Sepphyre said:I wonder if MMOs hold a key to a happy relationship. I see many couples playing MMOs in the various guilds I have been in.olfelix said:We've been married for 10 years, we don't share consoles (key to a happy gaming marriage), we've played MMOs together for just over 7 years and are eagerly awaiting Dragon Age 2.
Your situation is very similar to mine. We have been together for 12 years and I got her into WoW. She played the SNES before we met so she already had the gamer in her. Since WoW we have tried Guild Wars, Age of Conan, Warhammer and Aion. As I type this, she is playing RiftShe is also looking forward to Dragon Age 2, and also Guild Wars 2.
She is into it at least as much as I am. Being a chess coach, she is quite studious, and she researches these games to the nth degree... many notes and bookmarks!
Sex.We've gained a lot of great experiences playing MMOs, and what's better than sharing all your greatest gaming experiences with someone you're going to spend the rest of your life with?
Perhaps, but they hold the key to a LOT of annoyance for innocent bystanders who happen upon the happy couple. You do not want to have such a couple in your raiding guild or PvP group... trust me. I say that from experience, I've been one half of such a couple once.Sepphyre said:I wonder if MMOs hold a key to a happy relationship. I see many couples playing MMOs in the various guilds I have been in.olfelix said:We've been married for 10 years, we don't share consoles (key to a happy gaming marriage), we've played MMOs together for just over 7 years and are eagerly awaiting Dragon Age 2.