I know you don't mean it this way and that is why I feel the need to point this out here, so you realize how what you said comes off.Fenrox Jackson said:So here is the funny thing here! Preference is not what you think it is. Lemme ask you something, were you born with the ability to do math? Or did you learn it? For whatever reason, when it comes to something that isn't tangible people make it sacred. If your preference is for white guys, then in reality your brain has been fed supportive and reflective ideals for white people (even if you aren't white), and if your preference even goes as far as to say "I just don't find black people attractive" what that is all about is that you haven't worked that pool of resources enough.
If you fill up pot a with happy white people and you trinkle in an occasional black dude into pot b, then you will prefer pot a. So, without your real control (This is where a lot of racist people freak out, thinking people are blaming them for something out of their control, well tough, we all do it and the good ones fix the problem) you developed your preferences, meaning you are racist, but not in a real and meaningful way!
To get over this just find black people attractive! It's super easy! Find people that share interests, force yourself to get familiar with a black sex symbol, once you get it started it just snowballs. Then, THEN, you can finally be a cool guy!! Someone who doesn't see or really care about race! Now you can still be a total racist if you want but at least your stupid racist brain will stop making you racist without your permission.
Who you are attracted to is not simply nurture. There are biological aspects that play on what traits people find attractive, as well as social and cultural pressures. When all put together, you can easily get quirks for or against various traits, up to and including traits that are nearly exclusive in some races but not others(natural hair color) or up to even ones that define the race (such as skin color).To get over this just find women attractive! It's super easy! Find women that share interests, force yourself to get familiar with a female sex symbol, once you get it started it just snowballs. Then, THEN, you can finally be a cool guy!! Someone who doesn't see or really care about gender! Now you can still be a total sexist if you want but at least your stupid sexist brain will stop making you sexist without your permission.
What you try to explain here sounds exactly like the same misunderstanding of things that has homophobics telling people they can learn to not be attracted to others of their own gender. It is not so simple and you really insult everyone here trying to present it as such.