So, you were already upset, and then you antagonize the next person to upset you?shitoutonme said:Another thing was that she upset me at a bad time. I had a heated argument with my English teacher that morning about how her grading methods are unfair and stupid (as far as I'm concerned, they're retarded), and since I felt wronged, I was more or less discontent and irritable the entire day. It's possible that I might not have reacted in such a manner to that girl's quips if I was in a better mood that day, but like I said, I've been meaning to kick someone out of my car for complaining.
On the other hand, her losing her job would be quite the lesson in appreciation and gratitude. Just sayin'.
And now you go and make a thread on a forum trying to get people to justify what you've done?
What you have here is a guilty conscience.
Yes, it is rude for her to have pointed out the flaws of your car, but its just as rude to take out your frustration with your English teacher and other life problems on this girl.
At least, that's how you feel deep down, or you wouldn't have made this thread. People don't just make threads like this unless they want approval for their actions, and you yourself have voiced doubt on the matter.
You should suck up your pride and go explain what had happened that day, that what she said about your car upset you, and give a good, sincere apology.
Even if she is the biggest jerk in the world and responds terribly, you can then walk away from this matter with a clean conscience.
Though you should probably try to look for more pleasant people to hang out with in the future if this kinda thing keeps happening.
To put it out there, I did something in the same vein today. This morning, I managed to get an appointment for meeting my potential future neurosurgeon. And then my class went from 8:30 to 2:00 without a lunch break. So, I'm upset by people poking around in my head and am hungry as Hell. I'm not the nice Erana right now.
Then, after class, I was trying to ask a professor if we were going to continue painting small paintings through the semester, when another student interjected with, "Small isn't bad," and went on to talk about his experience making works the size of postage stamps.
I responded by saying in a frank tone, "I'm not here for your input," and walking away.
It bothered me for a few hours, in which I was trying to justify my reaction by insisting that he was looking to argue with me by implying that I was trying to argue for large works of art and presenting an argument against it.
I called my mother up and told her that this has been bothering me, and she pointed it out, plain and simple: he was just trying to strike up a conversation with me, and I completely shut him down. And he seemed like a socially awkward guy, so being argumentative in conversation may be the only way he knows how to chat.
I resolved to apologize and while I'm prolly not going to see him 'til next week, I feel better about it already.