Poll: Pretty or Hot?

[General BrEeZy]

definitely along the lines of pretty. girls like hearing stuff they dont hear every day, thats why i go for more rare and sublime compliments to try and "win them over", but that was high school...
man im bored lately.

 

[lizards]

face=70% of beauty

i honestly dont even know what to say other than that so ill say it again (along with the previous) face=70% of beauty

 

[shticks]

I don't really like using the term "hot"

It sounds too sexual and almost sexist in a way. When someone says "hot" they're probably thinking about just the sexual part of it. That's why I like cute, pretty or beautiful.

OT, though, I like non traditionally hot girls. Small breasts, nice figure, intelligence, personality and glasses are a bonus

So, I guess pretty or cute by normal standards

I've never met a girl thats worth my time that preferred to be called "hot" over being called beautiful.

 

[Canid117]

Can't I have both? Gigantic titays will only distract me for so long before I look at someones face.

 

[Assassin Xaero]

Pretty. Hot usually means people just want to get into their pants and they are probably a *****/douche bag.

 

[Tehlanna TPX]

Justin Bieber hair? Any girl who falls for that has daddy issues.. or their mommy corrupted them with Donny Osmond. Disgusting.

 

[AgDr_ODST]

'hot' which to me includes big breasts and ass are mainly appealing when Im looking for porn or nude art.

That said when it comes to girlfriend material I'd take a pretty girl who is flatter in both areas has wit, humor and intelligance along with a warm smile, and a great personality over someone who has the bust and the booty but is a ***** personality wise. But if she could have the qualities that I look for in pretty girl while having the proportions of a hot chick I wouldn't complain

 

[Novania]

Pretty. Without a doubt.

 

[Poofs]

i like pretty girls who are attractive all around
i also ted to gravitate towards girls with problems, who knows?
i dont give a shit about tits or ass though

 

[Blindrooster]

similiar to asking "lust or love"

 

[Kinguendo]

I, being a fifteen year old boy who has no plans of getting laid anytime soon

You're an incredibly strange 15 year old.

I don't prefer either, I can see the good traits of both.

Got that right, when I was fifteen I was formulating plans to bang glamour models... Delusional, sure. But everybody dreams.

 

[Solemn Soup]

A pretty person with a nice personality is nice to be around than a hot person that acts like a snob.

 

[dorkette1990]

I've dated "hot" people and they are boring. They usually talk about hideously stupid things. I almost never notice someone's cute until I've talked to them A LOT. Then one day, I realize this girl has a perfect smile, or this guy has amazing arms. THOSE people are the ones worth dating.

 

[Betancore]

To me, someone who's hot is someone who's (to me) sexually attractive, and someone who's pretty...well, I'm just not attracted to pretty boys, so there. The male equivalent to 'pretty' is probably 'cute' and I guess I do like cute guys. It depends on their personality as well, though. And what I'm looking for.

 

[Wildcard5]

I could truely care less for looks. I prefer that which is less likely to be deminished and depleted over time. I prefer morality and personality.

 

[Therumancer]

Pretty.
"Hot" in my* definition, is big boobs and a big butt.
Pretty on the other hand, is someone who is cute, fun, and has a great personality.

Oh, and no one is gonna answer "I like ugly people"... not seriously anyways.
Because, to them they wouldn't be ugly.
*[sub]How I see the world sees it[/sub]

Actually I think Bob Marley would have disagreed, didn't he write a song about that.

In response to the topic I said a little of both. We're talking about physical attraction here, and looking at it from that perspective I'm not really that interested in a fat girl with a pretty face and a "wonderful personality" or a Phyllis Diller type with a knockout body but a face that could be described as nightmarish... though admittedly in that case they do make masks and fetish hoods and such.

Now for a more serious relationship the priorities are going to be differant, but due to my own problems that is never going to happen, and I long ago decided I was never going to have kids since there is no way of knowing how much of my problems are genetic.

Someone to have a fun fling with is something entirely differant from a serious relationship, and I'll be entirely honest in saying when your younger you should focus on the former since my situation aside, pretty much every case I know of where people decided to get too serious too soon as ended in disaster.

As far as someone's comments on "fake perfect" I'll simply say that girls who have plastic surgery and such are people too. Plus if they care that much about their apperance that way chances are their out for fun (and sex is generally only going to be part of it). Not something to be avoided even a little bit. Plus honestly, everyone does mellow when they grow up.

Mostly for the OP, all I'll say is stop worrying about it. If girls don't generally like you (as goes along with the whole nerd thing) it's no big deal, things can change when you get older. If girls like you just fine, then hang out and let what happens happen, no need to rush sex or anything, but truthfully worrying about whether someone is too "fake" or not is a quick way to misery.

Of course being a disabled nerd who currently lives with his parents, I'm hardly someone to be giving life advice.

 

[CheckD3]

I look for someone who I can love. Sex is nice, but having had sex with only one person, I find that it's better than the stories I've heard of my horn dog friends who have to get general with how they have sex, where as while it's the same, we now know what works for the other, making it better for both of us.

I love breasts, I love cleavage, and I love booties sticking out just calling for me to grab them all the way to a sexual harassment lawsuit. But I like to just look at them, enjoy the view, think about it while alone and having some extra tissues to use. It's just not something to rely on in life. Think of it as the villain in a video game. You know it's there, and you wouldn't be able to have the game without it, but if you can't overcome it, you lose.

 

[eclipsed_chemistry]

With all due respect, flipping through most of the comments on this thread, it seems to me that most of you are HORRIBLY stereotyping girls based on their looks! Hot does not equal bitchy, and cute girls have their fair share of problems as well. If you're intimidated about how "hot" a girl is and have never gotten to know her because of it, then just man up and own it, don't automatically classify the girl as being a ***** because of what you've heard about her.

Even if you think you've seen her acting like a *****, EVERYONE has bad days, and not everyone deals with their emotions in the best way. I feel bad for "hot" people because their lives will always be scrutinized by those who feel inferior or intimidated by them.

And yes, for the record, I'm 21, I've had multiple girlfriends in high school and college, many of whom you would probably classify as "hot." I'm just saying, you should never, ever judge someone until you've gotten to know them because if you haven't, you have absolutely no right to stick a label on them.

 

[Slemmy]

the greatest way to resolve this situation is to bury your feelings down for a few years then have traumatic things happen to you and dont go to therapy, and watch someone die and not care
then when your emotions are gone you wont have to worry about simple little things like love or abs or boobs... or hair
but also its a matter of what you are looking for in a relationship, i myself just got out of the worst relationship ever that the other person called a "fling" which (as im sure most of you know) is when two people get together for the soul reason of physical attraction (which btw i think is a horrible idea) and they just be horny together and are not really in a relationship now in that case you would go for hot (but i dont recommend getting into a fling
but if you are actually looking for a real relationship with someone that you want to last and you want to cherish them and be with them just for them then you go with.... wait for it "personality" if you truely love someone it wont matter if they are aesthetically displeasing because you should love them for them
but personally i say dont bother with any of it in general
to quote a brilliant woman "Sex is icky and full of fluids"