emeraldrafael said:
I dont call my self Cherokee cause of the 6%. Its 6% of my ancestry but had a larger influence on my life then anything else. Its the difference between ethnicity and ancestry. And ethnicity defines a person.
And thats great, I'll talk about it begin from america, but again, there's plenty of things you could talk to me about besides how my people were killed. Again, you odnt talk to a jew about the holocaust cause they say they're jewish, and to put it another way, you dont talk to a Brit about how the Colonies (with French aid, credit where credit is due), beat the world's biggest and strongest empire. You could talk to me about the differences of me being in America, or what my customs are, or... Or why I'm doing these travels. You odnt need to start with calling my ancestors savages.
to put it probably the greatest way, you odnt walk up to a person you find out is German and ask them about how they feel that their country men or ancestors (if they were in Germany at the time), felt following a psychopathic dictator bent on destroying many groups of people so blindly and resolutely.
And why cant i blame them? people think all Americans are fat greasy gutter mouthed gang bangers who think they are better then anyone else just by the way our leaders run the country, when only a small portion of the country even votes to elect those leaders and of those that vote half wont even agree cause it wasnt their candidate. Its stereotyping, and while I believe thats wrong (considering how I get stereotyped in my own country with people asking me to do a rain dance for them when we have droughts), when you physically go somehwere and the people are like that, its leaves a worse impression because you actually experience it.
And I cant speak for the French's actions in other portions of the world. its not an excuse but the difference there was gold while here it was furs. there wasnt a need to fight the native people because you werent trying to take something from them. You were doing what they did for many centuries. Yes, I realize the French were no better (maybe worse) then the way the British ran things in different portions of the world, but yo could probably say I'm biased since my mother always talked highly of the French. You may think I'm bad, but Its nothing compared to her. She wont even speak to a British person or anyone who's... Friendly, i guess is the best way to put it, and holds the British with high authority. She tells me everyday she hates the British blood in her and it... well... It pretty much devolves into a hate speech. So I could be far worse but I went to Britain with an open mind and do in fact have a good few British friends.
Ethnicity only defines a person if they want it to, a person is fully capable of defining themselves however they like in my honest opinion. And according to you, you're more ethnically Polish/Pollack than anything.
Funnily enough one of the first jokey comments I heard from my american friends here was, "Yeah, we kicked your ass, independance baby!" and he is one of my best friends, it's very British and we get on really well. I understand someone who is not used to British mannerisms could get offended if it is a touchy subject for them, but I think a lot of whay may have been said to you was not meant in a harsh way, but merely a culture clash...to some extent...
And one of the first conversations I had with one of my many german friends (I have taught English in Heuerssen and had a language exchange in Stadthagen)was about the war, and I didn't bring it up...
"people think all Americans are fat greasy gutter mouthed gang bangers who think they are better then anyone else just by the way our leaders run the country" I can assure you I don't and I actually respect the US in many ways, every country has fat people, every country has gangs, every country has arsehole politicians... America just gets more attention as it's culture is everywhere and they are the only (debateable - china?) superpower left... Sure, I've met people who fulfil stereotypes, stereotypes are formed from some shred of truth of course, but if I pasted a closed impression of everyone from that country on the people I had met, I for sure wouldn't enjoy my time whereever it was I was going. You said you met 300odd people? well the population on the UK is over 64,000,000... surely, they all aren't like that...
And if people really called your ancestor, I remember you said you 5x Grandmother, then maybe they aren't worth talking to and are just prejudiced and shouldn't be used as an example for a whole race?
And it was the United States of America, that operated Manifest Destiny, that caused the wars and committed genocide against the American Indians, Britian had long been kicked out by the rebels (and credit where it is due) and France.
And the British blood in her... from her 4x Grandmother? I'm sorry but that is a tiny percentage... Has any British person physically done anything to her?