Haven't you heard that "Not every woman is a lady"? A "lady" would never attack someone. Hell, in the time these codes existed it was considered improper for police to investigate spousal and child abuse. How chivalrous were these people? I also really don't get the distinction people are making between "subduing" and punching people.icyneesan said:Beating up a girl. Real men, real 'gentlemen', don't hit a lady. No matter how deserving she is of it.
If a girl is whaling on you, you stand there and take it and stare her down. Or you subdue her using a non-lethal take down move that doesn't involve punching her in the face.
Or be like me, rip off her face, and slaughter her family.
Do you honestly not understand, or just WISH you didn't, and not "relate", so to speak.Mimssy said:I don't understand people who are just looking to get into a fight. The only time I hit someone first is when they threw out a gay slur to my friend and threatened to rape her (because, you know, if she was with a "real man" she wouldn't be a lesbian anymore).Badger Kyre said:...sounds to me like his problem was he was a pussy who couldn't find anyone ELSE to throw his weight around,
and didn't realize you were THIN ICE.
I bet he drives a big SUV and has monster truck posters up now
My ex, before we dated, came out of a club to find her boyfriend's band getting the snot kicked out of them by the skinheads ( just because you're in a band, doesn't mean ya GOt to run your mouth, does it...?)newfiegirl 110 said:Ok..I am the first to admit that I have a temper. I once punched a guy out because he had the audacity to hit my best friend in front of me...wasn't standing for it. Any guy lays hands on me will feel it...I fight dirty.
True story: went away for the weekend with friends. The cabins we stayed at weren't what we had reserved. After seeing the godawful arrangements, we decided to go and ask for our money back...we were leaving. Of the four of us, I was the shortest, but I was pissed. When asked why one of the guys didn't step up, J stated that when I'm riled, he was scared of me. The man is 6'5 to my 5'4 and he's built like a linebacker. Go figure.
Like people have said...it all depends on context.
So abuse is ok when is girl on guy?XSA37 said:Beating up a girl. If you get beat up, that's not a big deal. But, if you beat someone, that's just wrong. Beyond belief.
I am in no way a sexist. I merely said that is how I see it. If my girlfriend were to hit me, I would not hit back, I would merely restrain and attempt to calm her. It's an honor thing for me, because hitting a girl is a horrible act in my opinion, and everyone is entitled to an opinion.Terminalchaos said:I see that as sexist- equal rights means equal treatment. Just like a woman that hits her boyfriend should be considered a domestic abuser same as a man that initiates. whatever party initiates violence is the abuser IMO.InnerRebellion said:If you strike a woman, no matter what, you have no honor. If she strikes you, you may restrain her, as long as you do not harm her intentionally. Well, that is how I see it.
As a survivor of female on male domestic abuse I can tell you its not funny. And neither was the sexist treatment I received from the authorities- they show up during an argument- I had bruises on me- she hadn't been hit once- they took me in. Some cops just need to be fired.
True, but then the alternative happens and you get beat up.Terminalchaos said:Depends upon the woman, depends upon the man- not all of us are alike.Agent_Nahmen_Jayden said:Beating up a girl, if one tries to start shit, you should be more than strong enough to hold her away and restrain her instead of "beating her".
You are an idiot! So abuse is ok if it's girl on guy. I hope you get the living shit beat out of you by an abusive girl and is put in the hospital. You probably will not be able to defend yourself legality and you won't defend yourself physical. Because if you try, you most likely get sued.saintchristopher said:I don't care if she is kicking your ass 8 ways from Sunday; YOU DON'T HIT GIRLS.
Am I the only one somewhat offended by this? I didn't spend half my life learning how to defend myself to be reduced to nothing more than a manipulator of biology.Serge A. Storms said:Well, if a girl does beat you up, chances are she started by kicking you in the nuts