Phasmal said:
zelda2fanboy said:
Forgive me if I sound judgmental, but I really hope you
used something...
And it sucks that it turned out that way for you, dude.
Better to have loved and lost /cliche.
It makes for a good story, I guess, but it really puts the saying to the test. And yes, condoms. We both were horrified at the prospect of pregnancy across state lines in a mostly secret relationship and she wasn't on birth control. I also had a fair amount of confidence she didn't have an STD from the many, many conversations we had. Before me, she had had one 17/18 year old boyfriend and 1 one night stand with another 18 / 19 year old. You aren't skype dating a dude who lives two states away if you're getting a ton of action locally.
But yeah, she let me know when she had her period afterwards in one of our few post coital conversations before she pulled the trigger. I also never had any sores or infections in my "special area," so everything appears to be fine, outside of the emotional damage.