Poll: When did you lose your virginity?

[DocBot]

I did it way too young. Don't regret it but would've been nice to be a bit older....

 

[Bertylicious]

17 and it was great. I was at a low point in my life and met an older woman (mid 30s) on the internet. She was going through some rough times too, divorce basically, and we were friends for about a year before we confessed our feelings for each other. It was a long distance deal, she was in the USA, and I just got on a plane and went the next week.

The whole thing felt like a dream, going through immigration and seeing her there waiting for me... I've read a lot of words and even made some up but I've got nothing to describe the feeling. Maybe it's what religious folks feel, I dunno.

Anyway we went back to a hotel and banged each others brains out for a month. It lasted for a good few years but we weren't kidding ourselves, we both knew that we were crutches for each other, though I loved her and she loved me. We drifted apart eventually but I can't imagine what my life would be like if I'd never met her.

Incidentally, I don't know if it was the flight or what but the first time I couldn't cum. Weird eh? I always assumed I was going to go off like a spunky rocket the moment I touched her but there I was, grinding away for what felt like hours before I collapsed from exhaustion. Enjoyable though.

 

[Carbonyl]

Two months before my 18th birthday, I was and am still in love, with a person I trusted and still trust, and waiting those extra two months would have been meaningless. IT WAS AWESOME.

 

[General Vengeance]

Age 16, and it was the best 14 hours I ever had. Fast forward 30 years later. 14 hours... Fuck that.

 

[Beautiful End]

So far never. Thinking over it, probably will stay that way. Simply have not been interested enough in other people often enough to even try for a date. Don't see myself suddenly becoming more social any time soon.

Amen to that!
...

Where's that Forever Alone picture I need to quote now...?

Captcha: 'Patience, child'. Huh, I just don't know how to reply to that.

 

[Dags90]

I think it was about 1 in the afternoon on a Thursday in late May. I had to go to class afterwards and I spent the whole time worrying I smelled like sex stank because I couldn't shower before class.

 

[Murais]

22 and still going strong.

Or not strong? I dunno. I had a couple of opportunities when I was 18, and turned them down so I could "be with the right person". Kind of regretting that stance now.

 

[Biosophilogical]

15 over here. Thought i'd met the right girl, at some point in the past few days i realized it was never going anywhere. So yeah...

-snip-

Eh, why the fuck not.

Almost sixteen, never had a girlfriend, still ain't givin' a fuck (pun intended).

I AM sixteen, never had a girlfriend.

Eh, not like I care. I mean, losing your virginity is still a big deal? Plus, relationships always seem like an anchor on the foot.

When/and if, big if, I ever do the nasty, it has to be with a smart girl. No way I'm losing the game to some idiot that can't do long division (which is pretty much everyone in my high school).

Well I see your 16 and add a 17!

I have been getting along with a girl recently, so I'm gonna try asking her out at the next party. Fingers crossed it works out and then I might have to change my answer here.

As for the right age etc? Whenever the fuck you feel like, you're never too old to lose it.

http://i2.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/003/619/Untitled-1.jpg

16 here to. Fething unrequited crushes :/

16, never had a gf. Virgin power!

I'm with these guys.

What can I say? I'm only 13. Besides, the only other homosexual I know has a troubling little thing called a vagina. And even if she was a guy, I'd feel weird because she has the same last name as me, and it would be like fucking my brother. To quote Donnie Darko: "I don't think about fucking my family, that'd be weird!"

21, never been kissed or hugged, never dated/been with another guy or girl (looking more to be guys only for me though). So who knows if I'll ever find a Gay SO to join me, seeing as I'm stuck deep within the Bible Belt of America. Although I do have toys that I've played with, I'll say that, but that doesn't count as losing my virginity, cause silicone doesn't count! lol

18 and a virgin. I'd classify myself as an asexual, so being a virgin is hardly a bad thing (though you are free to disagree, and I wouldn't blame you, it isn't like saying "I'm an asexual virgin" inspires confidence in people).

 

[DoomyMcDoom]

Two months before I turned 25, meh, nothing special, least nobody calls me a virgin anymore without being ignorant of my life, or themselves a virgin and tryin to hide it by calling out someone else at random.


Other than that, kinda wish I hadn't slept with that one, but hey, getting herpes isn't all bad, women only freak the fuck out when I tell them, if I wasn't a decently honest person I'd get laid a lot more...

 

[A.A.K]

I know it happened as a prize when I was 16 and drunk...but I barely remember it.
So I count 18 with my girlfriend.

 

[frobalt]

About a month before I turned 19 to a 43 year old milf I met in a gay bar. I kinda regret it to be honest, although at least it makes an interesting story.

P.S. I'm in England, just so people don't question why I was at a bar before turning 21

P.P.S And yes, I was drunk.

 

[Aesir23]

23 and still a virgin. I'm not feeling awkward about it though. I've only ever been in one relationship, I'm practically a recluse and most of the guys in the immediate area are types I would sooner shoot myself than sleep with.

 

[DreamaSkylar]

Sorry, I don't want to seem like a Debbie-Downer, but I just wanted to clear up some false information regarding STIs. I don't want people contracting nasties and then creating super-bugs that antibiotics can't cure, like in Thailand: http://microbewiki.kenyon.edu/index.php/Gonorrhea_in_Thailand

Anyway:

Herpes and HPV can't even really be tested if there aren't visible warts or lesions.

There is a blood test for Herpes that you can ask for at any clinic that tests for STIs. It can tell you even what "type" of herpes you have.

And the classics like gonorrhea and chlamydia can be found in simple urine tests, which I'll probably get anyways at some point between now and the next time I have sex.

Awesome, your future partners thank you. Also, men can get things like bladder cancer from STIs. Just to throw that out there...

I'll stop the STI education now, but know that there are around 15 (!) diseases out there that can be sexually transmitted:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease

- Dr. Skylar

 

[CleverCover]

Um, 20 and still a virgin I guess. Probably won't change for a while soooo.
foreveralone.jpg

 

[sharinganblossom25]

18, about a month after I got out of high school. It was a graduation gift, in a way.

 

[Don Savik]

Um, 20 and still a virgin I guess. Probably won't change for a while soooo.
foreveralone.jpg

I'm in the same boat as you, and judging from the posts, its a pretty full boat. [sub]the boat might actually be sinking to be honest....[/sub]

I know people are all like "don't worry about it because its not that big of deal, sex is just a boring hobby we all do" but that's not the point at ALL. I don't want sex, I want a person I can spend time with in a deeper relationship than just another one of my friends. Its about finding a partner, not about fucking some random chick fit in (I don't think anyone cares about that despite what you think).

Ladyfriend > sex

Masturbating is just fine for now, I want a ladyfriend.

 

[OctoH]

19 years old in a very odd set of circumstances. But absolutely worth it.

 

[liquidsolid]

About a week before I turned 17, she was beautiful and I don't regret it at all.

 

[Dr. Pepper Unlimited]

16. Not sure what else to say but that.

 

[Randomperson9999999]

I am 200 years old and still a virgin.