Question about sexuality.
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I knew I was a heterosexual male since I was five years old in kidergarden. Kissed a girl I knew and thought, "dang, that was fun." From then on I was a womanizing, sex-loving male. Never found any attraction to other males. And no, I'm not in denial. At least I don't think I am... Damn you liberals, making me question my orientation. 
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Aaaah. I understand that. Today's portrayal of a pretty woman isn't exactly 1950s acting like a lady. I think a sub-conscious push into my homosexuality, if that such factors exist, were things like Kim Kardashian (I know she's new, she's the only famous only because she had a sex tape example I can think of.), and how they acted. Did I want to be around that? Or some nice guy who isn't a stupid spoiled whore? I don't think you're setting up for failure. Waiting til the personality matures is probably one of the best things one could do, regardless of sexuality.Zetion said:
I had a crush on a girl for a long time before it finally got through my thick skull that nothing would ever happen between us. I tried to date other girls for a bit, but nothing really felt "right" there. Then I met my current gf, and we've been together for almost a year now. Sometimes it just takes the right person to get your interest back into such things. I wouldn't worry so much about being gay because you haven't been attracted to girls in a while. I remember seeing tons of girls and thinking, "Hey, they're pretty." but that's about as deep a thought as I put into them unless I actually spoke to them. As I said before though, I had issues with finding someone worth dating for a while. XDZetion said:
My argument about homosexuality and religion is fairly simple.Dreltox said:
If you're born gay, God made you that way, and who is man to judge God's will?
If being gay is a choice, God gave man free will, and if it is a sin, it can be forgiven, so again, who is man to judge?
Of course, I'm not Catholic, so I doubt it would be as cut and dry as that. You'd be surprised at how many people that argument shuts up though. XD
I'm a conservative, but thanks for playing. XDjawakiller said:I knew I was a heterosexual male since I was five years old in kidergarden. Kissed a girl I knew and thought, "dang, that was fun." From then on I was a womanizing, sex-loving male. Never found any attraction to other males. And no, I'm not in denial. At least I don't think I am... Damn you liberals, making me question my orientation.
I've always been curious about this type of thing though. I've never questioned my sexuality, and I know several gay/bi people that have always felt that they were gay/bi, so I was wondering how people came to be the way they are. If they've always been like that or if they realized it later in life.
Does sexuality really matter?
I don't think it does in most cases. The word itself means nothing to me, hetero or homo. If it impacts their character, then I suppose it does.
I'm a heterosexual, and a straight furry. I heard about furres and didn't understand them at all... so I inquired around and met some cool people. If sexuality didn't matter, I probably wouldn't have had a second thought about it and never made the friendships that I still value.
It sucks, though, about all of the backlash toward the furry community. If more people had the same conversations I had, there probably would be more understanding and less hate.
I don't think it does in most cases. The word itself means nothing to me, hetero or homo. If it impacts their character, then I suppose it does.
I'm a heterosexual, and a straight furry. I heard about furres and didn't understand them at all... so I inquired around and met some cool people. If sexuality didn't matter, I probably wouldn't have had a second thought about it and never made the friendships that I still value.
It sucks, though, about all of the backlash toward the furry community. If more people had the same conversations I had, there probably would be more understanding and less hate.
Well, when I was about 19 I was out with some friends and we were all drinking quite a lot. One of the guys was a (pretty handsome) carpenter, and he kissed me...
It was at that very moment I realised that I was simply, purely and irrevokeably STRAIGHT!
If had ever been curious at all before that, it cured me of it forever.
P.S. A person's sexuality DOES matter, to them. Personally, it's none of my business...
It was at that very moment I realised that I was simply, purely and irrevokeably STRAIGHT!
If had ever been curious at all before that, it cured me of it forever.
P.S. A person's sexuality DOES matter, to them. Personally, it's none of my business...
If asked I'd say I'm Bi.
Although all my major and minor sexual encounters have been with women, I don't feel that I could truly disregard having a romantic or sexual relationship with a man I just haven't had any yet.
Personalty I don't think we are born with sexuality, people aren't born gay or straight, but are born with a blank slate, sexuality is something that comes about as we age.
Although all my major and minor sexual encounters have been with women, I don't feel that I could truly disregard having a romantic or sexual relationship with a man I just haven't had any yet.
Personalty I don't think we are born with sexuality, people aren't born gay or straight, but are born with a blank slate, sexuality is something that comes about as we age.
People seem to hate what is different. When I first found out about furies (SP?) I gotta admit I was a little freaked out and found it disturbing, but then I met a few, and now a few of ny friends are furies.Klopy said:
To be honest as long as any action is being under taken by people who are mentally capable of giving and understanding consent then really it shouldn't make any difference what they're into.
I'm male and heterosexual. Around the time I started getting any urges, I was sure about my orientation. I knew about alternatives to my orientation, but it just wasn't for me.
I really enjoy the female body. It's much more interesting than the male body, imo.
I really enjoy the female body. It's much more interesting than the male body, imo.
I was straight, or at least thought I was, for about 21 years of my life, from birth until some time after I got 21, which was last year. Some time last year, I felt a little confused, I think. Or rather, bi-curious. It was an interesting thought to me to be with another man, while still being attracted to women. A few weeks after that, I realized I was bisexual. A few weeks after realizing that, I did some thinking and realized that I am pansexual. I don't know if I am truly attracted to everyone, but I still am quite capable of being with anyone, should I feel interested in being with them.
As was said before in this thread, it's not really the label that matters to me, but knowing myself does. I don't care if omni and pan are the same thing, I see myself as pan, I understand myself as someone that's pan and that's final.
As was said before in this thread, it's not really the label that matters to me, but knowing myself does. I don't care if omni and pan are the same thing, I see myself as pan, I understand myself as someone that's pan and that's final.
I am not sure if I am honest I have not looked at a guy and wanted intercourse but neither have I looked at girls and thought intercourse, Thats not to say I have never thought of sex I just don't really desire it I'd prefer a hug, you may label that as you will.
I didn't really think to much into sexuality until I came into contact with a TS girl called Jess about 4 years ago now and talked about her childhood and such I guess you can say thats when I started to wonder about what the sexuality of everyone around me was and considering my own.
Hope thats less confusing that it sounded in my head.
I didn't really think to much into sexuality until I came into contact with a TS girl called Jess about 4 years ago now and talked about her childhood and such I guess you can say thats when I started to wonder about what the sexuality of everyone around me was and considering my own.
Hope thats less confusing that it sounded in my head.
I've been straight for my whole life. Still plenty of my life ahead though so that may change. (probably not)
They forgot to tell you about...? Oh goodness. My friend, I'm afraid I can't link to anything from this web site because it's against the rules, but just type "sex" into Google. You're on the advent of a whole new realm of discovery.linkvegeta said:
OT: I'm an 18 year old guy, BTW.
It's a little ambiguous with me. I've dated a few girls, and I'm deeply in love with my current gf. We've been going for two years and I genuinely hope to contradict that stereotype about high school sweet hearts. Weirdly, I could imagine having sex with a guy, but I find that the less feminine he is, the less agreeable the idea becomes. Hard muscles are a turn off, body hair is a turn off, even masculine scent (I don't know how else to describe it; guys smell different) is a turn off. And no matter how cute he is, almost any pair of boobs would get me more aroused. Boobs are just so nice.... The idea doesn't sicken me, but it doesn't please me either.
Something else I've found odd is that I've held certain romantic affections for a guy, always a close friend I think, without being able to associate it with sex. I've thought about kissing and cuddling, but once we're naked and sweaty, I'm completely out of it. For the most part though, I think that has something to do with my crushing need for affection built out of my social awkwardness early in life and projected onto my friends because they make me feel wanted. Basically the same thing happened when I made a pen pal in freshmen year. She made me feel good and I started to fall for her.
So I guess I'm... not terribly bi? Or mostly hetero. The question is of limited interest to me, since I'm already in a committed relationship. And I don't think she's into threesomes.