To me, I suppose they're an interesting curiosity.
I'm gay, and even in that, I'm pretty indifferent towards sex.
So, a lot of the unsavoury elements of female character design are practically wasted on me.
I do think that male characters are just as badly stereotyped as female ones. However, there are some really good characters for either gender.
What does depress me, however, is the fact that every single female character is treated as some sort of substitute girlfriend by the gaming community.
The Elizabeth threads were creepy, okay guys?
What's worse, is you can't even google these characters without Rule 34 coming up. Even fucking Ellie (Of Last of us Fame, not borderlands, although...) has this going on.
It's very strange for me.
So, I guess in a lot of ways I'm curious to see the validation of this from these threads. More generally speaking however, I think there are massive gender issues on either side, and likely from some point of bias of my own gender, I think the rape being treated as "Women only" issue, the complete disregard society has for a father's claim to his children and other such things significantly outweigh a lot of the hardships women have presently.
As to why they're so popular on this forum, it's rather odd to me, this forum really does appear to have a fair population of hair triggers in this regard.
People whom every small slight does not draw a reasonable reaction but instead the raising of the "Sexism" banner.
As I said before, I'm gay, I deal with people being homophobic on a fairly regular basis. And honestly, if I reacted this way to every dumb person on the internet, I'd run out of hours in a day. It'd completely de-vault any point I'd make and would ultimately just be dropping down to their level.
So, I'm curious as to why these people do this. I suppose I've always thought it was just an attention thing. These people don't want women's rights, they don't want to further equality between genders. They just want attention and somebody to listen to them, that's why the threads go on for as long as they do.