Relationship Deal Breakers

[Bebop]

1. I'm against cheating.
2. I don't want to be rebound guy.
3. I had a girlfriend with an over-religious family. I don't mind religious, but I close-minded people are annoying.
4. Too independant. I don't mind you doing your own stuff. I'd like a heads-up if you plan to do something though.
5. I don't care who is winning the next American idol/x-factor/whatever. You don't stop a man from watching a hockey game. (Since there's a lockout this year, you can watch it..Although, I won't be around).



On OP* Seriously? You wouldn't date a girl because she likes Justi Bieber? How...14 year old of you...

But seriously, music tastes are fun, but it shouldn't be an absolute deal-breaker.

Coming from the guy who gets pissy about not being able to watch his tv.

 

[Flames66]

One of the main deal breakers for me is playing mind games or "testing me". Something I read about recently was a girl who told her then boyfriend that she was pregnant to see how he would react. I hope I would be supportive in those circumstances, but if I find that you were lying to me to see whether I am good marriage material we are done.

Another deal breaker is spying on me. I keep hearing about people using sneaky tactics, friends, technology or even private detectives to furtively follow their significant others movements. This could be for a number of reasons, but the most common I have heard of are to see if they are "cheating", see who with and where they spend their time or just for a sense of control. If I discover I am being spied on, you get one warning. "If You ever spy on me again, this relationship is over instantly!"

 

[mjcabooseblu]

I find that the only "deal breaker" for me is having a predetermined set of rigid things that are "deal breakers." It speaks volumes of their approach to socialization, and it's the one thing that I could never work around. Somewhat hypocritic to condemn the close-minded while outright stating that I won't deal with it, but I'd rather be a hypocrite than be with someone I know I won't like.

 

[disgruntledgamer]

7.) Being Too Smart/dumb. I don't want a women who will call me out on my inconsistencies or wrong information at every waking second.

I agree who do these women think they are being all smart and such.

Sarcasm aside there is no such thing as too smart in my books. The smarter she is the better.

 

[Troublesome Lagomorph]

Promiscuous, cheater, trying to kill me, breaking the law, being overly religious, being a militant atheist, being too much of a hippie, treating me badly, only caring about appearances and money, hates any of my hobbies, not enough in common, being a *****, trying to force me away from my friends, constantly wanting sex...
That's all that I can think of off the top of my head.
Edit: Being an idiot, not wanting kids, being an eyesore...
Being into drugs, being a heavy smoker or drinker, being a big party person...
Being the type to leave you for someone with more money, status, or popularity...

 

[hazabaza1]

The only thing I can really think of is cheating.
Seriously, if you want to run off with someone else, do so by all means, just tell me first so I can move on as well.

Other stuff like heavy drinking or smoking... I don't do it and I'd prefer my partner not so, but if I really care about them, I can probably put it aside.

 

[disgruntledgamer]

2. See above. STI's can be cured, with EASE, and relationships and sex are not the same thing. Seriously.

I said STD's/HPVs not just STI's and you are "WRONG" not all Sexually transmitted infections can be cured with ease, case in point drug-resistant syphilis. I had the unpleasure of studying a lot of these diseases and they're not pretty or as harmless as you seem to think, far from it.

3. Hah. I assume this is a joke? People listen to music and have varied music taste. Fuck it, I listen to everything from Alanis Morissette, Annie Lennox through to Ashtar Command and Dragonland. Someone having a guilty pleasure with regards to music is a deal breaker? How judgmental are you? That said, I do not think much for Beiber, but it would not be a deal breaker.

It was until I tried my own Justin Bieber challenge, after the 3rd song I was thinking of ways to hurt myself to take my mined off the abomination I was hearing. There is a reason why he was booed at the Grey Cup.

4. Religion is a deeply personal thing. As long as someone is not trying to change your mind, who gives a fuck. I say this as a Christian Atheist dating a Devout Agnostic. Religion is Religion. Its personal. Unless it causes them to break my cardinal rule (Being unkind) who gives a flying fuck?

I do that's why I put it in the list

5. You didn't qualify on any level bar declaring it to be down to not giving a damn about health. Sorry, I am going to put this one down to you being shallow. As most other people have. There are REASONS behind most actions.

Well I'm sorry that you think having standards means you're shallow. I try and eat healthy and get regular exercise, I expect the same. I don't hold anyone to anything I wouldn't be willing to do. Gaining 5-10lbs probably isn't going to bother me much, gaining 50+lbs were going to have a problem. I like tall skinny girls sue me.

Read through a few posts. I have the following statement directed at the VAST MAJORITY of people within this thread:

No wonder so many of you ***** about being forever alone. Most of you are coming across as incredibly judgmental dickwads/bitches. People, please, how hard is it to accept that people make mistakes! I mean, fucking hell, I smoked for 6 years. 6 years! Since I was 14! Should I really be judged for the person I was when I started? Should I really be judged for finding it fucking hard to kick the habit?

Like I said it's called standards some people have them, some people don't.

 

[Mr F.]

2. See above. STI's can be cured, with EASE, and relationships and sex are not the same thing. Seriously.

I said STD's/HPVs not just STI's and you are "WRONG" not all Sexually transmitted infections can be cured with ease, case in point drug-resistant syphilis. I had the unpleasure of studying a lot of these diseases and they're not pretty or as harmless as you seem to think, far from it.

3. Hah. I assume this is a joke? People listen to music and have varied music taste. Fuck it, I listen to everything from Alanis Morissette, Annie Lennox through to Ashtar Command and Dragonland. Someone having a guilty pleasure with regards to music is a deal breaker? How judgmental are you? That said, I do not think much for Beiber, but it would not be a deal breaker.

It was until I tried my own Justin Bieber challenge, after the 3rd song I was thinking of ways to hurt myself to take my mined off the abomination I was hearing. There is a reason why he was booed at the Grey Cup.

4. Religion is a deeply personal thing. As long as someone is not trying to change your mind, who gives a fuck. I say this as a Christian Atheist dating a Devout Agnostic. Religion is Religion. Its personal. Unless it causes them to break my cardinal rule (Being unkind) who gives a flying fuck?

I do that's why I put it in the list

5. You didn't qualify on any level bar declaring it to be down to not giving a damn about health. Sorry, I am going to put this one down to you being shallow. As most other people have. There are REASONS behind most actions.

Well I'm sorry that you think having standards means you're shallow. I try and eat healthy and get regular exercise, I expect the same. I don't hold anyone to anything I wouldn't be willing to do. Gaining 5-10lbs probably isn't going to bother me much, gaining 50+lbs were going to have a problem. I like tall skinny girls sue me.

Read through a few posts. I have the following statement directed at the VAST MAJORITY of people within this thread:

No wonder so many of you ***** about being forever alone. Most of you are coming across as incredibly judgmental dickwads/bitches. People, please, how hard is it to accept that people make mistakes! I mean, fucking hell, I smoked for 6 years. 6 years! Since I was 14! Should I really be judged for the person I was when I started? Should I really be judged for finding it fucking hard to kick the habit?

Like I said it's called standards some people have them, some people don't.

Well, I will make this quick.

When most people think STI's they think chlamydia or Herpes, both things which can be rather easily treated (With long lasting effects, true, but at least you are no longer contagious) and not drug resistant shyphillis.

As for anything else?

Well... Nope, everything still holds. You obviously have no idea what the word love is. That is my main contention. Any of your protests would be overruled by love. Sure, they all make sense for a casual relationship, they all make sense for a fuckbuddy or for things to look out for BEFORE you start dating.

But my main issue is you using the word love! Because if you were already in love, the issues you list would either be water under the bridge or totally and utterly unimportant.

Finally, standards. Really. I see the thinly veiled comment you are trying to make. And I counter thus. Which one of us is dating the incredibly hot utterly amazing ballet dancer? Its not about having "Standards its about not being an utter prick. Ya see, what with my whole "Not being a judgmental prick willing to right people of immediately based on percieved character flaws" I ended up with one of the most amazing girls I have ever had the good grace to meet, purely because I am a nice person, a non-judgmental person.

And because she is a nice person, a non-judgmental person, she is happy to be with me. Hell, she is in love with me. Despite who I was. Because I am a good person. I made that clear the first time around.

You can have standards without being a judgmental prick. My ex partners and my current partner are attractive, they are people I find attractive, cause yeah, date people you find attractive. My current partner is a gamer, with many of the same interests I have etc etc. She is compatible with me. And healthy. So yes, there are the standards. The difference being that the only thing I judge people on is the only thing that matters "Are you a nice person".

Read through a few posts. I have the following statement directed at the VAST MAJORITY of people within this thread:

No wonder so many of you ***** about being forever alone. Most of you are coming across as incredibly judgmental dickwads/bitches. People, please, how hard is it to accept that people make mistakes! I mean, fucking hell, I smoked for 6 years. 6 years! Since I was 14! Should I really be judged for the person I was when I started? Should I really be judged for finding it fucking hard to kick the habit?

Should someone really be judged for who they were and not who they are?

My girlfriend and I have a rule. If it happened more than a year before our relationship started, it doesn't fucking matter. Because it is who I was. Not who I am. And I have been a horrible person, but I am NOT a horrible person (You see the logic here?).

Yeah, some of you are being logical. I can understand not choosing to date someone who is crazy or treats people like shit or is simply incompatible. But having an itemized list of deal breakers, a long list of things you consider 'Unacceptable'?

Get off your high horses. Nobody is perfect. Everybody makes mistakes.

Every human-being is judgmental. You are judgmental. You are judging everyone who posted in this thread by being "Dickwads/bitches".

These are nothing but lists on what we THINK we do not want in a relationship either do to what we have conceived or have been through in previous relationships. We know that if you meet that right person nothing will matter about her (or his) flaws (as every human-being has them).

So please, don't tell us to get off our "high horses" when you are doing the exact thing you say we are doing.

I can see your point! It is totally valid! Wait, no, that was absolute bullshit.

Calling someone out on being a judgmental ***** or bastard does not make me a judgmental ***** or bastard. If someone is being a judgmental ***** or bastard and I state as much, that is because of the way they are acting, not any preconcieved notion of their nature (I have never talked to most of these people).

Sorry.

If you have an itemised list of relationship deal breakers, things you claim to refuse to ever get over, you are a judgmental prick. Fact. End of. You are willing to make judgments of character based on these things, be they smoking, drinking, being fat, liking the occasional shitty song, then you are being a judgmental prick.

Sometimes, if one has the moral highground, one may stand there. Sometime one earns ones high horse. And right now, reading these responses has allowed me to stand up here, towering above many people within this thread, simply because I am older, wiser and willing to accept that people make mistakes.

Also, just about everyone is not the same as everyone. I agree with some people within this thread. YOu know, the occasional person who are chiming in with similar sentiment. I do not assume that you are all pricks until proven otherwise, I wait to see the kinds of thing being posted and then I make judgments based on the judgments others are making.

If your list is longer then about... I will be generous, three points. Three things you simply CANNOT stand. Then I think it is time you grew up.

 

[Spinozaad]

1. "Not having an own opinion."

This leads to me not liking you, which is the biggest dealbreaker, I guess.

 

[Jynthor]

1: No cheating. It should be rather obvious, but I take an even more negative view than most. Call me old-fashion, but I believe that you should stay with the one you marry for you whole life unless they do something, and while I am not above forgiving cheating if it happens once, I dont want it to be a biweekly thing.

2: No Drugs. Weed, Smokes, all of them. The occasional beer is fine, but you shouldnt be falling over drunk, and you shouldnt see 2 identical mes standing side by side.

Spoiler: On a side note (possible making people mad)

God help you if you say you want the war on drugs ended. I am ok with decriminalizing to an extent, but It should all stay illegal. I DONT CARE!!!! if its not as bad as beer or cigarettes. I DONT CARE!!!! if we can tax it. We have enough drugs legal already. We dont need more. If anything, we should be taking the fight to the drug lords in Mexico instead of trying to stop EVERYTHING on this side of the border. Dont want to do it. Then I got 6 words for you: Let me push the F$%^ing Button!

3: If you came expecting sex outside of marriage, you may as well turn around now and leave, because it aint going to happen. As far as I am concerned, sex is something that is only done between married individauls and nothing else will make me change my mind.

4: They cant be overly religious to the point of denouncing science and the like. However, they also can not say that those who are religious are idiots. I come from a very religious family, and while I am not as religious as they are, I am still pretty spirtiual.

5: Sorry, you want to be around me, you are going to have to get used to guns, because I am going to have at least 2 real guns and many "airsoft" model guns to my name.

6: There are afew things you never speak ill of. You dont talk about about my parents. You dont curse the United States (or else you get chased by one angry patriot). In a similar vein, you do not speak ill of the South, and its an even worse idea to speak ill of the Midwest. If you say anything negative about the fact that I drive a pickup truck, you should leave...NOW. You know, the basics.

7: I can take you have different political opinions than me, but there are afew that need to be relatively similiar. On the same note, No bashing of any political party[footnote]Although, calling bull on certain policies is fine as long as it doesnt conflict with the aforementioned "We must agree on afew things." standard[/footnote]. I'm am a very proud Republican, and while I call bull on many things they do (thier emphasis on religion and opposition to gay marriage cheif among them), if you are going to call Republicans "evil" based on afew nuts, you might as well leave. In exchange, I will not talk bad about whatever political party you are a member of, whatever that may be.

And of Course, My girlfriend passes all 7 requirements to a T.

Wow, I almost feel bad for your girlfriend.

 

[Roguelike]

Smoking is about the only thing I cannot work around

 

[AngloDoom]

1: Having poor self-image
Because it's hard to love someone when they spend so much time hating themselves

2: Having a sense of self-importance
Because it's hard to love someone who hates everyone else

3: Laziness
Because it's hard to love someone who thinks everything is hard work


Those are really the three cardinal sins for me. Sure, people having their moments of insecurity and I'll be there to help them in these moments, but if their default mode is feeling worthless I'm not spending half the relationship trying to convince them they're in the same league as me. Similarly, I love people who are proud of their achievements and things that they can do, but I hate it when the same person feels it makes them better than the people around them - especially when it comes to looks. Well done, you won the genetic lottery and have a pretty face but that doesn't make you any better of a person.

Constant laziness is pretty much unforgivable. I love having lazy days with people I love where we barely leave the bed and just snuggle up and watch films or something, but when that same person complains every day about how much they wish they could lose a few pounds but they can't be arsed to do anything about it...that's what makes me want to bite their face off.

EDIT-

1) Being under 200lbs . No skinny bitches for me thanks . I would MAYBE sleep with a skinny girl , but never date one .

Wait, wait, what?

Less that 200lbs is 'skinny'? I'm a 5ft11 male and the most I've ever weighed was 175lbs and that was after a year of going to the gym to bulk up and eating like a dinosaur.

For the average height women isn't 200lbs obese or, at least, heavily overweight?

 

[BOOM headshot65]

Wow, I almost feel bad for your girlfriend.

Lets see:
1)She hates cheater even more than I do (blame her cheating stepdad)
2) she hates drugs and is allergic to cigarette smoke/has parents/aunt who smoke saying "Dont do it. Its terrible and bad for you. Dont make my mistake."
3) She takes it even further than me and says that sex is ONLY for having children. Not for fun. Not because you are married/in a relationship. Not because "YOLO, *****". ONLY!!! for reproduction. In fact, one the the reasons she loves is BECAUSE I dont want sex with her until we want children.
4) She believes in god and the devil, and believes that rather than Heaven and Hell we walk the Earth as ghost when we die. And she anti-thiest just as much as she hates fundies.
5) What does she say to guns? "Give me one. And some dynamite. I want big boom!!"
6) Loves my family (and her family loves me), is just as patriotic as I am (but doesnt really like the government, Democrat or Republican, or anyone.) She loves the Midwest and would hate to live in New York or California, doesnt have an opinion on my pickup truck but likes them (she wants a motorcycle), and very little other problems. Theres a reason that in the 1.8 years we have been dating, we have not had ONE SINGLE fight with words (or fist).
7) We agree on the most important things, all she really cares about is Gay Marriage and Social Security. Other than that, if someone brings up politics you will get the reaction of either "Lalala, Im not listening!" or "All of you are crazy!! Im leaving." She doesnt like people fighting, thus avoids politics because all she sees is fighting.

With all this considered...........I fail to see the problem here. Why are you sorry for my girlfriend again??

 

[In Search of Username]

Wow, I almost feel bad for your girlfriend.

Lets see:
1)She hates cheater even more than I do (blame her cheating stepdad)
2) she hates drugs and is allergic to cigarette smoke/has parents/aunt who smoke saying "Dont do it. Its terrible and bad for you. Dont make my mistake."
3) She takes it even further than me and says that sex is ONLY for having children. Not for fun. Not because you are married/in a relationship. Not because "YOLO, *****". ONLY!!! for reproduction. In fact, one the the reasons she loves is BECAUSE I dont want sex with her until we want children.
4) She believes in god and the devil, and believes that rather than Heaven and Hell we walk the Earth as ghost when we die. And she anti-thiest just as much as she hates fundies.
5) What does she say to guns? "Give me one. And some dynamite. I want big boom!!"
6) Loves my family (and her family loves me), is just as patriotic as I am (but doesnt really like the government, Democrat or Republican, or anyone.) She loves the Midwest and would hate to live in New York or California, doesnt have an opinion on my pickup truck but likes them (she wants a motorcycle), and very little other problems. Theres a reason that in the 1.8 years we have been dating, we have not had ONE SINGLE fight with words (or fist).
7) We agree on the most important things, all she really cares about is Gay Marriage and Social Security. Other than that, if someone brings up politics you will get the reaction of either "Lalala, Im not listening!" or "All of you are crazy!! Im leaving." She doesnt like people fighting, thus avoids politics because all she sees is fighting.

With all this considered...........I fail to see the problem here. Why are you sorry for my girlfriend again??

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I imagine it's because she sounds like the most boring person in the world.

 

[disgruntledgamer]

Well, I will make this quick.

When most people think STI's they think chlamydia or Herpes, both things which can be rather easily treated (With long lasting effects, true, but at least you are no longer contagious) and not drug resistant shyphillis.

WHAT!!!! Where in the world are you getting your medical information from and don't say a doctor! This statement is beyond ignorant, Herpes never becomes non-contagious EVER! Herpes is highly contagious, you can pass on herpes even without an outbreak or symptoms and condoms don't provide complete protection.

Genital herpes as been linked to a significant increased risk of cervical cancer when combined with HPV, and trust me when I say that`s one of the ways you don't want to die. Not to mention the fact it can also lead to birth defects and miscarriages. Other STIs like HPV can take up to 2 years to completely clear up, so they`re not as harmless or as easy to fix as you seem to think.

Do a little research before you start spouting such nonsense.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm

As for anything else?

Well... Nope, everything still holds. You obviously have no idea what the word love is. That is my main contention. Any of your protests would be overruled by love. Sure, they all make sense for a casual relationship, they all make sense for a fuckbuddy or for things to look out for BEFORE you start dating.

But my main issue is you using the word love! Because if you were already in love, the issues you list would either be water under the bridge or totally and utterly unimportant.

You obviously have no idea what you're talking about when it comes to STDs/STIs in treatment, prevention or risks. Love is a man made concept that`s subjective, the facts however are on my side. I`m a microbiologist dude I know what I`m talking about when it comes to diseases and you`re wrong, diseases will never be unimportant to me, both professionally and emotionally.

This seems like a touchy topic for you and I`m truly sorry if you do have something like herpes, but don`t expect everyone to follow your opinion and jump on the "herpes means nothing and is insignificant" bandwagon especially when it is significant.

I can see your point! It is totally valid! Wait, no, that was absolute bullshit.

If your list is longer then about... I will be generous, three points. Three things you simply CANNOT stand. Then I think it is time you grew up.

You`re half right someone is full of BS and needs to grow up, but I don`t think it`s him....................

 

[Mr F.]

Well, I will make this quick.

When most people think STI's they think chlamydia or Herpes, both things which can be rather easily treated (With long lasting effects, true, but at least you are no longer contagious) and not drug resistant shyphillis.

WHAT!!!! Where in the world are you getting your medical information from and don't say a doctor! This statement is beyond ignorant, Herpes never becomes non-contagious EVER! Herpes is highly contagious, you can pass on herpes even without an outbreak or symptoms and condoms don't provide complete protection.

Genital herpes as been linked to a significant increased risk of cervical cancer when combined with HPV, and trust me when I say that`s one of the ways you don't want to die. Not to mention the fact it can also lead to birth defects and miscarriages. Other STIs like HPV can take up to 2 years to completely clear up, so they`re not as harmless or as easy to fix as you seem to think.

Do a little research before you start spouting such nonsense.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm

As for anything else?

Well... Nope, everything still holds. You obviously have no idea what the word love is. That is my main contention. Any of your protests would be overruled by love. Sure, they all make sense for a casual relationship, they all make sense for a fuckbuddy or for things to look out for BEFORE you start dating.

But my main issue is you using the word love! Because if you were already in love, the issues you list would either be water under the bridge or totally and utterly unimportant.

You obviously have no idea what you're talking about when it comes to STDs/STIs in treatment, prevention or risks. I never used the word love that was you, love is a man made concept that`s subjective, the facts however are on my side. I`m a microbiologist dude I know what I`m talking about when it comes to diseases and you`re wrong, diseases will never be unimportant to me, both professionally and emotionally.

This seems like a touchy topic for you and I`m truly sorry if you do have something like herpes, but don`t expect everyone to follow your opinion and jump on the "herpes means nothing and is insignificant" bandwagon especially when it is significant.

I can see your point! It is totally valid! Wait, no, that was absolute bullshit.

If your list is longer then about... I will be generous, three points. Three things you simply CANNOT stand. Then I think it is time you grew up.

You`re half right someone is full of BS and needs to grow up, but I don`t think it`s him....................

Well...

no matter how much you were in love with them.

You cannot even remember the opening post. Which you posted. So I consider this discussion to be closed. Good day to you, ser.

That was easy enough!

Consider my input to this discussion to be closed. I tire of you. And the other vapid individuals within this thread. Sometimes the escapist brings out the worst in me, and others, and I believe this is one of those times.

By the way, misusing punctuation in the fashion you did at the end of your post weakens your entire argument and makes it hard to take you seriously.

So again, my main contention comes down to the words YOU USED within your opening post, the words you then FORGOT USING during this reply. Get rid of those words and everything else you have stated makes sense.

However:

no matter how much you were in love with them.

Overrules

I never used the word love that was you, love is a man made concept that`s subjective

I consider this discussion to be closed.

 

[TomLikesGuitar]

1. Cheating - No excuses in my book, on top of which it's a health risk.

On me, yeah... with someone else could be forgiven potentially.

2. STDs/ Bad HPVs - I'm clean and intend to stay that way.

If she HAD one and it's gone, then no biggie... and good luck staying away from HPV. I have only a single friend who isn't an HPV carrier and he's only fucked one girl. It's almost as prevalent as mouth herpes (which you pretty much WILL get).

3. Listening to Justin Bieber - Self explanatory

"As Long as you Love me" is actually a damn good pop song. The music production is amazing and he's singing much better than he used to. The video has incredible cinematography and he can actually dance from what I've seen. He looks to be turning into a respectable pop musician like Timberlake, and I think most of the hate is just from him being too young.

Either way, it's not my style of music but I wouldn't go turning girls down JUST for listening to the kid.

4. Being too religious - I find religion to be an obsolete relic, mankind would be better off separating himself from these superstitious beliefs ASAP.

I am the same way as you. I thought I'd never date a religious girl.

Then I went to school in Virginia.

When I was there, I met this amazing, gorgeous girl who, as it turned out, went to Liberty University (You know... Jerry Falwell's school with the dinosaur bones in the library that are dated as like 6000 years old... yeah). It sounds like a nightmare, but we had some of the most incredible discussions about life and philosophy and we never agreed entirely but we always came to this beautiful peaceful resolution. She, like most religious people, was just desperate for answers, and she would acknowledge my answers as likely possibilities. I, like most atheists, was skeptical of everything, and she taught me to accept the world and love it for what it is. Instead of her embracing my cynicism and me becoming ignorant, she became more logical and I embraced her inner happiness.

She's honestly the only girl I ever think I really loved... and now shes married. :/

It sucks because "Only the Good Die Young" is a great song, and I really hate to have to throw it onto the list of "songs I can't listen to because of exes".

5. Massive weight gain - I may get flamed for this one but seriously if you don't care about your own health.....

6. Trying to Kill Me - You knife me it's over sorry.

7. Becoming too absorbed in MMOs - If it's all you want to do all day long you need to quit.

8. Stealing my stuff - Don't steal my stuff

9. Smoking - Big anti-smoker

Most of these are all pretty big "no shits" for me. Fat chicks (especially ones with NO motivation to get thin) are disgusting. I can be a huge dick about weight, but the world is getting so goddamn lazy and if you're a fat loser with no ambition to change yourself, expect to be treated as such. Places like Planet Fitness are amazing for out of shape people looking to get into shape. Hell, I'll take a chunky chick if I meet her at the gym.

I don't even know why you mentioned 6 or 8... There's a million other things that you could say, but most of those fall under "If she doesn't respect me/ fucks with my shit."

As for 7, I'd say any addiction that takes up her life is a deal breaker, but I think you're being too harsh with number 9. If Charlize Theron smoked a few cigs a day and you had a shot with her, you'd take it and you know it.

EDIT:

By the way, misusing punctuation in the fashion you did at the end of your post weakens your entire argument and makes it hard to take you seriously.

I don't know what your guys' argument was about, but seriously... that is the definition of a straw man argument.

Getting off topic like that weakens your entire argument and makes it hard to take you seriously.

(Note: Neither punctuation nor getting off topic ACTUALLY weakens the argument itself, but it's a nice tangent to attack your opposition.)

... Arrested Development is awesome though, so you're forgiven.

I imagine it's because she sounds like the most boring person in the world.

Lol... yeah she does.

By definition you were, and still are being judgmental. You believe only those who agree with your Opinions, not facts. You insult those who disagree with you by telling them they are bitches/bastards/pricks/whathaveyou, and then telling them to "grow up". If you were really as "adult" as you say, then you wouldn't go into a thread and insult the people inside of it.

QFT

Everyone on this planet is judgmental to some degree, and everyone has pet peeves. That's life. Fuck, if I don't want to date black chicks, that doesn't make me a prick/*****/ass/fucker/etc... That doesn't even make me a racist.

That's like saying everyone who is straight hates their own gender.

You can't control what turns you on or attracts you to people. Hell, it might even be genetic (although I think it's entirely environmental).

This thread is a god damn Volley of Boulders [http://gatherer.wizards.com/Handlers/Image.ashx?multiverseid=270855&type=card] of flame bait.

 

[disgruntledgamer]

I never used the word love that was you, love is a man made concept that`s subjective

I consider this discussion to be closed.

I like how you completely ignored the source I provided you with proving you wrong and focused on the most insignificant part, but you`re right I did use that term I forgot. However this discussion was closed the minute you said herpes becomes non-contagious. That`s not only wrong, but dangerous thinking.

So again, my main contention comes down to the words YOU USED within your opening post, the words you then FORGOT USING during this reply. Get rid of those words and everything else you have stated makes sense.

It`s already done, you see when I make a mistake or find an error I`m quick to correct it and admit it, Your turn. Everyone slips up now and again, sorry I could`t exactly remember what I said 6 pages ago.

 

[DRTJR]

I haven't been in a relationship (not for lack of trying.) but I can guess.
No having sex with other guys.
Drug use.
Anti-Religion
Anti-Capitalist
Hates all things Nerd.

But I have no standards in potential girlfriends (I still can't get one).