axlryder said:
Taking into account that I don't see gender as strict "boy" and "girl" categorizations, I honestly do think "girls" are genetically predisposed towards liking generally female oriented things (to an extent). I'm not saying that they're programmed to like Polly Pocket, but a certain aesthetic or type of activity might be click better with a female brain than a male one.
I thought that might be the case. And sure, there are behavioral "programs" in us due to our nature as animals. But I submit the case of inbreeding (hear me out):
The reason inbreeding is destructive, from a genetic standpoint, is that it increases the likelihood that a harmful recessive mutation will "meet up with" its matching allele from the other parent and actually be expressed. Basically, we're distilling the genetic code down and risk making any flaws that much more prominent.
If we espouse social constructs that reinforce small "genetic truths," we over-inflate their importance
and we amplify any flaws in those "truths." When one considers that the entire point of "society" is to counteract the most basic impulses of our largely-selfish natures, it makes even less sense to give in so completely to the so-called "nature" of femininity or masculinity.
I'm a bit skeptical that past cultural trends that seem to flip our current once in their heads are evidence that our preferences are entirely culturally determined.
Entirely? No. Largely, though? Yes. Again, the
original idea that fueled some of these stereotypes may have been rooted in nature -- in Hunter/Gatherer society, the men hunted and the women stayed at camp. But through that "social inbreeding" I've outlined above, that idea gets more and more distilled and "purified" over time until it is super-concentrated -- Woman belong in the kitchen, and in fact shouldn't get to vote, since we Men are doing the real work!
But seeing how some cultural trends
can be flipped to their exact opposite, how is that
not evidence that there is a major cultural influence on them? If it were genetic, it wouldn't see a complete reversal over such a comparatively short time.
Take a look at your typical effeminate male. These men are often prone towards playing with girl toys and enjoying feminine activities. Now, again, you could say that these boys see girls playing with these toys in real life and on TV and are simply drawn to them because "it's what girls do", but I think it might be rooted more deeply than that, something on a base neurological level.
Two separate issues. First, there's the issue of identity. Something neurological is causing that "effeminate male" to
identify himself as female more than as male. That's the genetic part.
Now, why does he then adopt mannerisms, speech patterns, or color preferences that may be more identified with females?
Because he identifies with females, and that's what current society is telling him females do/like. The impulse is genetic, but the behaviors are socially-derived.
For instance, why would a young "effeminate male" choose to wear make-up? It's not genetic or neurological, since make-up was originally developed for men (war paint, sure, but also the more Baroque-era powered face/rosy cheek look). The only reasonable answer is because that's what he sees girls doing
today.
Colors have emotional properties to them that aren't necessarily culturally ingrained, after all.
If that were the case, pink is more closely related to meat, blood, and danger. Or maybe sex. Either way, pink was not too long ago considered a
manly color, while a soft blue was more feminine.
Marketing alone changed that over time, until today we see it as almost natural or self-evident.
Also, like I said, we didn't really have TV when I was very young. or, at least, we had it, but we weren't allowed to watch it (we didn't get the video games till we were older). The only commercial exposure we got was going to the store. I just doubt that all of our preferences developed based on what little media exposure we had.
No, but you were exposed to other kids. And those other kids were exposed to that stuff, as well as still
other kids who were. All of these things, regardless of how they are introduced, are reinforced
socially.