I am a guy and I have never had a crush on any of the women I am friends with.TheDooD said:This 100%, thisShark Wrangler said:Guy is lonely and wants to make you feel bad. Wants to be with you because your now in a relationship. A girl will pull this crap more than a guy will, but men have known to play the card as well. The guy is wondering why your just friends and this guy comes along and sweeps you up. Is wondering what makes this jerk off so special.
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OP take a step back and think about thisIf you have guy friends and they aren't gay. They all have a crush on you and should have gave them a chance before tossing them into that friend bin. He's pissed off because he feels betrayed that you can fall for an outsider and not somebody who stood at your side.The guy is wondering why your just friends and this guy comes along and sweeps you up. Is wondering what makes this jerk off so special
[sub]I fucking love that song. Why must it be so catchy?Owen Robertson said:Well it's clear that you don't want no scrubs. See, a scrub is a guy who can't get no love from you. Hangin' out the passenger side of his best friends ride, trying to holler at you.
One thing I will say, and I hope you don't take offence to this, but why are you still talking to him and in contact with him over instant messengers if he's so bad? (Assuming you are.)Rin Little said:Why do guys pull this shit?!
I hope you don't mean 'You should give the guys that turn you off a chance' and you mean 'The guy in question feels that you should give the guys that turn you off a chance.'TheDooD said:If you have guy friends and they aren't gay. They all have a crush on you and should have gave them a chance before tossing them into that friend bin. He's pissed off because he feels betrayed that you can fall for an outsider and not somebody who stood at your side.
That is just so wrong. On every level. I honestly have no idea where to begin on this.TheDooD said:If you have guy friends and they aren't gay. They all have a crush on you...
"A guilt trip into your pants" sounds almost poetic.Colour-Scientist said:Because guys who do that genuinely think they can guilt trip their way into your pants.
It has happened to me a couple of times.
I think they think that if they make you feel really, really sorry for them you'll sacrifice your happiness to be with them.
It's pretty bizarre, I know.
Or more accurately, the guy was told no once, fixated on her because she's 'safe' and not going anywhere, opens himself up to such levels of emotional vulnerability that nothing she can do to avoid him hurting will work, and while she may make dating mistakes that have nothing to do with him, offers his friendship as a farce, hoping that familiarity will give him more chances to ask her out without asking her out.Ziadaine said:From personal experience, some guys are like that because they've become so frustrated with woman saying no to them every time, but will insist on dating a total fuckhead then use said first guy as an emotional tissue without any regard abut his needs/wants/desires etc etc.
My car is probably nicer than your boyfriend's. I also have a motorbike. You should date me.Rin Little said:when he doesn't have a real job and no car and constantly whines about crap...
You should maybe think about what you prioritise as qualities in your boyfriends. Most men really don't like women who judge them on their earnings and cars.Rin Little said:Seriously, this guy doesn't know shit about me and yet he's making all these comments as if he could convince me to dump my boyfriend and instead date him when he doesn't have a real job and no car and constantly whines about crap...
Because you've not set clear boundaries.Rin Little said:Why do guys pull this shit?!
Edit: Yea I know not all guys are like this, just when some of them do I'm completely unable to grasp as to why they think crap like this will work in their favor.
Bullshit.DracoSuave said:I mean seriously, if she's said no to a relationship, and is seeing other people, she's not fucking leading you on.
And yet it's a notion that's continuously perpetuated by modern media; I honestly don't blame women for believing it to be true, since they aren't men and have no idea that the media is bullshitting them.AngloDoom said:Men don't just jump on the first thing that flashes them a smile. That's such a backward notion.