wulf3n said:
edit: And that most if not all are just trying to make games better from their perspective. That's what I meant by both side basically having the same argument.
I honestly think some people don't care and get irritated when others start sayign theres a problem...but thats just me and neither here nor there
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Mean, no. But it's understandable that a person will get defensive when someone criticises something they like/want. Not necessarily excusable, but understandable.[/quote]
it is understandable but still...
if you have a thing you like...there will ALWAYS be somone out there who will interpret to be problematic in some way shape or form..and some of them might even have fair points, but there comes a point where things are entertainment, and not propaganda to fill an ideology. You have to be [b/]honest[/b] with yourself (which is really really hard) as to weather or not thease points are fair, and if you don't agree then thats fine, if you do agree then thats fine too, you can still enjoy the thing, or if you feel you can't then thats fine too. I don't mind the game Metro last light but boy its got some serious lady issues
just because someone out there said Frozen was actually sexist doesn't nullify other arguments as to weather or not something is sexist and doesn't justify "not dealing with female characters cause its too hard"
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Of course, however I doubt many actually see their argument as a "derailment". I mean all arguments are essentially trying to show the other side their position in the hopes everyone comes to a shared understanding, in essence, ending the debate. I understand that it's frustrating having to explain the same thing countless times, I just don't think dismissing their "argument" as something malicious is all that helpful.
I think everyone is just trying to make the games industry their kind of better. Now that's going to cause a lot of contention as "better" in this case is so drastically different for both sides.[/quote]
no its not always malcious, but again when you encounter it enough times it gets irritating, and you get sick of trying to appease peoples feelings
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I didn't really think of that, though It does raise an interesting gray area.[/quote]
and it was essentially my entire point
[quote/]We think of the use of the derogatory term in that scenario as still being used as derogatory, but what if it's more said person uses that word because they want to be a part of that culture? Is it still as bad? Do we still dismiss them as a racist, or do we accept their intent as naivety over hate, and try convince them otherwise.[/quote]
well obviously not everyone is malicious, and while I'm not an expert on who should and should use the N-word (since you know..I'm white) I'm not sure somone like Quinen Tarantino gets a free pass just because he genuinely doesn't mean ill by it, he doesn't dictate to black people what they should and shouldn't feel offended by....but anyway that issue is one I don't dare touch.
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All I'm trying to imply is that I don't think it's healthy for the gaming community to keep treating everything as though it is founded by some malicious intent.[/quote]
is that what people actually say or people interpret the criticism? in a similar (but more extreme way) how some people think that "clearly feminists hate men" <-uhhh no buddy, we didn't say that at all....like you know, projection?
[quote/] extension is it still ok to ignore his feelings?[/quote]
well I'd explain why his feelings are not a good argument..but again people don't like to hear that