Well, if you must know, as a 21 year old black dude, I've never had a sexual partner is because I still have no concrete idea as to what kind of a sexual partner I would actually want to have that's both "practical" and not too "fantasy-based", if you know what I mean... On the flip side, I would panic at the last second if I did end up in a situation pre-sexual interface just because it would either be the first time and/or I would forget that this is just a "one-night stand" and nothing else...Colour Scientist said:If you've never had a sexual partner, is there a reason you don't want to or has the opportunity just not presented itself?
Wait a minute...4 sexual partners3 of them were in a relationship with you (but not at once)Haven't found themselves in a "one-night stand" situationHow does that one non-relationship sex partner not fit into the "one-night stand" category or am I just missing something here? Was it a sex friend or something like that?I'm 23, I lost my virginity at 17 and I've had 4 sexual partners. Of the four, I was in a relationship with three, not all at once though.
I don't have a problem with one-night stands at all, I just haven't really found myself in that situation.
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