Colour Scientist said:
Do you think your number is too high, too low or completely meaningless?
- Meaningless, I generally don't engage on a sexual level with someone unless I connect with them, and they with me. How often that happens is no-ones business
Do you judge other people based on how many people they've had sex with or think there's a limit to the amount of sexual partners a person should have?
NO.
Do you perhaps think that sex should be reserved for two people who are in a relationship or do you skulk around dance floors and chip shops at four in the morning desperate to find a decent looking randomer to bring home for the night?
No to either question, though I'm rather used to being approached by 'randomer's on the dancefloor
Including your age would also be helpful.
I'm 36...
Now for the rest. I lost my virginity at 18, and while I'm not going to state the number of sexual partners, I was faithful in a relationship for over 16 years. I would class myself as Bi-sexual, and quite possibly transgender ( or at least somewhere on the spectrum ).
But what do you define as a relationship? Not everything is as simple as boyfriend/girlfriend, and indeed what act classes as sex?
Was this post about love & relationships ( which is one thing)? or a voyeuristic look at our sex lives ( something completely different), or our attitudes to sex?
I could easily write at length on my attitude toward sex, but it comes to this point, it should be fun,safe, honest and consensual, For me its a form of play. Yes it can be deeply spiritual, emotional, but without that open playful spirit it's not all it could be.
EDIT-----
Yeah perhaps it's worth pointing out, that I'm ( for lack of a better term) a drag-queen, / performance artist under the name "Mistress Sinestra" I go out of my way to promote a particular sexual allure. It's part of the act, and a part I do rather enjoy.
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