So Let's Talk About Sex....
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What do stupid people with no money do? Procreate.
What do stupid people with money do? Procreate with prostitutes.
What do smart people do? Not care.
I think I figured out why we still have stupid in our gene pool.
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I am sixteen and I have no experience or opinion on the matter yet, because I can't seem to find anyone who is at my level of... intellect? Not sure if that is the right word, but nobody I know seems to think about science or math or the big picture of where our civilization is going. Everyone I know seems to only worry about shoes and what the guy/girl next to them says about so and so, I hate being intelligent sometimes, because that's all people near me talk about. I focus and doing things that are important, and until I find someone that thinks the same way I do, I probably will die alone, since nobody seems to like things like string theory or trigonometry, or doing the 'smart' and what is deemed by society and our civilizations as 'right' thing.
What do stupid people with no money do? Procreate.
What do stupid people with money do? Procreate with prostitutes.
What do smart people do? Not care.
I think I figured out why we still have stupid in our gene pool.
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I am sixteen and I have no experience or opinion on the matter yet, because I can't seem to find anyone who is at my level of... intellect? Not sure if that is the right word, but nobody I know seems to think about science or math or the big picture of where our civilization is going. Everyone I know seems to only worry about shoes and what the guy/girl next to them says about so and so, I hate being intelligent sometimes, because that's all people near me talk about. I focus and doing things that are important, and until I find someone that thinks the same way I do, I probably will die alone, since nobody seems to like things like string theory or trigonometry, or doing the 'smart' and what is deemed by society and our civilizations as 'right' thing.
In my opinion, casual "having-sex-with-you-for-no-real-reason-other-than-to-have-sex" sex is totally acceptable. That being said, unless getting a girl pregnant is okay with both of y'all, I think you should *always* wear a condom.
Casual sex is a weird subject for me and my boyfriend. We'll allow it as long as it's BOTH of us participating at once, so it's still the two of us in bed but just with an extra few bodies ;D
There is no one thing suits all for humanity and this is extremely objective however I have felt both sides that casual sex was better and that meaning full sex is better all I can say is we are generaly emotionaly driven if the physical and very very powerful stimulants you get from sex and climax is what you want go for it and if you want a loving deep connection go for it but your more likely to lean to what ever side your jonsing for at the moment and forget the past.
I hate to sound old, but all you 'casual sex' fans wait until you're a few years older, when you're looking for a guy/gal to actually settle down/get married to who doesn't have herpes/4 kids/lots of emotional baggage...and when you can't find one the whole 'casual sex' lifestyle will have something to do with it. Everyone should just cool their jets a little bit and quit thinking with their dicks.
I hope this post makes sense, as I am up way too late.
I hope this post makes sense, as I am up way too late.
You know guys who are in the triple digits at the age of 19?
Would it make you feel better to know they're liars? I know guys at the age of 29 who are rather good with women, and even they're not in the "hundreds".
Would it make you feel better to know they're liars? I know guys at the age of 29 who are rather good with women, and even they're not in the "hundreds".
Sorry, but imo, you're just being a prude there if you're "bothered hearing about people like that". If it's not your thing, it's not your thing, but if you're at the point of actually being bothered by someone else's active sex life, you should rethink the subject a bit imo.
Sex is fun. It's great. There's no reason to avoid it. And don't jump on HIV, yes, the risk increases the more you have it, but you have to be having sex with a person who has HIV (something that's rarely a case) and have the condom fail it's 98% protection or whatever. If you wanna live by those odds, buy a portable bridge and use it to cross the street to avoid ever being hit by a car. And then cry in agony when it goes onto the curb and still hits you.
Anyway where was I. The point is, I understand where you're coming from, personally. I myself am not big on jumping every chick I meet and casual sex is not the first thing on my list of priorities in life. I much prefer a solid relationship and someone I care about.
But a sexual friend is not an alien thing. It's not something to be feared. It's just the next step and we, as a society on the whole, are usually afraid of next steps. Are you telling me that you've never had a friend who you were somewhat intimate with? It's usually called a "best friend" but with a denotation "of an opposite gender" (sorry I guess this is a generalisation, nothing against gays/bisexual peeps, just talking from a heterosexual PoV here). You might feel comfortable doing 90% of the things couples do, might even spend more time together than a couple does. You might hug, cuddle while watching stuff, etc. Basically, all you're not doing is having sex.
So why not? I'm not saying every such relationship should do it, but it's not some "omagawd, stepping over the line" sort of thing when some do. That's basically what an open relationship is, a good friend you have sex with.
Sometimes it can be purely mechanical and some people do it just for the sake of sex itself, but hey, it's just a step up from wanking and I doubt you'll tell me you think that's wrong&evil. And I should remind you, the previous generation of prudes did refer to wanking as wrong&evil.
Anyway, it boils down to social evolution. A new generation will often take a step forward and if we're not a part of it, we'll likely feel the urge to think it's wrong. It's a built-in stopping mechanism and yes, it's purpose is to make us rethink what we're doing. So rethink it, don't just blurt out the moral outrage based on nothing but that built in feeling.
Sex is fun. It's great. There's no reason to avoid it. And don't jump on HIV, yes, the risk increases the more you have it, but you have to be having sex with a person who has HIV (something that's rarely a case) and have the condom fail it's 98% protection or whatever. If you wanna live by those odds, buy a portable bridge and use it to cross the street to avoid ever being hit by a car. And then cry in agony when it goes onto the curb and still hits you.
Anyway where was I. The point is, I understand where you're coming from, personally. I myself am not big on jumping every chick I meet and casual sex is not the first thing on my list of priorities in life. I much prefer a solid relationship and someone I care about.
But a sexual friend is not an alien thing. It's not something to be feared. It's just the next step and we, as a society on the whole, are usually afraid of next steps. Are you telling me that you've never had a friend who you were somewhat intimate with? It's usually called a "best friend" but with a denotation "of an opposite gender" (sorry I guess this is a generalisation, nothing against gays/bisexual peeps, just talking from a heterosexual PoV here). You might feel comfortable doing 90% of the things couples do, might even spend more time together than a couple does. You might hug, cuddle while watching stuff, etc. Basically, all you're not doing is having sex.
So why not? I'm not saying every such relationship should do it, but it's not some "omagawd, stepping over the line" sort of thing when some do. That's basically what an open relationship is, a good friend you have sex with.
Sometimes it can be purely mechanical and some people do it just for the sake of sex itself, but hey, it's just a step up from wanking and I doubt you'll tell me you think that's wrong&evil. And I should remind you, the previous generation of prudes did refer to wanking as wrong&evil.
Anyway, it boils down to social evolution. A new generation will often take a step forward and if we're not a part of it, we'll likely feel the urge to think it's wrong. It's a built-in stopping mechanism and yes, it's purpose is to make us rethink what we're doing. So rethink it, don't just blurt out the moral outrage based on nothing but that built in feeling.
I'm going to take a shot in the dark and guess that you're a nihilist.The Man With the Soap said:
It is not alliteration however it is that other one with repeating vowel sounds. The "oo" noise keeps popping up.D Bones said:
I literally had to bite my tongue so my laughing wouldn't wake anyone. Thank you, so very much.Tydanubus said:
Anyway, yeah our views are more than less the same. Virgin at 18 (*waits for any laughter*) and I don't particularly give a damn. Makes my life much easier.
As long as the sex is safe and you're not breaking a commitment made to someone else- sleep around as much as you want to and as much as you can, I say. Only live once, might as well experience as much of the pleasures life has to offer, as we can 
i love people who sleep around a lot. send them over to my place.
in all seriousness, i've somehow gotten into an open relationship myself, and i'm having fun so far. there's nothing wrong with casual sex if you're safe about it and all parties involved know it's just casual sex.
in all seriousness, i've somehow gotten into an open relationship myself, and i'm having fun so far. there's nothing wrong with casual sex if you're safe about it and all parties involved know it's just casual sex.
I'm glad I never had casual sex..... lets see, regular sex, drunk sex, and make-up sex.... but not casual sex, and all of that was with the same person. Who of course I've been dating for 5 years and engaged for almost one of them.
I never really cared for the thought of casual sex. I like the thought of before, during, and after to being to be emotionally involved. And part of that is her pleasure comes first before mine. I like it that way
I never really cared for the thought of casual sex. I like the thought of before, during, and after to being to be emotionally involved. And part of that is her pleasure comes first before mine. I like it that way
I almost agree with your point, although I don't belive masturbation is the reason not to, since I don't.
I don't mind the idea of casual sex aslong as it's in a time where I have stopped caring about what I do in life and have already lost my virginity through someone I love.
I don't mind the idea of casual sex aslong as it's in a time where I have stopped caring about what I do in life and have already lost my virginity through someone I love.
I like the "elite club" ending you put on it.2fish said:
It is in no way just a physical act or an elite club. It is two humans ensuring the reproduction of our species, and it feels pretty damn awesome.
It's not just a physical act it is also mental. In your mind subconsciously you are reproducing no matter how much self control you have or whatever this girl has been marked as someone that could have a child with you (subconsciously).
I say that you should have more sex just for the reason of being good for the one you might end up loving. When I was a virgin I did look at it like it was something to not give away so easily. But once I had sex I instantly regretted not going for all those other chances before hand. Which is why I say do it when your sure its safe. (btw Ive been drinking so this post might be a bit confusing.)
it depends. if youre having fun with someone you met and youve had a bit to drink then as a one off i dont think theres anything too bad about that. but yes it is more healthy to have an actually partner rather than whoring it out to anyone you can get your hands on.