So, will you be participating in "Ceasefire friday"?

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Won't be shooting in a game per se, I will sneak past them in Dishonored before preparing to go to Londen. Well unless I'm in the mood for Borderlands 2 again.
 

Andrew_C

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I don't play shooters much anymore, but this is such a stupid idea that I'm tempted to break out the most obnoxious game I own, Saints Row 2, and spend the whole day beating up, shooting and running down civilians.

FPS games didn't cause this atrocity.
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I won't join because I can't see this as an actual act of respect, but as a way to make gamers look better in the eyes of others.

Why just shooters? I just imagine someone going: "Oh, we know that your children died, so we decided to stop playing shooters for friday. You know, since the guy used guns." It's just seems so thoughtless and trying to please the people who are blaming video games for this, instead of actually respecting the dead.

Why do we not stop playing all video games instead for the day? That is something that would effect all gamers. It's seems like a cop out, considering there are tons of video game genres besides shooters. How is reminding people that people were specifically shot respectful? We might as well send money to the families of the people who died.

Why do we focus on the killer instead of the dead again?
You put it much better than I can. And what you said gives me an idea, if as a gamer you feel that you do something to make a statement about this, a donation to Child's Play or another charity of your choice would be far more appropriate and helpful.
 

King Billi

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Alot of people really need to get it into their heads that this harmless and simple gesture isn't in any way about them or their beloved videogames at all!

It's nothing more than a sign of condolence and support to the victims of this terrible tragedy and you're free to not participate if you wish, people should keep this in mind before they start crying about the blame game.

Seeing so many people turn this good-natured gesture around in order to paint themselves as victims of the game hating media once again is just disgusting.

Grow up.
 

King Billi

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The Plunk said:
King Billi said:
Believe it or not for some people this dosen't have anything to do with video games and the people who oppose them. For some people this is only about showing respect for those who have died.

Some people like to show compassion and sympathy by taking a moment out of their lives to offer condolences for the vicitms and their families of any tragedy. You are right that not everybody can actively effect change in the world but everyone is capable of showing compassion.

For some people this would done with a traditional moment of silence but for others choosing not the play a particular videogame is their sign of respect.

Offering sympathy however it may be done is never pointless but what you're doing is, stop thinking about yourself and your "precious" video games and recognise what this may actually be about for most people.
You do realise that this will achieve precisely nothing, right? It will in no way help the grieving friends and families of the victims. It will in no way prevent a similar event from occurring again in the future. All it will do is give more fuel to the people who say that violent video games caused this.
I'm not admitting games are responsible for this tragedy in any way by participating in this "ceasefire". Furthermore I'm not concerned that this will in any way be able to be used as an admission that violent video games are the cause of incidents like this, those that try to make that argument will be proven wrong like they always have been in the past.

I repeat once again that this has nothing to do with videogames or the people who oppose them, this is soley about showing the proper respect to the victims of this tragedy.
 

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Also, yeah, kneejerk reactions from the community are pretty much the least helpful responses to anything, ever.
Yes, indeed they are.

Yes, I'm looking at you, Mr. Pot.

Edit: Whoopsie. Forgot to respond to the original topic.

Yeah, I think I could take a day off online shooters, despite the emptiness of the gesture. Why not? It's not like I play them at all anyway.

Why not up the ante? I'll not play any video games that day that are of so much as a semi-violent nature. Not even Geometry Wars.

Why?

Because I want to.
 

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The Plunk said:
King Billi said:
I'm not admitting games are responsible for this tragedy in any way by participating in this "ceasefire". Furthermore I'm not concerned that this will in any way be able to be used as an admission that violent video games are the cause of incidents like this, those that try will be proven wrong like they always have been in the past.
As if Fox News cares about being proved wrong.

I repeat once again that this has nothing to do with videogames or the people who oppose them, this is soley about showing the proper respect to the victims of this tragedy.
Depriving yourself of something you enjoy that is completely unrelated to the tragedy shows respect for the victims in the same way that taking on a vow of chastity or self-flagellation shows respect.
Or maybe 1 night out of hundreds of gaming you can say, maybe I'll spend some time with my wife or with friends, things that actually matter when they are gone. Of course a night of gaming celibacy isnt going to bring those kids back, but how often do we cherish the things we have? Maybe some of the parents of those kids wish they had watched less TV and played a board game with their kid before they never saw them again. We all lead busy lives, and having occasions that allow us to reflect on what we have is nice. Maybe you reflect on the loved in your lives often, and props to you, I certainly know that I have a wife that loves the hell out of me and I certainly dont do enough to show her that I appreciate every minute of it.

I generally play Rift from 9p - 12 on friday, I'm going to pass this time and spend the evening with my wife.
 

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No; not unless everyone puts away the real guns for at least a week.

Once again I must quote George Carlin:
"now they're talking about banning toy guns...
and they're going to keep the fucking real ones!"

Does anyone (other than us) actually know about this cease fire thing?

Capsha: "banana stand"
When are the new episodes of Arrested Development coming out?
 

Dogstile

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Nah, world of tanks beckons and I care very little. Call me crazy but just because people died in America doesn't mean that i'm going to drop everything and show "respect". People get killed every day, horribly, in other parts of the world, but for some reason the second it happens in a country with a massive media network you have to show respect.

Doesn't make sense and I don't agree with it. Anyone giving me shit for not caring about people i've never met who died halfway across the world seriously needs a reality check.

That said, I wish the best to their family's, I just won't change how I act for them.
 

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The Plunk said:
I repeat once again that this has nothing to do with videogames or the people who oppose them, this is soley about showing the proper respect to the victims of this tragedy.
Light a candle, pay respect in another way. Don't play a violent video game as a personal, I get why it can feel wrong after a violent tragedy to then immerse yourself in violent fiction. The two are obviously linked (no, not cause and effect) despite the knee jerk complete denial we as a community have.

However in the atmosphere when games come under attack by various idiots in high places making this a public event will no doubt seem like accepting some kind of responsibility to people who don't get it, even if in reality it's just a symbolic gesture.
 

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No one's going to notice one way or another.

Either way, apparently it's Starcraft [http://www.forbes.com/sites/insertcoin/2012/12/19/cnn-picks-their-game-to-blame-starcraft/] we should be abstaining from, not FPS.
 

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Maze1125 said:
Diddy_Mao said:
I probably wouldn't have because I don't really play "shooters" to begin with

I suppose I can dust off my Xbox and that copy of Halo I never gave back to my co-worker and pretend to enjoy it out of spite for 30 minutes.
Yes, a group is trying to honour 18 dead children, misguided or not, and your response is to do the exact opposite of their suggestion in order to spite them...
Yes, that is absolutely the best way to get people to believe that video-games aren't warping your mind...
Well I was kinda joking but since you bring it up.

Well intentioned or not this kind of Slacktivism is pretty much the worst kind of thing to be giving any degree of credence to. I'd sooner see these folks waste their time signing an online petition to ban crazy people from shooting the innocent or wearing whatever ribbon or wrist band colour has been assigned to this issue by the national bullshit trinket awareness council. At least signing the petition or putting on a doodad would required some degree of action on their part before the ill deserved feeling of self satisfaction.

My advice to anyone who wants to honour these kids or any victim of gun violence? Volunteer at a hospital or support group, donate to a relief fund, attend your city council meetings, address your politicians...do something...do ANYTHING other than just not playing a particular genre of game and pretending like anyone but you gives a shit.
 

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The Plunk said:
As if Fox News cares about being proved wrong.
Which do you think makes a "better" Fox News headline?

"Gamer's stop shooting each other for a day due to recent tragedy, are they admitting guilt?"
or
"Gamer's outright refuse to stop shooting each other, even in the light of the recent tragedy. How much must the games have warped them for them to care so little?"
 

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http://kotaku.com/5969100/video-games-and-the-sandy-hook-shooting-two-very-different-reactions

Thanks from bringing this up OP. I didn't even know that this existed. You forced me to do some research, and I choose to partake in the even instead of immediately reacting out of spite. It is a SIGN OF RESPECT, NOT A SIGN OF GUILT. I respect the victims and their families, and this sign of respect is all I can do. THIS WAS NOT PROPOSED OUT OF BLAME.

This video might put things in perspective and give this idea some respect:

EDIT: By the way, OP has lied to us. Games were not blamed. Guns were not blamed. There are more articles about them being blamed than the blaming itself. These are myths. The only thing that is going on is mourning.
 

Catrixa

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Wasn't it supposed to be Starcraft II that taught him how to murder children with guns (https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=MHzTlkAGNIE)? So, wouldn't that mean we should be abstaining from playing RTS's loosely (or directly, I guess) based on Warhammer 40k? Either way, I'll be playing whatever it is I'm playing. If my box-that-can-run-Natural-Selection-2 was working, I'd be playing Natural Selection 2 (which is pretty much first person Starcraft II anyway xD). But, since it isn't, it'll either be Minecraft or the MMO-of-the-month.

Really, though, this is kind of like: "Known TV watcher murders large number of children, country abstains from TV in memoriam" or "Known book reader kills many, no one reads for a day to remember the fallen." I mean, not that we shouldn't be taking a break from our favorite pastimes occasionally, but wouldn't it make more sense to maybe: "Cities across the country hold candle-lit vigils to mourn the fallen in recent school shooting"? This way we aren't blaming anything and are actually showing support for the families who lost their children. Maybe save the blaming for when we aren't super emotional and can actually think through things.