Wow. Well, I guess this is going to have to be the one where I disagree with Bob most strongly on. While I agree with his plea for civility and honest and open debate I could not disagree more with his certain assertions.
I hope that bit about reconsidering the Fairness Doctrine was sarcasm. The points that were made about blandness and the fact that there's so many outlets and people are so savvy are exactly why it shouldn't be. It was a terrible idea then, it would be no less disastrous now.
I've never noticed this "pop-culture duality", if anything the opposite. The debates that I see plaguing geek culture are more of a singularity. "This one thing I like is awesome and it is the only awesome thing and everything else sucks." Which makes "Presumption #2" equally as dubious. Again, me personally, I've never seen this clamoring for equal praise/disdain. At most it's always been a request for equal respect, maybe, because again these arguements have always come down to "I'm right; you're wrong" bitchfests where no one gives anyone ANY credit.
The reason fanboy has become such a dirty word is precisely because they have been the poster-boys for the very accusations railed against. It seems Bob and I have had polar opposite experiences because any conversation about anything always breaks down into belligerence between the fanboy factions. XBOX fanboys proclaiming that Playstation sucks and Playstations fanboys pulling out excuses of XBOX's inferiority and so on. This has been going on for as long as I've lived. Sega and Nintendo, rap and rock, Intel and AMD, Comics and Manga, Star Trek and Babylon 5, etc etc etc. It has always been the fanboys of each side that have always been unwilling to give any credence or dignity to the opposition. That is what fanboy has come to mean; being so stubbornly devoted to something that it can do no wrong and is always right. Fanboyism is the media equivalent of partisanship in politics.
I think Bob has this totally backwards. When he says people who like Killzone are accused of being fanboys I'd say, "Yeah, and guess who is calling them that? The XBOX fanboys!" The correlation of liking something equaling disliking it's perceived rival is also fallacious. This is exactly what I'm talking about. The example he tries to give in defense of fanboys is PRECISELY the stereotypical fanboy MO. It is usually the fanboys who love one thing and instinctively, habitually and reflexively hate its rival.
The one thing I do agree with Bob on is this kind of discourse and partisan hackery does have to stop, across all fields. It's ok to dislike something, it's ok to disagree, as long as we can do so like reasonable and mature adults. A tall order for the internet/geek community.