Bet you didn't know you should be offended, eh?Fappy said:Wait... "breeders" is an insult? People get offended by that? Wow.Zachary Amaranth said:-Snip-
You learn something everyday.
Bet you didn't know you should be offended, eh?Fappy said:Wait... "breeders" is an insult? People get offended by that? Wow.Zachary Amaranth said:-Snip-
You learn something everyday.
Now I'm pissed! How dare they call me such a horrible, horrible name!?Zachary Amaranth said:Bet you didn't know you should be offended, eh?Fappy said:Wait... "breeders" is an insult? People get offended by that? Wow.Zachary Amaranth said:-Snip-
You learn something everyday.
Right, that would be assuming they were right to "gaybash" for those reasons in the first place... Them simply being true of some people does not A) Excuse hate-mongering or B) Allow for blame of the victim. What you are saying is akin to this(however this will be a simplified version to highlight the flaw): "I hate you for being gay... AND YOU ADMIT TO BEING GAY! Therefore I am right to hate you for it."FitScotGaymer said:blackrave said:But because they considers them demeaning, humiliating and misinforming
Because whenever anyone learns about their sexual preferences they associate my friends with those "clowns" (not my word)
Those prides are stereotypical and insulting to everyone
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We have a winner!
This is me. I despise Gay Pride events.
I saw a "porn" clip online recently at a pride event in San Francisco (or LA not sure which) where they filmed the "stars" - four of them - having full bareback bdsm sex in the middle of the street surrounded by spectators shouting things like "yeh! **** him good!" and whatnot.
I found it horrifying.
Not that I have a problem with porn, or sex, or even voyuerism/exhibitionism (in fact I like all of those things lol) but to me it just said to people "hey all those insulting stereotypical things you gaybash us for? yeh they are so true! bash away!"
Eugh.
This is where I stopped thinking this was going to be a civil thread and more about the preconceived notions that you hold to a group of people.Valen_Starwalker said:This is no way a hate speech, bashing people, because they're gay, or anything of the sort. Please keep civil. This is clear a discussion on how the Gay Community acts, and behaves.
Congrats on having an isolated event happen with two gays on your Facebook that reflect poorly on their character and not their sexual orientation or the entire community of people who share that sexual orientation.Valen_Starwalker said:Today on facebook my friend posted a picture saying how straight people breed cancer, and other insensitive things. How it's more likely that straight parents beat their kids. Etc. Even if it's true it was insanely disrespectful.
Even if it's true/fact it still doesn't justify the behavior. Two wrongs do not make a right.
Now I know that the Gay Community has had terrible things down to them, but is this behavior from them show that they're just really a bunch of little kids? (Some of them at least)
In the comments section I kinda said in a summed up paragraph.
"I find this disrespectful, and plain down rude. I don't care what the Gay Community been through if they act like this. They want respect, and to be treated fairly. That's fine, and cool. Everyone should be treated fairly, and nice. But I hate it when the majority Gay community act like they're so superior then everyone else for just being gay. They act like they're so much better than anyone else, and how those people are just ignorant, and not educated."
And then some Lesbian friend of my friend comes along, and says this.
" Being a lesbian, let me put it to you this way...I don't care who you are, if you are kind to me, I will be kind to you even if I don't agree with you. I'm not going to go start a protest and stomp on your beliefs and rights...therefore, this separates me from these other "pro-gay straight bashers" you speak of therefore invalidating your argument...let's go ahead and get to the real point here...you hate gays and would like to make it known. It's okay, I understand you are ignorant and closed minded and I accept that, but I do not hate you and I wish you the very best."
Valen_Starwalker said:What? She just did exactly what I hate about them! It just proves my point that they act like a bunch of little kids when someone disagrees with them about anything. I never said anything about hating gays for being gay. I hate the way they act towards other people. They act superior, and self-righteous just because they're gay.
Valen_Starwalker said:Do you think the Gay Community should grow up a bit, and stop being so disrespectful towards other people? Are your experiences any different? Do you know anyone gays that don't do this?
And why in the hell do people defend something even though it's directly staring them in the face?
Says the person who has never been to one..blackrave said:And for some reason this is common practice or LGBT prides :/
But seriously.. it does matter, doesn't it? If you're "acting just like everyone else" you're not gay, because the only way to "act like everyone else" is to only date or have sex with members of the opposite sex. Sure, you could fake it and make sure noone ever has to see you doing anything remotely gay, but what the fuck.. if it shouldn't matter, then why does it matter if it's obvious?Aetera said:Really, being gay shouldn't matter. It shouldn't be your defining characteristic. It's not mine. If being gay is the most interesting thing about you, you're not a very interesting person.
Wow. Just wow.Valen_Starwalker said:**snip**
You've got a pretty nasty case of assuming a few cases are indicative of the whole, friend. That's not good. But, there's more at work here than you might think. Addressing the entire "gay community", a group of people diverse in every conceivable way united only by their fondness of their own gender is remarkably small minded. Telling such a wide and diverse group that they need to "grow up" shows your bigotry, because it's expressing an inherent desire that you think the whole idea of homosexuality as an identifying agent is something people will grow out of, regardless of how you intended it to mean on paper. Next, you're calling someone out on trying to fight a system that is oppressing them, and as an admitted part of the system that is oppressing them, you saying that their argument is juvenile is viewed by them as oppressing them more. Most everyone who doesn't identify as cissexual feels a very strong oppression from society, the government, and the media, and as such, they have to find their own way to fighting such aggression. In pointing out that fewer children of same-gendered parents are abused, they are pointing out that there is a social validity to same-sex marriages--and you sit there and call it disrespectful, and call them juvenile as a community for trying to gain ground they've never had in all of western culture?Valen_Starwalker said:Snip
Says the person who totally missed the point of the post...evilthecat said:Says the person who has never been to one..blackrave said:And for some reason this is common practice or LGBT prides :/
I have, it's absolutely nothing like that.
There's two issues that I have with this text right here.Valen_Starwalker said:In my life from what I read/see/hear/experience I find that the majority of the gay community are bunch of ignorant, arrogant, self-rightness, rude, disrespectful, and plainly just act like a bunch of little kids when things don't go there way.