Difficulty is not accessibility.
... I never said anything about difficulty being accessibility. I'm talking about pausing, a feature that has been found in most games for decades, and the lack thereof in Elden Ring and Souls games is pretty unnecessary as it adds nothing to the game, least of all difficulty, so being of the opinion that they could use a pause feature isn't a wildly "stupid" take.
You've died on this hill on a multitude of occasions, that desiring any sort of change to a game is somehow an offence to the devs' integrity, and if people can't play a game as intended then they just shouldn't. Why is wanting reasonable QoL improvements "stupid?" Hell, devs make patches to their games all the time; do you rail at them for not leaving the game as intended?
Having a real life is not a disability.
I never said that either, at least not in the absurdly broad sense you've chosen to take my words. But in the strictest sense of the word, yes, having a "real life" could be considered a disability insofar as one might be unable to do certain things under circumstances beyond their control. A father can't leave his infant alone to go out drinking; he's literally disabled from doing so responsibly. Situational disability. Now, if he gets a babysitter, a reasonable accommodation, he is then able. Situational ability.
That's what makes those takes stupid. That's it. I dunno why you have to bring up her being a woman as if that has any influence on whether or not her take was dumb or not. It would be just as stupid of an excuse if a man said it. I brought up only her name because I know who she is.
And I only brought up that she's a woman... because she IS one. That's a fact of the discussion. I don't know her name, so when referencing her, I'm going to use words like "She," and "her" and, yeah, "woman." I didn't accuse you of being sexist or suggested your very pointed response to her opinion was somehow fueled by her gender. Don't take offence where there's none to be had.
The whole point of a forum, of discussion in general, is specifically to talk about our opinions. What even are we doing here if not talking about our opinions and responding to the opinions of others?
Agreed, I just noted how hostile your calling a reasonable opinion "stupid" sounded. I mean, there are a lot of opinions I'd call stupid, but they tend to merit it, and I try to back myself up with reasons I feel that way. So let me ask you, other than FROM hasn't done it thus far, what makes suggesting you should be able to pause "stupid' exactly?