RAKtheUndead said:
Marriage is a prison for the naive and idealistic, and a financial burden beyond any but childbirth - but at least childbirth completes a biological imperative.
Yeah, that makes total sense...you know, considering that there aren't a ton of financial benefits to marriage such as, ...
Tax Benefits
Filing joint income tax returns with the IRS and state taxing authorities.
Creating a "family partnership" under federal tax laws, which allows you to divide business income among family members.
Estate Planning Benefits
Inheriting a share of your spouse's estate.
Receiving an exemption from both estate taxes and gift taxes for all property you give or leave to your spouse.
Creating life estate trusts that are restricted to married couples, including QTIP trusts, QDOT trusts, and marital deduction trusts.
Obtaining priority if a conservator needs to be appointed for your spouse -- that is, someone to make financial and/or medical decisions on your spouse's behalf.
Government Benefits
Receiving Social Security, Medicare, and disability benefits for spouses.
Receiving veterans' and military benefits for spouses, such as those for education, medical care, or special loans.
Receiving public assistance benefits.
Employment Benefits
Obtaining insurance benefits through a spouse's employer.
Taking family leave to care for your spouse during an illness.
Receiving wages, workers' compensation, and retirement plan benefits for a deceased spouse.
Taking bereavement leave if your spouse or one of your spouse's close relatives dies.
Medical Benefits
Visiting your spouse in a hospital intensive care unit or during restricted visiting hours in other parts of a medical facility.
Making medical decisions for your spouse if he or she becomes incapacitated and unable to express wishes for treatment.
Death Benefits
Consenting to after-death examinations and procedures.
Making burial or other final arrangements.
Family Benefits
Filing for stepparent or joint adoption.
Applying for joint foster care rights.
Receiving equitable division of property if you divorce.
Receiving spousal or child support, child custody, and visitation if you divorce.
Housing Benefits
Living in neighborhoods zoned for "families only."
Automatically renewing leases signed by your spouse.
Consumer Benefits
Receiving family rates for health, homeowners', auto, and other types of insurance.
Receiving tuition discounts and permission to use school facilities.
Other consumer discounts and incentives offered only to married couples or families.
Other Legal Benefits and Protections
Suing a third person for wrongful death of your spouse and loss of consortium (loss of intimacy).
Suing a third person for offenses that interfere with the success of your marriage, such as alienation of affection and criminal conversation (these laws are available in only a few states).
Claiming the marital communications privilege, which means a court can't force you to disclose the contents of confidential communications between you and your spouse during your marriage.
Receiving crime victims' recovery benefits if your spouse is the victim of a crime.
Obtaining immigration and residency benefits for noncitizen spouse.
Visiting rights in jails and other places where visitors are restricted to immediate family.
RAKtheUndead said:
Danzaivar said:
RAKtheUndead said:
Marriage is a prison for the naive and idealistic, and a financial burden beyond any but childbirth - but at least childbirth completes a biological imperative.
Yeah gotta hate the tax breaks and all the legal conveniences it brings as well.
Course, it's harder to be edgy that way.
That, of course, comes after the ceremony costing in excess of ?30,000. Don't try to suggest that it costs less for a good wedding - if you let a woman organise things, she'll drain all of your finances just for one day. No tax break in existence could make it worth all that strain and effort.
A ceremony can cost as little as a trip to see the justice of the peace in your area. Of course, say you do have a ceremony, I've seen modest ceremonies like my sisters that cost around $2,000. She planned all of it. Your assurance that any woman is going to drain you financially with the wedding would seem to indicate that you are sexist, or just an idiot generalizing far too much. Your lack of understanding of marriage benefits also suggest that you are either extremely dense, or have never been married. Possibly both.
OP: aside from the above benefits of marriage, it's around for a few romantic and pragmatic reason. Romantically, it's an sentiment of commitment that is visible to all. It's a way of showing that you aren't still in that relationship stage of "I'm still trying to keep my options open," otherwise called "I don't trust you enough." It's a way of celebrating your love. Pragmatically, it encourages settling down and starting a family which is better for the child sociologically and better for the nations economy.
Also, it's not really religious anymore. At least, it doesn't have to be. The minute the government started recognizing marriages in the USA is the same minute that it became secular in the USA.
That's what it looks like in my nation, at least. It's probably pretty similar in the UK and Ireland.