Why would having a gay main character alienate people? Does playing as a robot, shark, or alien alienate people from playing a game? No, right?
No it isn't just having the main character be gay. It's the politics of having every character being gay (as in batwomen) or having it all over the product like it's the only thing that has any relevance. Politics alienate people. They always will and I get that sometimes it will chase people away, but if done well you can have your message and your audience together. The problem is when you bash people over the head with it, like what Naughty Dog has been doing since they fired Amy Hening for not wanting to write the shit into her stories.
What was wrong with the normal Indiana Jones-like story about traveling around the globe looking for treasure. No sexuality needed. Just running around chasing bad guys trying to find some maguffin and that's that. Everything has to have a fucking message now and I hate it honestly. It's so on the nose that it makes me actively discredit the message on purpose.
If the message is subtle, it's fine, but when you see it plastered through out the game or the show it just becomes eye-rolling. That might make me a shitty person, but I am starting to not give a shit.
Are you implying people are born straight and become gay as they grow up? Because that would be a very, very silly thing to say. If Ellie is gay that means she's born gay, and likely only realized this when she was 14 (not 12 btw). Let me ask you this, if Ellie gave a quick peck on the lips of a boy in Left Behind, would you be as vocal about it? Would you ask 'Why, she's just a child'?
And just because she's (what you preceive to be) 12 and gay doesn't mean she's having sex at 12. If a 12-year old straight girl can be in love with a boy and share a simple kiss, what's wrong with a 12-year old lesbian girl being in love and sharing a simple kiss with a girl?
No, absolutely not. If ellie is gay then she's gay from day 1 and just discovers her sexuality along the way. The issue I have is that they snuck the fact into her character in a DLC which many many people will have missed, when instead they could have done it as a good character arch in this game.
You telling me you'd rather it just happen quickly in a DLC as opposed to having a full story arch in a fleshed out game where you see Ellie grow as a character as she learns who she is and what matters to her?
And yeah, you're right, if Ellie kissed a boy as a teenager it wouldn't be a big deal. Because like it or not, that's the normal and normal usually isn't a big deal. However it would become a big deal if she kissed a boy in the DLC then was gay in the sequel, but again that could have been a great plot device as Ellie starts to find these feelings for Dina and their relationship builds up as the game progresses. Hell make it a kidnapping where Dina gets taken and Ellie rushes to save her as a play on the "save the Princess" Trope. That would have been GOOD.
A story about love, instead of vengeance that treats the characters with a complete lack of respect.
Seems like a missed potential.
And I would point out, that my point is the emphasize Ellie's homosexuality in a better way, not remove it, or "it would be better if she were straight". I'm not trying to remove the homosexuality, I'm trying to see it be better.