Archany said:
Something happened with her that you aren't aware of, she wouldn't have acted like that without a stimulus from somewhere else, maybe the new boyfriend doesn't like you or something and she's just submissive, if yall have a good mutual friend try talking to them, see if they know what happened, but something happened that you aren't aware of
however, you should go ahead and forget about her
My best friend also worked with us there at once, and considered ourselves a tight trio of friends. My friend moved to Washington about the time I started classes this semester though, so he wasn't around physically when all this happened. However he did tell me that she was basically telling him nothing but "bullshit excuses", as he put it. I personally have never known the guy she is going out with now, but my friend was a manager at our old store, and says the guy is a total scumbag. His personality is inconsequential to me, I don't care who she is dating really, but if what my friend says it true it just adds to the confusion of her actions at best.
swenson said:
I dunno. Maybe I just don't know enough of the story, but are you sure you weren't just misinterpreting her attraction/friendship as wanting a relationship? Although annoying if true, it's possible she could be attracted to you but still want to just be friends. *shrug* Like I say, I don't really know the whole situation, but it doesn't sound like either of you is purposefully being a jerk or intentionally stringing the other one along. So... I guess if you still want to be friends with her, you should probably still at least make an attempt to be friendly toward her, but at least for now it looks like a relationship is out of the picture.
While always a possibility I will not rule out, I will say it is highly unlikely from my standpoint. As I said, I did ask her on a date, and she did accept, rather ecstatically to my surprise. And she seemed fine with it up til that point of last-minute-cancellation.
I did make one small attempt to try to have a friendly conversation with her, and it ended badly as I said, despite me trying to just be a reasonable friend about it and leave any trace of our past interest of each other out of the conversation in hopes to just keep a friendship.
zama174 said:
Hader said:
Dude.. Its not worth a sandwich this is your life!
Ok in all seriousness try talking to her.. But just remember the time tested saying. "Bitches be crazy." So maybe she just went bonkers.. Or maybe someone told her you did something that you didn't.. or did... DUN DUN DUN!
Bottom line: Confront her and talk to her about. If she goes crazy.. Then drop her.
She pretty much did go crazy. Last person I would expect it from too, and the only thing I might slightly care about is how she justifies her actions towards me, and our friendship, to get where she is now. Honestly, if I had done something like that, I would have a guilty conscience for life. But that's just me.
Also, odds are her new love interest didn't say anything about me, considering the fact we never knew each other in the slightest. I guess he could have said some things, but nothing too personal really. I can't even remember his name and he would only know mine through her or by the fact I was indirectly his manager for a year. How ironic...
