At 14, just a few months ago in fact; a bit awkward at first, but we still love each other considerably and it's improved.
It's going to sound offensive but "grow up" really is your answer to that. I suppose a nicer way to say that is that it's not going to matter as you get older and mature in relationships. My first girlfriend is the only girl I have ever had sex where I was her first. Even then we had both messed around in other ways before.IcyEvils said:Anyone know of a way to stop thinking about it? Kind of like jealousy I wasn't there first. It's ruining me, and she just feels guilty. If anyone has suggestions please say!
Holy shit, you are Spiderman!SckizoBoy said:'Twas... 12 at the time. And it was an upside down kiss...
I know what you feel like. I wasn't my girlfriend's first kiss, but she was mine. I also wasn't her first something else, which is the part that bothers me.IcyEvils said:About 10 months ago, with the girl I'm still with. I told her I really liked her, she said she liked me too. I asked could I kiss her, then our lips met. It was ok, nothing huge. We've got plenty of styles now though :3
It bugs me though, even now, that I wasn't her first kiss. She says she regrets etc and wishes she'd waited for me, and some boys even managed to bite her lip and make her bleed.
Anyone know of a way to stop thinking about it? Kind of like jealousy I wasn't there first. It's ruining me, and she just feels guilty. If anyone has suggestions please say!