You're 16. How high/ low will you go?

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wilson_ty

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I'd say it's more subjective, depending on the people. But off the top of my head, if I was 16, I'd most likely date people that were ages 15-17. Then again, I'm pretty introverted, and think everyone has a secondary goal for talking to me. If you're not a freshman or sophomore dating a senior, it would get a bit weird, because they'd be living their own life while you're in school and living with your parents (and maybe they are too).
 

Jovip

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Yeaa, 16 year old dating 21 year old is pedophilia. i mean there is no justified reason for that to be happening on the older ones part. seeing as the 21 year old should be mature enough and know the emotional and physical insecurity of a bloody 16 year old. i mean really? how desperate do you need to be? the 16 year old is obviously going to date the 21 year old but that's because the 16 year old (have to refer to ages, you didn't provide genders)is younger, wants to be seen as more mature and dating some drastically older and more progressed them themselves despite the obviously misjudged action wants that feeling.

Now, onto me. I'm actually 16 now. seeing this. i wouldn't date anyone older then 18 nor would i date anyone below 16 simply due to relate ability. i have many friends in college who are 20-25 but i wouldn't date them. it's hard to "date" someone who's life is so different to yours seeing as dating imply s you become a large aspect of someone else s life. however a sexual relationship can me maintained between anyone who wants it to, or not in some disturbing cases. therefore, i believe people should date reasonably within their life choices not age. age is such a silly way to determine maturity.
 

Tiger Sora

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At 16, no thanks. Once I hit 21 in afew months people within 3 years is fine.

Capatcha: Knock on wood ] Really I'll never find love..... well least I'll save some money there but I'll never give up!!!!!!
 

FateOrFatality

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I actually turn sixteen in a couple of days, and to be honest I would get with a twenty something. I definitely wouldn't date one, though.

As for below? Probably a 15 year old only. Any lower is getting pretty weird.
 

Wuggy

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I only date half level plus intelligence modifier.

No seriously though, at 16 I'd go for 1 or 2 years younger or older.
 

SL33TBL1ND

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The way you work it out is by halving your age and adding 7, that will give you your lowest that you can acceptably date. It stops working if you're too young, though.
 

ethan22122

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I'm 16, and my age range goes from about 1-2 years either above, or below, but mostly just 1 year.
 

ghostrider409895

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If I were sixteen, I would not go below fifteen. As for higher, I would not go higher than eighteen.

I say that I will not go lower than a year less only because it gets creepy to date people that are young when you are already in high school. It might not matter as much later in life, but at sixteen, you are a young adult - able to drive and looking foward to only two more years of high school - and dating someone more than a year younger at this time involves you with someone who still has years left, and is in a different world, a different mindset, with problems that you cannot relate to. While you worry about prom and passing finals, they are worried about acne flares.

I say that one should not go over eighteen for a similar reason, only in this case you are the younger one. You are still worried about grades and tests. You are probably living with your parents, and maybe starting up a job. Older than eighteen, you are dealing with someone that could be in colledge. They might be living alone, already with a steady job. They are done with school if they choose to, and there is even legal matters due to the difference in age.

Anyway, that is my thoughts on the subject. Like I said, the range of dating grows as you get older - as the differences in daily life is not as dependent on age - and at that point you can focus a bit more on finding someone, rather than multi-tasking with school and such. In short, at 16 I would date 15 to 18.
 

TheCommie12

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my friend is 16, and she thinks that a true relationship is dating a 24yr old over msn, and he's in a different country to me and her
 

MorsePacific

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I'm nearly 19, so I'd probably go anywhere from 17-23. I really do find it weird when people date really far out of their age range.

Edit: Guess how hard I misread the topic.

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If I was sixteen, I'd go from 15-18.
 

Twilight_guy

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I think that statutory rape... consult your local laws and possibly inform your friend to keep it under his hat (double entendre, giggity).
I would obey laws regarding ages and rape and such (curse my lawful good side) but other then that I don't really mind so long as it's true love (curse my romantic side).
 

s0m3th1ng

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The age limit is a sliding scale as you get older. At 16 it would be within a year or two. At 40, anything within a decade is alright.
80, anything is fair game...which is why octogenarians have more sex than all of us.
 

loc978

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When I was sixteen, I would have gladly fucked Meg Ryan (who was thirty-five at the time). I currently put my low cut-off at the nice'n legal eighteen, but realistically it's twenty-one a vast majority of the time (I'm currently thirty).
As for dating... I never saw the point.
 

foolish snails

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I'm 17 and I get A LOT of crap for dating a girl only one year older than me. I also got a lot of crap for dating a girl 2 years younger than me when I was 16. It doesn't bother me, but most people seem to think that when you're around that age there is a larger difference.
 

LooK iTz Jinjo

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At 16 I'd go 2 years either way, anymore than that you're getting iffy. Right now as a 20 year old I'd go 3 years below and just out of personal preference probably wouldn't go higher than 2-3 older.