Sniper Team 4 said:
Summed up while I like Dark Souls. The world and the lore were just incredible.
But God DAMMIT I could not get far in that game. While everyone else loved the difficulty and was able to eventually breeze through it, I could not get the hang of it. I guess I built my character wrong or something, but I agree that the intro could have been a bit more forgiving. I tried and tried and tried, but eventually I realized it just wasn't worth the stress the game was causing me. I keep thinking that I'll go back to it one day...
Dark Souls II is looking pretty fun, and hearing that it's been adjusted for new players gives me hope that maybe I'll be able to get the hang of this one.
Couple tips to make it easier:
1) Make sure you're playing with a controller. I suggest the Xbox controller. I hate the PS3 controller (great in 1996/98, not so much in 2014). I play now on PC so a controller there is required. Console I guess would depend on your console.
2) Read some guides and do not feel bad about it. Dark Souls isn't a game that you have to play blind unless you really just want to claim some sort of pseudo-ironman bullshit.
3) Replay the opening tutorial section. Delete. Repeat. Delete. Repeat. Get it to where you can breeze through it in about 3 minutes or less. It will get you really used to the movement controls and some of the basic game mechanics.
4) Get a light/medium shield and practice blocking and parrying on the undead on the way up to the burg. Clear them several times. Get used to the timing of block, parry, and dodge on basic enemies and you'll be more comfortable with the timing on others.
5) Jump back and forth between the burg path from Firelink and the lower section of the bridge/aquaduct before you enter (where you can see the corpse with the shining loot object). It will get you used to dash/jump timing.
6) Drake Sword. (Shoot the tail of the Hellkite Wyvern (the big red dragon thing) until it falls off). Not my favorite weapon, or one I used, but it is overpowered for when it is obtainable and will make things a lot easier.
7) Use Hellkite Wyvern (see above) at the bridge to get a lot of early easy exp. Once you get to this point and unlock the shortcut/ladder to that first bonfire, just go up onto the bridge and as soon as you hear a rumble, run back down inside. Hellkite will torch all the undead on the bridge and you get free exp. Rest at the bonfire and rinse/repeat for a little while.
General tips:
Blind corners are not your friend. Ever. Assume any corner you can't see around has an enemy hiding there. Step in/roll back immediately. Never run blindly into a hallway, room, or alley you can't see completely.
Watch the ground. Watch ahead of you. Traps are *really* obvious in this game. You just have to watch for pressure plates or giant boulders that happen to be sitting around on some incline above you.
Poise: Your ability to resist knockback/stagger on damage. Low poise means you'll be pushed back more by blocked attacks and your attack/casting is more likely to be interrupted. High poise means you'll be able to attack through being hit. Very good in PVP, but has its uses in PVE.
Shield stability: The higher a shield's stability, the less endurance it requires to block an attack. A shield with 100% physical damage resistance and high stability can fully block MOST of the physical attacks from most of the game's monsters, including bosses, with minimal endurance requirement. The Greatshield of Artorius (requires Sif's Soul) is the best turtling shield in the game, in my opinion, if that style of gameplay appeals to you (I prefer blocking to rolling, personally). If you want a solid turtling shield, use Sif's soul for this on your first playthrough. Do not get one of the two sword options, especially not the "True" Greatsword of Artorius, which is only really effective at around level 200+. At least the cursed version of the Greatsword can hit ghosts...
Get to know "movesets" of each of the weapons you run across. There is a lot out there about DPS, sustained, single-hit and other weapon stats, but what really should matter is if you and a weapon's attacks just sorta "click." On my first PC playthrough (after a couple plays through on XBox360), I discovered the Black Knight Halberd. For me, it owned PVE (sucks in PVP btw). Practice each one around Firelink.
Balance the weight of your equipment. Above 50% of your weight capacity, your character will "fatroll." It's kinda awful. At less than 50%, you will "midroll" which is significantly better, but still is a bit slow to recover. At less than 25% (and in a couple increments to 0%) you will "fast roll," which allows you to dodge/roll several times quickly to avoid damage and get out of dodge. Find what works for you and balance the weight of your equipment around that. There is a reason a lot of players are seen practically naked. Having really powerful heavy armor isn't necessarily what will work best for you. Personally, I'm a mid-roller.
Some quick thoughts (relatively) that help explain some of the game's more odd mechanics.