Then you're not reallly in a relashionship, sorry. Relationships do not become real until you have known each other in person for at least some time, and certainly not until you have personally met.snowfi6916 said:snip
Now, none of this has happened yet, because we are also long distance, so we have only talked over the Internet.
Meet the transgender community, in all its foamy-mouthed glory.Grach said:I love how a absolutely throwaway joke made this thread burst into flames like powdered plutonium.
Nice shitposting. Care to explain exactly why you have a problem with my post?team star pug said:snowfi6916 said:I usually enjoy Yahtzee's videos, but his joke about transgender people really fucking bothered me.
Why? Because my girlfriend is trans.
I've told her how much I love her on many occasions. I had to have an honest heart-to-heart with myself, because I want to have sex with her and make her happy, but it will be a while before she can have her surgery (she wants everything, the HRT therapy and the SRS surgery).
So yeah, I decided that right now, her penis is part of who she is, and I want to make her happy. So yes, I would be willing to do that for her.
Obviously, I would prefer vaginal sex (I mean hell, she told me she not only wants a vagina for herself, but because she wants to "ride me so fucking badly", which made me blush). But it's funny... I don't like dudes. I like women. And even though my girlfriend wasn't born one, I see her as one, because she acts like one and sees herself as one.
So, I look at it like I'm sucking my girlfriend's penis. =) I have yet to come to terms with my homosexuality.
Now, none of this has happened yet, because we are also long distance, so we have only talked over the Internet. But holy hell, every time I talk to her I get that warm tingly love feeling. Not just sexually aroused... it's more than that.
So yeah, I know this is the Escapist, and I know people will come out and call me gay for wanting to make my girlfriend happy because I love her. Don't care. I just wanted to say why Yahtzee's joke upset me.
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Miroluck said:So I guess the world has to adhere to what YOUR definition of a relationship is?JimB said:Then you're not reallly in a relashionship, sorry. Relationships do not become real until you have known each other in person for at least some time, and certainly not until you have personally met.
Hate to spoil your happiness, but if she asks to help her with money or something - do not send her anything under any circumstances and stop contacting her immediately. Too many conmen use that method now.
Also, she and I are in an open relationship, meaning we can see other people if we want to, given the distance. It's just that neither of us wants to.
snowfi6916 said:So I guess the world has to adhere to what YOUR definition of a relationship is?Miroluck said:Then you're not reallly in a relashionship, sorry. Relationships do not become real until you have known each other in person for at least some time, and certainly not until you have personally met.
Hate to spoil your happiness, but if she asks to help her with money or something - do not send her anything under any circumstances and stop contacting her immediately. Too many conmen use that method now.
I did not mean that you're not in ANY relationships right now - I just meant that this particular one looks flimsy.snowfi6916 said:Also, she and I are in an open relationship, meaning we can see other people if we want to, given the distance. It's just that neither of us wants to.
I doesn't matter what someone identifies as. A male is biologically male. Their chromosomes are XY. Putting on a dress and wearing makeup is not going to change that.JimB said:No, people are saying Mr. Croshaw, and you, and any outside observer, don't get to say someone who identifies as female is male. Gender dysphoria is a real thing, and being born with the wrong kind of crotch does happen. I don't think it's what Mr. Croshaw is describing in his joke, but as far as the whole "If she says she's a woman, then she's a woman" statement goes, I support it.Reeve said:Are people really saying in this thread that it wouldn't be homosexual behavior for a guy to suck off another guy just because he's going to have a sex change at some point in the future?
It's the 21st century. Your standards of what a "real" relationship constitutes are a little outdated.Miroluck said:It actually was in "50 cent: Blood on The Sand" review. http://www.escapistmagazine.com/videos/view/zero-punctuation/616-50-Cent-Blood-on-the-Sand
Then you're not reallly in a relashionship, sorry. Relationships do not become real until you have known each other in person for at least some time, and certainly not until you have personally met.snowfi6916 said:snip
Now, none of this has happened yet, because we are also long distance, so we have only talked over the Internet.
Hate to spoil your happiness, but if she asks to help her with money or something - do not send her anything under any circumstances and stop contacting her immediately. Too many conmen use that method now.
Yep! Taking definitions that have had clear and meaningful biological definitions for hundreds if not thousands of years and dashing them to the rocks is a tactic that will only bring disaster on those who attempt it. If only they were wise enough to see their follyReeve said:This reminds me of the Jimquistion where Jim pointed out that, just because the Asari are supposed to be genderless, does not make Femshepard having sex with Liara any less lesbian. That's because the Asari to have a human female form. The same principle applies to a man sucking off someone who has the form of a man.
What do you mean? What, in 2001 ALL of the standards just magically shifted for no reason and with no explanation?JudgeGame said:It's the 21st century. Your standards of what a "real" relationship constitutes are a little outdated.Miroluck said:It actually was in "50 cent: Blood on The Sand" review. http://www.escapistmagazine.com/videos/view/zero-punctuation/616-50-Cent-Blood-on-the-Sand
Then you're not reallly in a relashionship, sorry. Relationships do not become real until you have known each other in person for at least some time, and certainly not until you have personally met.snowfi6916 said:snip
Now, none of this has happened yet, because we are also long distance, so we have only talked over the Internet.
Hate to spoil your happiness, but if she asks to help her with money or something - do not send her anything under any circumstances and stop contacting her immediately. Too many conmen use that method now.
I define it as simply wanting to be together and loving each other. Distance, physical contact, all that stuff is important, and if we want it to work we WILL need that at some point, but it doesn't mean we don't have a relationship.Miroluck said:snowfi6916 said:Miroluck said:So I guess the world has to adhere to what YOUR definition of a relationship is?JimB said:Then you're not reallly in a relashionship, sorry. Relationships do not become real until you have known each other in person for at least some time, and certainly not until you have personally met.
Hate to spoil your happiness, but if she asks to help her with money or something - do not send her anything under any circumstances and stop contacting her immediately. Too many conmen use that method now.
First, I do not insist on anything. This was just an advice. Sure, you are free to use your own definitions - just don't complain if something bad happens as a result.
Second, it is not "my definition", I simply use definition that is already widely known.
Also, world will not "adhere" to anything anyway.
And you have never said what your definition of relationship is. Do tell how you define it, if that's not too hard.
An open relationship doesn't mean that we aren't committed to each other. I have seen relationships like this work. I have a transwoman friend of mine who was married to her wife before coming out, and now also has a boyfriend. Her wife is totally fine with it, and her boyfriend is totally fine with it.Miroluck said:I did not mean that you're not in ANY relationships right now - I just meant that this particular one looks flimsy.
Another red flag - "open relationships". Under that trendy convinient pharse people simply hide their unwillingness to have commitment or responsibilities to their partner. Or just fornication - if person don't like anything, they can simply bail at any time.
Why would you even consider dating others if you and your gf are compatible and are committed to each other?
Internet dating has been pretty normal for the last few decades and I know a lot of people who never met their partner for years and eventually got married anfd started a family.Miroluck said:What do you mean? What, in 2001 ALL of the standards just magically shifted for no reason and with no explanation?JudgeGame said:It's the 21st century. Your standards of what a "real" relationship constitutes are a little outdated.Miroluck said:It actually was in "50 cent: Blood on The Sand" review. http://www.escapistmagazine.com/videos/view/zero-punctuation/616-50-Cent-Blood-on-the-Sand
Then you're not really in a relashionship, sorry. Relationships do not become real until you have known each other in person for at least some time, and certainly not until you have personally met.snowfi6916 said:snip
Now, none of this has happened yet, because we are also long distance, so we have only talked over the Internet.
Hate to spoil your happiness, but if she asks to help her with money or something - do not send her anything under any circumstances and stop contacting her immediately. Too many conmen use that method now.
Apparently, 21st century simply cannot exist without debauchery because without it, everything will revert to Dark Ages.