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You've just stumbled upon the Galbrush Paradox
Like I said on page 1, how is it that guys can be seen as weak, unintelligent, ineffective, awkward, cowardly, and childish, and it becomes a fun source of comedy for everyone to laugh at and nobody has a problem with it.
But oh no, it's a big problem to have a girl have any of these qualities. Women must always be presented in the best possible positive light and can't be depicted with any flaws, because then gets taken as some sort of an attack on
all women by certain people.
If you can't handle a depiction of women being weak or unintelligent in media, maybe you should learn to laugh at yourself the same way you laugh at all these male losers in works of fiction. Somehow, men aren't frothing at the mouth over the Homer Simpsons in media. Maybe you could take a page from their book.