8th grade Girls Attack/Strip 11-Year-Old Boy
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If the genders were reversed, three male middle-schoolers doing this to a fifth grade girl, they'd have so many charges put against them, they'd never see daylight again. Child pornography, attempted rape, sexual assault... fucking double standard.
i think the mother is doing the wrong thing by not pressing charges.triggrhappy94 said:
the girls get off with out punishment.
the boy might think he must have done something to deserve being "pranked"
also charging them might give all involved closure
it might prevent others from bullying cause they know it will be punished.
what if down the line the boy needs therapy, might be too late to go after damages if no charges were pressed?
The situation his mother is looking at is the same one that causes rape cases to not be brought to light also. They are victimized again by having to testify in court. Standing up and facing your assailants and having to be cross examined even if they go easy on you because of your age/situation is still additional trauma and stress. I wouldn't want to do it as an adult and it is not a decision I would make lightly as a parent. Not everyone has the strength of personality to pull through it better than they started. Even if he didn't have to testify, the amount of time of the whole trauma would have to be drawn out. You could be talking years with the way lawyers can hold things up.
The most power his mother can give back to him is allowing him involvement in that decision. Everyone else should respect that decision, she knows the whole situation, and be thankful it isn't one you have to make in reality.
The most power his mother can give back to him is allowing him involvement in that decision. Everyone else should respect that decision, she knows the whole situation, and be thankful it isn't one you have to make in reality.
Correction: He wasn't screaming like a little girl, he was screaming like a child.viranimus said:
You know what one is at eleven years, viranimus? A child.
You know what happens to grizzled veterans who get mauled by guys twice their size (or simply enough big guys), viranimus? They scream like little girls. They scream like children.
In the US, we know this, thanks to our enhanced interrogation policies. SEALS, revolutionaries, Special Forces, terrorists. All scream like little girls as you put it. Marines; beg for mercy. Army Rangers, make up what they can, just to get it to stop. That's why we put them through SERE training; we don't hold up against torture like John Rambo or Morpheus. We just don't.
May you never breed, viranimus. For sake of your children, may your genes, your surname and culture die out with your generation.
238U.
luckily its not a she said he said, they dumb asses made a video of there assault, pretty clear cut, they can probably take it to court with out having to directly involve the boy.JezebelinHell said:
the boy would tell his story to the lawyer, the lawyer will talk for his behalf with out the kid being present, these cases often have that happen.
Really I cna't wait for /b/ to get these girl's IDs. I may not agree with most of the hacking done today but I can't really see a downside to this. Post it publically and let the games begin.
More on topic, I can't believe that these girls are going to get away with this shit, just because the victim's mother doesn't want to press charges. What about the son? What does he want? These girls need to be held responsible for their crime and so do their parents.
PS This happened in a public area in broad daylight...and no one else saw anything else? No one noticed a naked 11-year old boy being attacked by three older girls? BULLSHIT. People saw and people said, it's just harmless fun, he's probalby enjoying it etc etc. And its that mind set that gets me so mad . Call me sexist or whatever, but the feminist movement is focused on only adding the positive sides of equality (nothing wrong with that) while carefully picking around the negatives that come with it (responsiblity, accountibility, etc.)
More on topic, I can't believe that these girls are going to get away with this shit, just because the victim's mother doesn't want to press charges. What about the son? What does he want? These girls need to be held responsible for their crime and so do their parents.
PS This happened in a public area in broad daylight...and no one else saw anything else? No one noticed a naked 11-year old boy being attacked by three older girls? BULLSHIT. People saw and people said, it's just harmless fun, he's probalby enjoying it etc etc. And its that mind set that gets me so mad . Call me sexist or whatever, but the feminist movement is focused on only adding the positive sides of equality (nothing wrong with that) while carefully picking around the negatives that come with it (responsiblity, accountibility, etc.)
Eye for an eye is one thing, but this is flat out sexual assault/harassment. Let the girls be charged as sex offenders and have that title part of their record for life. Let the punishment fit the crime, I don't care who committed it. The boy's mother should be trying to set a good example for him by having the girls charged and telling him that no matter what happens he should do the right thing, in this case pressing charges.
I'll say the same thing I said when I read this yesterday. I hate double standards, and everyone has rights that should not be violated. Double standards are bullshit, be the victim/attacker male or female.
This is sexual assault at best no matter how you attempt to slice it. Women can rape, they can use force to coerce someone, they can inflict severe emotional trauma, and we're pretty much capable of doing all the things guys can do given the right circumstances. (superior numbers/strength in this case)
I'm pissed at the police for not pressing charges. I'm no legal student, but if they have video evidence and know that abuse happened can't they file charges? I mean they have video evidence. This sets a precedent that extremely emotionally damaging bullying is okay in some cases, when it never is.
This is sexual assault at best no matter how you attempt to slice it. Women can rape, they can use force to coerce someone, they can inflict severe emotional trauma, and we're pretty much capable of doing all the things guys can do given the right circumstances. (superior numbers/strength in this case)
I'm pissed at the police for not pressing charges. I'm no legal student, but if they have video evidence and know that abuse happened can't they file charges? I mean they have video evidence. This sets a precedent that extremely emotionally damaging bullying is okay in some cases, when it never is.
That does not make it fast. They will drag it out. They will be tried together, they will have to be tried separately, they will not be able to find a jury, they will need a different venue, blah, blah, blah... It will not be quick regardless of the evidence.tofulove said:
Who the hell stands around and watches that, thinking it's okay? The news claims there were 'many' spectators. There had to be at least an adult home, or watching from a window. Somebody somewhere. They were either in the mind-set that it's okay because it's girls doing it to a boy, or those adults were that scared of three tween girls they couldn't try to stop this boy's public harassment, humiliation, and blatant sexual assault.
I honestly don't know which makes me more sick. The girls should be punished by the law, and boy's Mother is just letting them get away with it. I just...I....*puts index fingers to temples and exhales*
I honestly don't know which makes me more sick. The girls should be punished by the law, and boy's Mother is just letting them get away with it. I just...I....*puts index fingers to temples and exhales*
And the 3 girls are laughing their pants off when they do it... so hilarious.
I would say this kind of thing does happen, except for the pants off part (where it was already humiliating beforehand), with beatings, where kids wouldn't get charged and may get a suspension/expulsion at best. Some find having your 11 year old self nude in public less humiliating (heck, he hasn't even hit puberty yet and may start to worry about these things) than having the snot beaten out of you when someone younger/your age does it 'oh be a man fight back rar rar rar'.
E.g. if this was 3 girls younger than him, say he was 13-14, and they did this, the humiliation would be so much greater for him.
The double standard is only in the mother, for being such an idiot. Someone should've raised her properly as she's got a screw loose, you do not want to set a societal example that this thing is allowed. I remember reading somewhere that the bible has the victim disgraced in the case of rape in cities because clearly they brought it upon themselves, so maybe that's why she's doing it? (I'm not christian so I don't know so take this with a grain of salt).
Land of the 'free' indeed.
I would say this kind of thing does happen, except for the pants off part (where it was already humiliating beforehand), with beatings, where kids wouldn't get charged and may get a suspension/expulsion at best. Some find having your 11 year old self nude in public less humiliating (heck, he hasn't even hit puberty yet and may start to worry about these things) than having the snot beaten out of you when someone younger/your age does it 'oh be a man fight back rar rar rar'.
E.g. if this was 3 girls younger than him, say he was 13-14, and they did this, the humiliation would be so much greater for him.
The double standard is only in the mother, for being such an idiot. Someone should've raised her properly as she's got a screw loose, you do not want to set a societal example that this thing is allowed. I remember reading somewhere that the bible has the victim disgraced in the case of rape in cities because clearly they brought it upon themselves, so maybe that's why she's doing it? (I'm not christian so I don't know so take this with a grain of salt).
Land of the 'free' indeed.
