A question for girls...

[TheGreatGonzo26]

There's a difference between "making out with each other" and "playfully grabbing each other".

-Kissing: sign of affection, not just reserved for the opposite sex. In some countries, a small peck on the cheek(s) is a standard greeting.

-Grabbing each other: some girls get to the point in their friendships that they are comfortable with being grabbed in an affectionate way by other girls. What you may see as manhandling, they find perfectly acceptable.

 

[jamesworkshop]

I go to an all guy school and would fuckin love if girls came over here to make out. On a more mature note yes I have seen some girls do the hug and little kiss thing. Only once have I've seen like a full on make out and i'm not gonna lie it was very... lets say arousing. One of my girl friends who was at the party later talked to me and called them attention whores so i guess some girls don't like it when girls do it to get guys attention.

Girls never like it if other girls get more attention than they do

 

[whaleswiththumbs]

Is it true that girls are more open minded than guys? I was having a conversation with a ladyfriend and she was telling me how girls like to grab each others chest and make out just for the hell of it. And I asked, "Doesn't that make you gay?" and she told me, "No its just that girls are just more playful than guys and are more open minded."

And I have seen that first hand, back in high school the girls that I knew were always chasing each other trying to grab each others chest and would give each other a good morning kiss or a goodbye kiss.

So I'm just wondering if all girls are like that or if its just where I live?

Edit:BTW I asked those girls if they do it for attention which they replied, "No we don't care what people think of us, we just do it cuz its fun."

No offence, and i know you will anyway. But those sir are called hoes.

 

[crypt-creature]

When girls/women do those sorts of things, most people don't seem to care. For the most part it's tolerated and accepted.
They do it 'because they can' or for attention.

When guys do it, it's seen as odd and unnatural unless it's socially expected/accepted (a formal greeting in some cultures).

I don't care either way, and don't see the attraction to it all.

 

[MoganFreeman]

Edit:BTW I asked those girls if they do it for attention which they replied, "No we don't care what people think of us, we just do it cuz its fun."

That is mostly likely a lie.

 

[swolf]

I think the making out deal is done partially because it is kinda taboo in the way that it's not seen everyday and that it doesn't receive the same negative stigma that male homosexuality is sometimes viewed as (some people saying "you're not a real man" etc). And the attention is a big boost. Either they have latent attraction towards each other or are doing it for attention. To find out if it's really for attention you could just ask if they do it when other people are not around. If so, it's probably attraction or fun. If not, it's likely attention.

 

[swolf]

Is it true that girls are more open minded than guys? I was having a conversation with a ladyfriend and she was telling me how girls like to grab each others chest and make out just for the hell of it. And I asked, "Doesn't that make you gay?" and she told me, "No its just that girls are just more playful than guys and are more open minded."

And I have seen that first hand, back in high school the girls that I knew were always chasing each other trying to grab each others chest and would give each other a good morning kiss or a goodbye kiss.

So I'm just wondering if all girls are like that or if its just where I live?

Edit:BTW I asked those girls if they do it for attention which they replied, "No we don't care what people think of us, we just do it cuz its fun."

No offence, and i know you will anyway. But those sir are called hoes.

Why do they consider them hoes? Not trying to start an argument, just wondering.

 

[swolf]

Me and my guy friends act gay, we are not though

I'd be careful with that. I used to do that with a married friend only to find out later that he had been cheating on his wife with a few guys. NOT COOL!!! I was just playing around and, no, before the revelation he never did anything to indicate true homosexuality.

 

[Doitpow]

Two of my straight girls-friends have been having sex for years.

 

[snide_cake]

I've always believed that deep down, all women are at least a tiny bit bisexual.

I believe that too. What person doesn't like the gentle touch of a woman?

However I also believe all people are inherantly bisexual. Just depends what end of the spectrum they're dabbling in at the time to what sexuality they align themselves as.

 

[Kenni-chan]

Do you really want a n answer for a girl that openly addmitts that she'd go down on the Witch?

But yeah me and a lot of my friends are like that

 

[rddj623]

Not universal at all. I have friends who are girls who would never be comfortable with that sort of behavior and I have friends who are girls who kiss each other and grab each others boobs for fun all the time.

 

[whaleswiththumbs]

Is it true that girls are more open minded than guys? I was having a conversation with a ladyfriend and she was telling me how girls like to grab each others chest and make out just for the hell of it. And I asked, "Doesn't that make you gay?" and she told me, "No its just that girls are just more playful than guys and are more open minded."

And I have seen that first hand, back in high school the girls that I knew were always chasing each other trying to grab each others chest and would give each other a good morning kiss or a goodbye kiss.

So I'm just wondering if all girls are like that or if its just where I live?

Edit:BTW I asked those girls if they do it for attention which they replied, "No we don't care what people think of us, we just do it cuz its fun."

No offence, and i know you will anyway. But those sir are called hoes.

Why do they consider them hoes? Not trying to start an argument, just wondering.

Because no girl I've ever known, well enough to know what they'd do, would be.. nice words, searching.. loose(?) I could never walk in on two of them kissing, maybe feeling on each otehr, but in a totally non-sexual place and way.

 

[kickyourass]

Why the fuck can't I know girls like that? It's just not fair.

PS. That doesn't make them Gay, it makes them Bisexual just to clarify.

 

[Susan Arendt]

First off: Girls who do that are almost always doing it for attention, plain and simple, whether they claim otherwise or not. That said, it is far more socially acceptable for women to be physically affectionate with each other than it is for men to be, because that is seen as nurturing (read: feminine) behavior.

Guys are so worried about being judged as unmanly, because they're looked down on for showing practically any emotion other than anger or lust. (Unless it's their family.) Think about it: a girl sees her friend, gives her a hug hello, no big deal at all. A guy does the same thing, he gets called "fag". (He can, perhaps, do the shoulder bump or shake hands, but that's about it.) It's really unfair, honestly. So it's not so much that girls are more open-minded than boys, it's just that they're allowed to be more openly affectionate than boys.

 

[Pokenator]

If you took an average of girls, it would be true, but thats not to say EVERY girl is more open than EVERY guy. I'm sure most girls have been groped by their friends at one stage or another, and most would return it rather than sitting there getting offended.

 

[zehydra]

btw, sexual preferences and really preferences or taste of any kind has NOTHING TO DO WITH OPEN MINDEDNESS. Open mindedness is the ability to be able to accept that there are alternative points of view that have an equal potential for validity as your own.

 

[MelziGurl]

I've never come across it. Sure, I joke with my friends about that kind of thing, but never follow through on it. If all they are doing is grabbing each other and giving innocent little pecks on the cheeks, lips whatever it is they do then it might be a case of over-the-top affection. But, I have this urge to swing to the opinion of the girls being bisexual and in denial. The only girls I ever saw getting that affectionate with each other, were the lesbians and bisexuals I knew.

 

[Elexia]

I can't say I've ever grabbed my friends and made out with them. Maybe it's just the culture I grew up in because other girls at my school would hold hands, hug, and kiss rather openly in the schoolyard and now most of them are married.

 

[p3t3r]

u got some fun girls around there buddy i wouldn't really worry about it. but around here girls aren't really into grabbing each others chests and making out. but there was this one time when some girls i know where hanging out and drinking and there were no guys around so um there was some girl on girl action. luckily me and some friends were around the next time to stop it from happening