depends on the type of metal. Crash metal just makes me put my fingers in my ears, screamo metal can be good, unless the screaming is just throughout the song. i like it when its just used to emphasise certain lyrics or to make me jump xD
I can kinda dig classic metal too, but most of the time it bores me. and i always used to associate metal with people who were trying to hard to convince themselves they were cool (you know the type, the ones at school who always have that blank sort of expression, the ones with the very pronounced lisp and who always make up stories about having fun doing horrific things with their non-existant 7 feet tall friends called "killer" or "hunter". the ones who only listened to metal music because they thought that would make them cool or badass) and due to that stereotype i made in my head, its been hard for me to get into.
plus, i'm far too much into happy-go-lucky Ska music, where the lyrics can be about how depressed the dude is and how he wants to kill everyone or rape them, but i barely notice because the trombones are making rainbow-super-happy-fun-land noises
I'd say i've got a wide taste to music, i can listen to almost anything if the people i'm with are enjoying it. there are obviously exceptions to this, most hardcore techno i don't understand, re-mixes can be annoying and i think that the best rap songs have already been created, so people should stop bothering... okay, so i'm a lot more limited than i say... but hey, least I'm not a liar.
my friend says he's got a wide taste of music and doesn't really hate any style. but he's a lying tosser, soon as a bit of pop comes on or techno, he goes on about how its not music. urrm, yes it is dumbass, its called music you don't like. I wish he'd get his head out of his arse, stop being all "i've got the soul of jaaaaaaazz maaaaan" (which is ironically about the only thing he listens to nowadays without complaining) and admit that actually, he's very narrow minded when it comes to music.
anyway, i don't really know where this post really came from, most of it seems a bit irrelevant reading through it. happy reading though