Complete Paragon, full ship enhancement, loyalty of all my members, and saved every person of my crew. And yes, I pissed off the Illusive Man. I've only played a female Shepard for an hour, and I didn't really like it, probably because I tried starting a new game right after finishing it so I was getting a bit bored with it.
What really surprised me was that I looked to my crew for specialization for when I assigned them tasks during the final mission. I didn't just give the task to a random person. I had Mordin take the crew back to the ship because I figure he could examine the crewmates to see if they were alright. When we needed to split the team, I put Garrus in charge of the other team because I felt he had more experience being a leader than other members of the team. When I needed someone to hold up a barrier, I chose Jack because of her immense amount of power. When I needed someone to hack a door, I chose Legion because I can't think of someone who would be better at hacking a machine than a machine.
I grew close to all of my teammates and actually even trusted them even though they are just poorly programmed AIs. I started the game already knowing a bulk of who the characters were and I only liked a couple, and I really didn't like Jack. But by the time I finished the game, I felt sorry for the traumatic past Jack went through and grew to love all of the characters for who they were.
Except Zaeed. I never really liked him and his loyalty mission just made me dislike him even more. He just seems like a sad excuse for a human being.
And I boned Miranda. Too bad Liara wasn't in your squad in ME2. <3