Nice Gif XDRastien said:SHORYUKEN!
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And yet, he's a bus driver.SmashLovesTitanQuest said:My friends dad is a busdriver and he's one of the most alpha motherfuckers I know.
Consequences? Nah, they happen to OTHER people!katsabas said:The other thing you have to do and that is when you hit someone, which I think she did from what I can make of the vids, is be ready to take the blow. What did she think he was gonna do ? You have to assume the worst in these situations.
I do, or rather did, while I lived downtown without wheels. And I cannot imagine that taking place on any of the buses I took. People would have said something, at least. It would have been harder for her to antagonize him, if she also had a mob of people telling her to back off and shut up.Souleks said:You don't ride public transport do you? Nobody ever does anything.the December King said:If it is true about her having hit and spit on him while he was driving, then I agree that she had to go - to try and do your job while someone assaults you is ridiculous. The punch might have been excessive, granted, but quickly removing her from the bus was warranted.
I'm more shocked that no one intervened in any appreciable capacity to stop this before it escalated to the point it did.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bystander_effect
Well, she decided to use force on him while he was driving the bus filled with plenty other passengers - if I am allowed to use and apply your logic here, her actions could have seriously injured or even killed an easy dozen or two dozen people, including the bus driver that was just doing his job before she decided to throw a fit on his bus.Uhura said:He clearly uses excessive force in handling the situation. She could have sustained serious injuries from that punch and I think it's pretty sad that so many people here seem to think that the driver's actions were somehow justified and reasonable.
Obviously you are viewing a different video than the one I saw. Is the driver attacking in self-defense? No, I agree he is not, this was definitely retaliaton. However, if someone is infuriated, as the driver clearly was with this woman especially after she struck him, I am not surprised if they fly off the handle and overreact. That is exactly what happened here. The driver was fed up and punched this woman who had driven him verbally and physically to the brink. Hell, I'd call it temporary insanity.Vrex360 said:I've seen the full version of this video and I can tell you right now that this is NOT 'self defence'. The girl was being aggressive and unreasonable and bitchy, this is true. However she was also clearly backing off and moving away when he got up[, he wasn't defending himself. He was just retaliating in anger.
Also justify this to me righteous defenders of this guy's right to "self defence" did you see the part of the video in the official police report where after he knocks her down with violent force that sends her to the ground he then proceeded to strangle her after she tried to get back up? He fucking tackled her and proceeded to attempt to strangle her while also slamming her against the wall over and over again and someone else had to pull him away to get him to stop. Rationalize how this is self defence because I'm drawing a blank.
After a heated confrontation, that she was moving away from, he upper cut her and she hit the ground and then he lunged at her attempting to strangle her while slamming her against the wall over and over again. Yeah he was really afraid for his safety... I'm sorry the girl may have been acting like an aggressive ***** but this guy is clearly mentally unhinged and possibly even a psychopath and it disturbs me that The Escapist leaps to celebrate him for beating up an unruly girl like he's some kind of hero.
There's a lot of stories like this from out of London - rarely attacks on the bus driver, though. Usually cases of gangs of teenagers kicking a lone victim almost to death while the most anybody reacts is to walk to the lower floor of the bus so they don't have to watch.the December King said:I do, or rather did, while I lived downtown without wheels. And I cannot imagine that taking place on any of the buses I took. People would have said something, at least. It would have been harder for her to antagonize him, if she also had a mob of people telling her to back off and shut up.Souleks said:You don't ride public transport do you? Nobody ever does anything.the December King said:If it is true about her having hit and spit on him while he was driving, then I agree that she had to go - to try and do your job while someone assaults you is ridiculous. The punch might have been excessive, granted, but quickly removing her from the bus was warranted.
I'm more shocked that no one intervened in any appreciable capacity to stop this before it escalated to the point it did.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bystander_effect
But this doesn't seem to be the same neighborhood as where I caught those buses. Maybe in the bigger cities it's a lot more like that, with the bystander effect?
... and in some fields, such as ANY tipped profession, it's the woman that makes the higher wage. And if you assume that men and women are equally honest in filing their taxes, this inequity will not show up on any gender gap analysis.COMaestro said:As far as the equality issue, sadly women and men are not always treated equally. There are still instances of a man and a woman having the same job, but the man making a higher wage.
At the highest levels, it's because women don't want them to be. If pro sports were desegregated, female athletes would collectively earn BILLIONS less per year than they do right now. This is not based on my wild imagination, this is based on simply examining the history of women competing in open sports at the highest levels.Heck, it's even easier to see in sports. Why are baseball/football/basketball/etc teams not co-ed?
Of course he had the right to remove her from the bus. The point is that he was using excessive force when doing it. She could have been seriously hurt! I feel like a lot of people here have really immature view on violence. The thing is that in real life people don't always get up unharmed after you punch or push them. Do you think that the driver wanted to kill the girl? Do you think he would have been happy and felt self-righteous if she had died or gotten seriously injured? Do you think he would have wanted such a stupid incident to ruin the lives of two people? I'd say the driver probably would have been devastated.Headdrivehardscrew said:Well, she decided to use force on him while he was driving the bus filled with plenty other passengers - if I am allowed to use and apply your logic here, her actions could have seriously injured or even killed an easy dozen or two dozen people, including the bus driver that was just doing his job before she decided to throw a fit on his bus.
Yes, hell yes his action of throwing her off the bus was justified. The uppercut, well, not so much, but it's difficult to keep a level head when you just about died because of one single crazy person.
What about in defense of life, family or property?him over there said:I'm going to skip all the gender bullshit and simply say this.
You can't fucking hit anybody. Like ever. It doesn't matter what the hell they say, being told fucking words doesn't give you jurisdiction to physically harm someone.
Well yeah, I was more trying to imply that you can't respond to a situation void of violence with violence. In defence implies somebody else has already introduced violence into the problem. I should have qualified my statement rather than assuming people would infer what I really meant.AlphaLackey said:What about in defense of life, family or property?him over there said:I'm going to skip all the gender bullshit and simply say this.
You can't fucking hit anybody. Like ever. It doesn't matter what the hell they say, being told fucking words doesn't give you jurisdiction to physically harm someone.
Thanks for lazily arguing from an absolute, by the way; but you missed the whole point I was trying to make. If I corner you and say I'm going to rip your f***ing head off in a manner that suggests I was serious, you would be very much justified in using violence to escape from the situation even though you would be, technically, throwing the first punch.him over there said:Well yeah, I was more trying to imply that you can't respond to a situation void of violence with violence. In defence implies somebody else has already introduced violence into the problem. I should have qualified my statement rather than assuming people would infer what I really meant.AlphaLackey said:What about in defense of life, family or property?him over there said:I'm going to skip all the gender bullshit and simply say this.
You can't fucking hit anybody. Like ever. It doesn't matter what the hell they say, being told fucking words doesn't give you jurisdiction to physically harm someone.
Thanks for picking that apart by the way.
As said on QI. "You have a crap job, I can fully understand why you'd be extremely angry"BiscuitTrouser said:A simple slap would probably knock her down. Of course we can say he was full of pent up rage (understandably).
If the price of TOTAL non hypocritical equality is to accept the negative aspects as well as the positives maybe (some) women are willing to do that. Maybe some of them are so sick of being told they have it better due to the lack of the draft when they personally wouldnt mind it that accepting it is a step away from tired old arguements.matthew_lane said:You do have it better off: If the greatest victimisation you had was NOT being sent of to die for a cause you don't care for, versus being FORCED to die for a cause you don't care for, then you are living in Bizzaro world, where hamburgers eat people & everyone wears there shoes on there heads.
Legitimately because the whole "Dont hit women" and "Women cant fight" and "Women are ALWAYS weaker than men" and "Women cant be drafted" all arise from the same stereotype about the perceived weakness of women these groups tend to try and target the one overarching problem. Its the same reason men who are abused by their wives cant be taken seriously in society. If this is a problem that affects both genders and, in my opinion, is a hurdle to womens rights in some peoples minds (for the reasons you stated about taking it seriously) then why dont YOU start advocating it too. I havnt seen any feminist groups say they DONT want the draft. Just a lack of campaigning for it. Which are not the same thing. To be fair the right of the draft is fairly pointless anyway. The problems of sexism in other areas matter a lot more to both genders since the draft is a purely hypothetical point at this point in time. When a draft is CALLED maybe we would see campaigning for it. Until then im sure youre more likely to see people fight a problem that IS hurting them rather than a problem that COULD hurt them in some fairly unlikely circumstances.matthew_lane said:Except we are a century on & during that time there has not been a single womens group or feminist group fighing for the right to be conscripted. IOh sure, they'll fight for osmething like VAWA, but Draft Rights, not a chance... An lets be honest, this is female privilege at its most obvious: All the benefits, none of the reponsibilities.
Did this female strike the male with the expectation that the male would strike back? No? There's all your evidence right there.BiscuitTrouser said:It isnt a question of gender. We have NO evidence this girl was abusing gender privilege to avoid the assault and get away with such inappropriate acts.
Well, okay.. you saying "even though she was striking him, he should not have struck her back" should be included too.Cmon that guy was huge, and fuck me sideways he KNOWS how to throw an uppercut. That girl was like 80 pounds? A simple slap would probably knock her down. Of course we can say he was full of pent up rage (understandably) but it doesn't excuse such extreme force. There are a LOT of ways someone with that much of a strength advantage could have physically removed or incapacitated her.
Do you suspect she will ever strike a man with the expectation that she should be immune from reprisal because of her gender? No? Looks like she learned a lesson, the same lesson I would learn if I struck someone twice my size while suspecting I could behind the equally quaint social expectation that "you don't hit someone with glasses".A good reason vigilante justice like this is discouraged is it now leaves us with a difficult question. The girl here has already been punished, pretty damn brutally, with a hefty uppercut to the jaw. Should we punish her AGAIN? Is DOUBLE punishment fair? Has she learnt her lesson?
I guarantee you, with the genders reversed, that's exactly what people would say. Even if the provocation isn't physical, you can "play for mainstream laughs" a woman lashing out after repeated provocation by a male. You can do it in sitcoms, in commercials, in movies, you name it.The thing is that if we "Praise" and "Encourage" such behavior people will think its more acceptable to lash out for lesser provocations that some psychopathic woman. We cant say that "Hitting someone in blind fury after they provoke is a good and just thing to do, it makes you a hero and you should be rewarded" because to be honest that sends a pretty piss poor lesson for what should be socially acceptable.